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Jude, 39

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About Me

I know exactly what I want in life. I'm at a very good place in my life and I'm ready to settle down with that special person....as long as the chemistry is there. :) However, I'm looking for a very sweet, very nice and great guy. I'm looking for my best friend, as well as a long term relationship that could turn into more if it is right. I have two kids, who are now 18 and 20. My kids are older, but they are my still my world. However, I'm very open to someone who has younger children. I love kids of all ages. I love to laugh. Laughing and smiling are very important to me. And I believe communication is key for any and all types of relationships. I really believe in being able to share and talk about almost everything.I'm looking for a very honest, funny, very sweet, loving, caring, romantic and dependable guy who knows exactly what he wants. I'm not looking for a guy who needs me to help them get over their ex or is indecisive about what they want. And please, no users, liars, cheaters and players. (Please see additional comment recently added below.)A great quote I read once I truly believe - "People won't rememeber what you said; People won't remember what you did; People will remember how you made them feel." That is so true!UPDATE - After some experiences I've encountered on this site, I've realized it's time to update my profile. I am looking for a honest & faithful type of man who is also hoping to find his last first date. I am not, and never have been, attracted to liars, players, cheaters, serial daters and men who hop from one woman to another. I know some women find these men as intriguing and are attracted to the challenge. However, I am not one of these women. I see these men and behavior as a turn-off. So, if you are one of these men as described here or if you are seeing and/or talking to multiple woman on this site & others, then you are not the man for me. Also, if you currently have a girlfriend and you're on a dating website, then shame on you. But, if you're single and you're looking for your special someone too, then I would love to hear from you. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Verona

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I really hate filling these out, it's so egotistical trying to talk yourself up. Let's start with flaws, I'm horribly impatient, I have an extremely mushy side that I have little control over. I'm clumsy, that's actually kinda entertaining though. An occasional snort slips out when something is really funny or ridiculous to me. I can't hold a tune to save my life, but I'm gonna sing anyway. I can't sit still for very long, it drives me nuts. I'm extremely competitive, at everything and anything. I hate the idea of trying to talk someone into being interested in me, or impress someone. You can't truly put yourself into words, yeah it's a jumping off place I guess, but most won't read this, those that do probably didn't get past the impatient part and if you made it this far, you just might be half crazy *there's the smartass in me acting up*, another flaw. Anyway, that's all for now, thanks for stopping by. :)Updated- you've gotta be able to carry a conversation. Replying with :), K or lol ends a conversation. Communication is so important to me.For the love of all that's holy, please don't tell me you must be half crazy, or completely, I've only heard that forty hundred times. ***

  • Addie

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm blonde and very out-going. I've been told I'm pretty cute with a great smile (and no that does not translate to "she's fat" - LOL). I have never met a stranger. Guess I get that from my mom. I'm also a class clown, I love to laugh and make people laugh. I've got a huge heart and will open it for the right person. I'm not perfect by any means and I've made a lot of mistakes, some I wished I could take back. But I'm here, looking to start fresh, looking for a second chance. And I believe everyone should have a second chance. Looking for my penguin (movie quote, extra points for the answer).What I want in a partner: The one person I can live without but don't want to. I miss having someone that makes my heart skip a beat when I see them from across the room. The exchanging of glances and the slight grin knowing that he's mine. Someone who wants to look forward to our future and not our past. Someone who wants to say screw everyone, I'm doing this with her and we're gonna be happy, beating all odds - not getting caught up in what other people think about the situation. Someone with one kiss that can take my breath away. Someone who will let ME make them smile every opportunity I can. His appearance: Well I'm not going to say I have a type. Just someone who is physically fit and active. I prefer someone who is age appropriate. I'm looking for the total package. I won't settle for less. I'm not in a rush at all and want to take my time. BUT, you have to be willing to spend some time with me. My ultimate goal is to never have to be on this site again. I'm not saying I want to get married by any means but someone by my side forever is really what I want. To be happy and in love. To be THAT couple everyone envies. Smiling from ear to ear all the time, making your cheeks hurt. True love doesn't happen every day but it does happen.And did I tell you, I'm a morning person too? Yep, I love having early morning coffee with my partner and just talking about our day. I mean, isn't that the best way to start it after all? With the person you love? So loving early mornings with me will be very important.Does that sound like you? If so, let's get off this site, grab some coffee and do this. You won't regret it. I do have photos BTW. I know it's cliché but let's meet for coffee and talk. See if we have the chemistry to make this thing happen.

  • Lana

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I love all kinds of outdoor activities: swimming, boating, hiking, biking, traveling.. I'm a good person and fun to be around.. My kids are all old enough now to take care of themselves, for a couple hours, so would like to find someone to spend time with.I may be heavier but i do keep active.. I have 2 jobs and 3 kids that I'm raising on my own.I'm not into just friends with benefits , so please don't ask..

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