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Shirley, 40

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About Me

I'm an extroverted european social butterfly (ENTP) and match well with men that have same kind of personality. If it's Wednesday and you don't know what to do Friday we are not a good match. I have passion for live music and shows, big cities, mountains, ocean, people, summer, bikini, tiki bars, kids, adrenaline kicks and great bodies. I am very "say it as it is", if you are sensitive we won't fit. I am busy and I like it like that. ***I'm not looking for a NSA or fwb relationship. I'm not against them, but it's a time for everything. If we fall in love that would be fantastic! (and you will have a sexy woman forever ;- I like to know your personality first, but not pen pals that's just waste of time. I might delete you if you just want to *** I like to be nr.1, the center of attention. Nothing like the real thing baby!My kids are 5 & 13 with shared custody. I do not want more kids, but it is fun and easier if you have kids too. If you aren't into being fit and eating healthy we won't get along since you will die of starvation if I choose the food. We all like visual attraction. I like my man fit, because it is sexy and healthy to me. My philosophy is that if women can stay in shape after giving birth to a couple of kids then men can definitely do it. Sooooooo if you read all that and looked at my pictures, you should have an idea of my personality.....***WHAT I LOVE: -fun -beaches -Coco Nut Joe's -Thievery Corportation -kids -fruit -vegetables -an active life -live music --NYC -sex -people -e&a -entertainment(entertain me :~) -white wine -happy hour -six packs -dancing -mountains -airshows -horse back riding(yee ha) -girls night out(dancing on the tables) -skiing -new people(new stories) -science -psychology -museums -Asian Food -9:30 club -MUSIC -events&adventure -echostage -to party "It's possible," said Pride"It's risky," said Experience "It's pointless," said Reason"Give it a try," whispered the Heart.AnonymousI prefer to do a first date doing something fun. This way if we decide that we are not a great romantic match, we both can have fun anyway. I think you see people's personality better when you do activities.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Margurite

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I too was on meetville for awhile and did not find what I was looking for so I closed my profile. I was frustrated. I was looking for someone to fill the void that I have in my life and could not find it. *** found alot of drunks, drama, and psychos, but here I am once again. This time I am going to be more selective (I hope). I would like to find someone normal. Someone that likes to go out (not every night) and enjoy a drink or a nice dinner or possibly hang out with friends. I would like to find someone who enjoys going for walks and holding hands. I want someone to be silly with, to laugh with. PS I do not want someone to send me dirty pics. Keep your penis pics to yourself. I am also not interested in wife beaters, men who are still living with their ex or their baby mamma. Oh and someone with a job and a car would be nice lol. Since it is really a meet and greet, something simple would be perfect.

  • Ester

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Whoever said online dating is easier? ... I am someone who enjoys frequenting antique shops, fairs, markets, outdoor events, live music, museums, & enjoys long walks, hiking, good cup of coffee & a book, movies, Asian cuisine, long drives, cleanliness, awareness of my environment, laughter, being casual, people who are just kind to one another. I listen to a variety of music & I have visited many states in the US (originally from CT), traveled to Europe once & would love to travel more in the future. Visiting Asia & Australia is high up on my bucket list. Obviously 2 people don't necessarily have to have the exact same interests.. each should have their own. Looking for someone who is open-minded, willing to do things on a whim, & has a kind heart. If you can cook, well that's a positive. Good Luck in your search..ps. As far as 'intent'; I have dating but nothing serious... that doesn't mean things can't changeIf you've gotten this far ... I also have a profile on Match: Evelyn***:if you wish slightly more info. Would be redundent to copy & paste. The info above is the jist of it ;) On a first date there should be the least pressure.... meet for a cup of coffee or a drink. If things work out, then we can progress to a nice evening dinner and drinks.

  • Majorie

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    First off....I'm a big girl...not your thing than keep moving along......................,2nd.....I'm so tired to being let down by little boys who play at being a man. If you aren't ready for a serious relationship with the possibility of settling down...please don't waste my time or yours by sending a message.I'm 35....my age is wrong on here. I am an office administrator for some local cemeteries. I've never been married but would love to be a good wife to the right man. I don't have children but would love to have at least one. I am honest, caring, loving, and trustworthy. What you see is what you get with me. I have lost almost ***pounds and still on my weight loss journey. However, staying motivated is difficult sometimes. I'm interested in continuing my education in business but do hold one degree in Computer and Information Management. I love my family and friends and being around good honest decent people. I live with roommates but looking to have my own place by October. Would love to be romanced and feel like I'm important. Flowers are a nice gesture. Some place where we can sit and talk. Someplace that is accessible easily to the both of us. I am a little old fashioned in the fact I would like the gentleman to plan the first few dates until if and when a relationship starts.

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