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Hellen, 38

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About Me

Welcome to my profile! You have made a very wise choice by clicking on this profile and consequently will be rewarded with fame, wisdom, money, and all your heart's greatest desires. Just kidding....I don't have that kind of power. But, if in fact you do win the lottery after clicking on this profile....you are required to split it with me : )!! Again, kidding. What am I looking for you ask? I am looking for someone to enjoy life with in a wonderful, fulfilling relationship. I want fun, excitement, and romance. Someone I can't wait to talk to every morning or anytime we get a chance. Someone who I can't wait to read their sweet little texts and them mine. I want to walk around holding hands all the time, smiling at each other. I want us to not be able to take our eyes off each other. I do prefer a true gentleman and I assure you chivalry is not dead! I want true, undeniable chemistry. There is nothing better than being connected with someone and being able to absolutely be yourself. I want to laugh and giggle constantly at inside jokes or anything that we find funny. I am very goofy and silly when I get comfortable with a man. I absolutely love to laugh..just fyi... I also love love love goofy stuff like Family Guy, Key and Peele, Squidbillies and Robot Chicken. I absolutely love Judd Apatow movies (Pineapple Express, Knocked Up, Superbad...etc.). My favorite movie is The Big Lebowski. My ultimate goal is a "till death do us part" relationship. (Bye...to those of you who are bailing now...lol.) I am being honest here. I have been in the dating scene for as long as I care to. I am ready to wake up to the same man every day for the rest of my life. I do not have any children, nor have I been married. I will survive if I do not have the chance to have children, but if the right man comes along that really wants to add to our family that is great too! Although I am not really into the bar scene, I absolutely love live music. That is something I really enjoy doing so plan on going to see some local live music and concerts--I am a concert freak! Just so you know, my kind of music is rock-n-roll baby!!...if it rocks I like it! "If it's too loud, your too old"...lol. I also very much wish to travel as much as we can. I would love to make it to a few exotic places before this story ends....I think Jimmy Buffet has the right idea. I do like and click well with affectionate, expressive people--love cards and flowers and nothing is too mushy for me. I love that kind of stuff. By the way, I would love you to introduce me to your hobbies. I may not become an expert, but I will give it a shot. I have really been wanting to learn to shoot lately. I love jet skis and going really fast in boats or cars..lol. Thanks for stopping by my profile and good luck with "this crazy little thing called love" as Freddie Mercury would say. Oh, and if you think we might click, start typing...lol!! = )****I am not interested in having a "texting relationship." If you can't occasionally pick up the phone we will probably disagree. I like communication. I understand that texting is necessary at certain times....at work, etc....but it is not how I want to live my life. It is so impersonal and it drives me insane unless it's cute, little sweet nothings.*********One other thing, I think the appropriate thing to do is OBVIOUSLY meet in public the first time. We live in crazy times. It seems that many men on here don't want to leave the house. They seem to think that we should just show up at the doorstep. I think anyone halfway sane realizes we should meet somewhere publicly. Is that too much to ask?**** On a first date I would like to go to a nice restaurant where we can eat and talk. After that we could go have some drinks somewhere or just end up where the mood takes us. If it's up to me, I will have us listening to live music somewhere...but that is difficult for a first date because you can't hear each other..so I would not push for that unless I could tell you like it too. I like trying all the swanky new places in the city. I would say the plan would be to meet to eat or for drinks and then we would play it by ear. ; )

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Anstice

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    ***Profile Always a Work in Progress ***If you do not read my profile and do not message me with the Seekrit Word indicating you read my profile... do not expect a response. YES - it's almost as long as the Iliad or the Odyssey. *takes in a deep breath* I decided online dating sites are only useful for the photos (if that is even the real person contacting you***and worse off, living upstate is sucking my soul and I may be better off staying a hermit and a couch potato. Hey you!!! Yeah, you... The one out of ***guys actually reading my epic novella and not just looking at my photos... I do have an actual PERSONALITY.None of you say you want a crazy cat lady who sleeps all day and parties all night... while keeping a respectful professional face at work.Certifiably whackadoodle. That's me.Why do you think I am so good at my job? I could almost be a patient - Run away, Simba and never return.... (This Personal Ad Provides as a Courtesy of the Save Men From Reina's Clutches Campaign***Me... Just Me ---* Looking for new FRIENDS who share interests in different ethnicities and cultures* I'm always looking for people who want to catch a B-Mets game - and when Fall comes, it will be B-Sens time! * When in NYC (as often as I can), I like to go OUT. I enjoy dining out at new and exciting restaurants or heading over to the beach during the day. * Yes...- now that's a little embarrassing, but I can't help but feel I am in my 20s (I do NOT look or act my age, and I want to be around others who like the same things that I like) Super Seekrit Word: Pudding !! Who I REALLY Am The Good:Intelligent, Empathetic, a Good Listener Adventurous & Adrenaline Seeking An uncanny ability to get you to tell me EVERYTHING The Bad: I run late (If you want 7, say 6:45)Bluntly honest (Reminder to self: Apply filter!)ADD and slightly OCD (But not crazy - do not confuse these qualities :)Short temper when it comes to stupid people (i.e. Men on meetville who don't read profiles***I AM a redhead after all. The Ugly: Occasional potty mouth - I can be a "lady", but I also can curse like a sailor.***Who Are You? * Intellectually challenging and a good communicator* Employed and able to pay your own bills * Active in sports/exercise/fitness* Comfortable in Latin lounges/clubs, sporting events or even museum exhibitionsHere's a little secret: You get bonus points if you're non-American, especially Latino. I love learning about new cultures.Okay, so... More bluntness, I am a "white American", but I have always been attracted to people DIFFERENT from me. Not saying I wouldn't ever hang out with another "white American", but you would have to be on equal level with me on the nuttier than a fruit cake scale.-- Here's the Test: ^ If you want to message me, do NOT just say "hi" or "hey" - Do not send me some message about how I am "hot" I am or some message that is so generic that you could have copied and pasted it to 10 girls. ^ If you want me to respond to you, even if just to say I am not interested, message me and make it clear that you read my profile and you know *something* about me. AND.... Include the Super Seekrit Word - PUDDING Really only looking for networking, friendship, meeting others in entertainment / music and people for tennis or baseball games. We can grab dinner, have a few drinks at a lounge and DANCE - or chill at the beach, or I am always up for "crazy experiences". I am NOT NOT NOT looking for friends with benefits or one night stands. Dudes... A girl can find that anywhere. Just because I am saying friends and hanging out does NOT equal sex. Get it? Lord...So do NOT think of me as a potential girlfriend, wife or lay. If anything, think of me as a possible friend, a co-worker or long-lost cousin you are meeting for the first time and would NEVER consider sleeping with... (Yes... I am frustrated at what kind of expectations people drag into the single lifestyle... I hate expectations.***HOWEVER... That being said: I really DO want love, passion, loyalty, honesty, a partner to share my joys and help me through my trials and tribulations. I do want love and this is my belief: The best relationships are built on sharing similar life/career goals and hobbies and interests, but the number one most difficult trait to fulfill is the "SPARK", aka the butterflies in your stomach!I'm not desperately looking for "The One" or my "Soulmate". If Mr. Right is out there, he'll fall into my lap one way or another, and I'd prefer it happen naturally. Therefore, I say I don't "Date" and want there to be zero romantic expectations if/when we meet. Let's just see if there is maybe a spark of "something magical" ***So, take the challenge and message me. Just make it a good one because you only get one chance to make a first impression... And my response rate these days is maybe 1 out of 10... The Future: Yes, I do have plans for the future, so I might as well share my thoughts and if you are totally against the idea, again, we probably don't match... In about ***doing the 13-week assignments and bouncing all around to see what areas I would most like to love in... Anywhere with sun and atmosphere...Well - what are you waiting for? Impress me with your quality communication! (UGH - Yet another person just saying "hey" and not having read A SINGLE WORD of my profile...)

  • Valorie

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    First, I am a mom to 2 wonderful sons that are my life. One is 21 and In the Army. The other is 17 and a sr in high school. While my kids are getting older, it is time for me to take care of myself and be happy again. I love anything to do with outdoors. I love to be at the lake, ocean, pool. Anything to do with the sun and water. I love camping. I am a spontaneous person and would love to just take off on a weekend and find someplace fun to go.I listen to country, a little bit of rock and some pop. NO rap! Lol. I love to dance, the two-step is one of my favorites. You can say I am a country girl at heart. I have more than a few tattoos, so if tattoos on a woman is not your thing then I'm probably not the girl for you. I love to go on motorcycle rides with the right person. To just get on and ride with no purpose or no where to go. If you were to ask my friends or family how to describe me, they would say I am a very loyal, giving and caring person. Sometimes to the fault of myself. When I'm involved with someone I give 100% to them and would like the same. I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve. I Don't want to deal with drama or any baby mama issues. I get along great with my ex husband and consider him one of my closest friends. We are raising our son together as a team. So you won't get any ex drama from me. This dating thing is new to me. I'm Not sure where to meet people anymore. Don't want to meet anyone at the bar or work. My oldest son told me to go to Walmart. Lol. I asked him had he seen the web site peopleofwalmart.com? Lol. So I Figured I would give this a try!I am Looking for someone to share my free time with and see where that takes us! Not looking for a bootycall or just to hook up for sex.-) But I am open to meeting that right person who will be the one for me! I want someone that wants to go out and do things together and also stay home at times and just cuddle on the couch watching movies. No first date will ever be the same. They are all pretty awkward. But if I had to decide, it would be somewhere where we could talk and get to know each other. Or even go to a wine tasting. I am pretty open to different options. I love to try new things.

  • Carlyn

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am a loyal, compassionate, fun loving single mother of two wonderful grown children. I have recently suffered a badly broken heart. I am in need of someone who can help me re-focus my attentions. Please no players need reply. I have had my fill. I seek to find a partner and not a dominating personality to share my time with. If interested feel free to message me. I'm not interested in being a booty call or be talked down to by any pervs. And though I am not racist, I wish to not date African Americans. Maybe meet for a meal to begin with. After a few conversations though text messages and phone calls.

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