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Arlinda, 38
United States, Michigan, Saint Helen

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About Me

This is always the hard part.I am a simple, kind, down to earth, diverse, drama free, modest woman. I'm family and career orientated. I have never been married. I love football, playing pool, darts, dining out, movies, concerts, boating, traveling, and being with family and friends. I work in the IT field and have a stable career, home and vehicle. I am looking forward to doing more international traveling. I have found a love for the Caribbean. I would like to find someone that shares the same desire to travel. I try to get to the gym ***times a week. I will admit I can be lazy with this as I don't like working out alone. I like to be challenged and I have been known to be competitive at times. Within reason of course (I know my limits)How other would describe me: funny, out going, laid back, I appear flaky until I get to know you. I'm mysterious, and I like my time alone. I am very honest and forward but not rude about it. I am blend into any situation and get alone with almost anyone I come in contact with. I have a way of putting people to ease with my company, I don't like to be pressured or forced into anything. I like to let nature takes it's course. What I am looking for is someone without a felony, or done jail time. Who is a gentleman, goal orientated, open minded, who knows what a relationship is suppose to be about. I am not seeking my equal but some to balance out the relationship and add happiness. If you are jealous, and insecure we will have problems. I am secure with myself and want that in my partner as well. If you want to know more ask.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Chinese Indian Middle Eastern Adventure Family & Kids War
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