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Anstice, 40
United States, Michigan, Roseville

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***Profile Always a Work in Progress ***If you do not read my profile and do not message me with the Seekrit Word indicating you read my profile... do not expect a response. YES - it's almost as long as the Iliad or the Odyssey. *takes in a deep breath* I decided online dating sites are only useful for the photos (if that is even the real person contacting you***and worse off, living upstate is sucking my soul and I may be better off staying a hermit and a couch potato. Hey you!!! Yeah, you... The one out of ***guys actually reading my epic novella and not just looking at my photos... I do have an actual PERSONALITY.None of you say you want a crazy cat lady who sleeps all day and parties all night... while keeping a respectful professional face at work.Certifiably whackadoodle. That's me.Why do you think I am so good at my job? I could almost be a patient - Run away, Simba and never return.... (This Personal Ad Provides as a Courtesy of the Save Men From Reina's Clutches Campaign***Me... Just Me ---* Looking for new FRIENDS who share interests in different ethnicities and cultures* I'm always looking for people who want to catch a B-Mets game - and when Fall comes, it will be B-Sens time! * When in NYC (as often as I can), I like to go OUT. I enjoy dining out at new and exciting restaurants or heading over to the beach during the day. * Yes...- now that's a little embarrassing, but I can't help but feel I am in my 20s (I do NOT look or act my age, and I want to be around others who like the same things that I like) Super Seekrit Word: Pudding !! Who I REALLY Am The Good:Intelligent, Empathetic, a Good Listener Adventurous & Adrenaline Seeking An uncanny ability to get you to tell me EVERYTHING The Bad: I run late (If you want 7, say 6:45)Bluntly honest (Reminder to self: Apply filter!)ADD and slightly OCD (But not crazy - do not confuse these qualities :)Short temper when it comes to stupid people (i.e. Men on meetville who don't read profiles***I AM a redhead after all. The Ugly: Occasional potty mouth - I can be a "lady", but I also can curse like a sailor.***Who Are You? * Intellectually challenging and a good communicator* Employed and able to pay your own bills * Active in sports/exercise/fitness* Comfortable in Latin lounges/clubs, sporting events or even museum exhibitionsHere's a little secret: You get bonus points if you're non-American, especially Latino. I love learning about new cultures.Okay, so... More bluntness, I am a "white American", but I have always been attracted to people DIFFERENT from me. Not saying I wouldn't ever hang out with another "white American", but you would have to be on equal level with me on the nuttier than a fruit cake scale.-- Here's the Test: ^ If you want to message me, do NOT just say "hi" or "hey" - Do not send me some message about how I am "hot" I am or some message that is so generic that you could have copied and pasted it to 10 girls. ^ If you want me to respond to you, even if just to say I am not interested, message me and make it clear that you read my profile and you know *something* about me. AND.... Include the Super Seekrit Word - PUDDING Really only looking for networking, friendship, meeting others in entertainment / music and people for tennis or baseball games. We can grab dinner, have a few drinks at a lounge and DANCE - or chill at the beach, or I am always up for "crazy experiences". I am NOT NOT NOT looking for friends with benefits or one night stands. Dudes... A girl can find that anywhere. Just because I am saying friends and hanging out does NOT equal sex. Get it? Lord...So do NOT think of me as a potential girlfriend, wife or lay. If anything, think of me as a possible friend, a co-worker or long-lost cousin you are meeting for the first time and would NEVER consider sleeping with... (Yes... I am frustrated at what kind of expectations people drag into the single lifestyle... I hate expectations.***HOWEVER... That being said: I really DO want love, passion, loyalty, honesty, a partner to share my joys and help me through my trials and tribulations. I do want love and this is my belief: The best relationships are built on sharing similar life/career goals and hobbies and interests, but the number one most difficult trait to fulfill is the "SPARK", aka the butterflies in your stomach!I'm not desperately looking for "The One" or my "Soulmate". If Mr. Right is out there, he'll fall into my lap one way or another, and I'd prefer it happen naturally. Therefore, I say I don't "Date" and want there to be zero romantic expectations if/when we meet. Let's just see if there is maybe a spark of "something magical" ***So, take the challenge and message me. Just make it a good one because you only get one chance to make a first impression... And my response rate these days is maybe 1 out of 10... The Future: Yes, I do have plans for the future, so I might as well share my thoughts and if you are totally against the idea, again, we probably don't match... In about ***doing the 13-week assignments and bouncing all around to see what areas I would most like to love in... Anywhere with sun and atmosphere...Well - what are you waiting for? Impress me with your quality communication! (UGH - Yet another person just saying "hey" and not having read A SINGLE WORD of my profile...)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Ice Hockey Volleyball
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  • Luann from Roseville | Woman | 39 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Ok, time to update this profile...IF YOU ARE 20 ANYTHING ...DON'T BOTHER...THE OTHERS HAVE ALREADY RUINED IT FOR YOU.... NOT INTERESTED.For those of you that read or even attempt to read *** looking at the pictures:I have found there are not many guys on here that are serious about finding someone or even think about a relationship with so...Here's my list of what I like:HarleysA good mix of Good N Bad boys with Tattoos....NOT ***hole cheaters and Liars with Tatts Movies..all kinds...NO PornBoatsFishingComedyBonfiresFriends and FamilyTravelShoppingEnglish BulldogsLaughing until my face hurtsDancingMusic..love a great band or concertBeachesRoad TripsGiving back...VolunteeringSportslifting weightsanything on or near water..Drive in moviesGuys, yes Men only..sorry Ladies..while I am flattered that you wanna do nasty things to me..I tend to like Male parts not female parts...Please be taller than me. I am tall..almost 5'8". I will make an exception on the height thing is you have a super personality or an awesome smile...or a shaved head..=) If you wouldn't have the balls to approach me in public...then don't do it here. That way I don't have to spend hours sending *** "thanking you" for saying "Hi, How are you"..BORING! I would rather chew tin foil.If you think I am a smartass, why yes, Yes I am. It's part of my charm...=)I am not arrogant or mean..just being me.I would LOVE to find someone to hang out with and date, maybe see where it goes. Not looking for a pic swapping partner...I have way more class than that and there are plenty of "Ladies" on here that will do that for ya, Just not me.If you have a pic of you showing your 6 pack abs...I am not into that either...Shallow Hal...you have to have more than looks.What I do NOT like:YOU MUST NOT DO DRUGS or Be an ALCOHOLIC! Seriously, does this need to be said?? Apparently so.Have a dang JOB!!!! I will find out ...auuugh!Arrogant,**** mean peopleBad teethSkinny men..be athletic or average.If my bicep is bigger than yours...not cool.Perky morning peopleI am NOT your mom, nor your meal ticket.No Pics, NO response...stop it..if you are on a dating site, take a damn picture...of your face, recently..not the hot neighbor, we girls will find out when we meet you..and you will not like the response.Married men, if you are married ..I will respond but you won't like what I have to say...get a divorce if you aren't happy.I DO NOT send Naked pictures guys..sorry. If that's what you want ...go to a site that specializes in that sort of thing. If you can't afford to go on a date, don't ask me.I don't drink so no chance of getting me drunk.Guys saying how big are your boobs...really? Leave it alone.I am NOT 38, I am a lil older and I am honest about it..my pictures are VERY recent, I look EXACTLY like my pictures...you don't need to know my age unless we are getting in a relationship or signing legal documents..so let it go dude.If you are 20 something.....Not interested....If I have to explain What a cassette tape is, MC Hammer, Journey, or any band from the 80's, not interested. It is NOT an interview for Pete's sake, It is "hey, do we click"...The first date should be a "get to know you" kind of thing. Not a romantic pressure fulled evening.Maybe a park, lunch date...something low key...=)Seriously guys, I am NOT here to entertain you while you work, trade pictures, text you because you are bored, drive your drunk ass around because you have more DUI's than sense and no license....I am sorry this has to be said but apparently I thought this site was to meet A QUALITY person ....I am still waiting for someone that can be HONEST and be able to put together a complete sentence.I am a quality girl with class. Certainly not going to lower my standards..

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I enjoy movies, walks, the outdoors, hiking, biking, swimming, cooking, boating, four wheelers, fishing, singing, drawing, and much more. Looking for someone with a great sense of humor, sincere, patient, kind, caring, considerate, open-minded, good at communicating, good listener, employed, responsible, and honest. I am easy-going and have a great sense of humor......I have no tattoos...though I don't mind them. I am looking for a non-smoker and non-chewer who is past the party scene and doesn't frequent bars and clubs. I have children so if you don't like kids, please hit the eject button on your seat now. I love the changing of the seasons.:) We can decide together. :)

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  • Karen from Roseville | Woman | 40 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Cheers ... looking for a needle in a proverbial haystack of life and not going to settle for second best. Not so much a picky person as much I want QUALITY. A good man (single, not separated still hanging on or bound to his wife as in a legally bound relationship or coming off a long term relationship) who has a clear idea of what he wants out of his life and is ready to share it with one person. A stable man who is well established in his life. Someone who can stand on his own or lean on his partner when needed or vice versa. A man who is attractive, cares about his health, wellness and his future and being around to share it with me. A man who has interests and hobbies (not so important what they are -- but is willing to share them with me). A caveat ... I probably am not going to love going duck hunting (or any hunting for that matter) or anything that requires me to be far from indoor plumbing for long periods of time but I'm flexible. I love a guy who is willing to try a spa day ... get a pedicure next to me. It could be FUN and RELAXING, a REAL BONDING experience. Or maybe a couples massage. I'm really a very creative person by profession and I tend to carry that over into my personal life--so I keep things interesting. I am a writer and enjoy leaving little 'love notes' for my significant other so he knows how important he is in my life -- but sadly, that's been a long time since I've been able to do that. ;9( I am friendly ... a little shy at first but actually very outgoing once I am comfortable. I enjoy music, movies, reading, hiking, relieving stress actually at the gym, my dog ... the theater -- learning.

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