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Shirley, 40

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About Me

I'm an extroverted european social butterfly (ENTP) and match well with men that have same kind of personality. If it's Wednesday and you don't know what to do Friday we are not a good match. I have passion for live music and shows, big cities, mountains, ocean, people, summer, bikini, tiki bars, kids, adrenaline kicks and great bodies. I am very "say it as it is", if you are sensitive we won't fit. I am busy and I like it like that. ***I'm not looking for a NSA or fwb relationship. I'm not against them, but it's a time for everything. If we fall in love that would be fantastic! (and you will have a sexy woman forever ;- I like to know your personality first, but not pen pals that's just waste of time. I might delete you if you just want to *** I like to be nr.1, the center of attention. Nothing like the real thing baby!My kids are 5 & 13 with shared custody. I do not want more kids, but it is fun and easier if you have kids too. If you aren't into being fit and eating healthy we won't get along since you will die of starvation if I choose the food. We all like visual attraction. I like my man fit, because it is sexy and healthy to me. My philosophy is that if women can stay in shape after giving birth to a couple of kids then men can definitely do it. Sooooooo if you read all that and looked at my pictures, you should have an idea of my personality.....***WHAT I LOVE: -fun -beaches -Coco Nut Joe's -Thievery Corportation -kids -fruit -vegetables -an active life -live music --NYC -sex -people -e&a -entertainment(entertain me :~) -white wine -happy hour -six packs -dancing -mountains -airshows -horse back riding(yee ha) -girls night out(dancing on the tables) -skiing -new people(new stories) -science -psychology -museums -Asian Food -9:30 club -MUSIC -events&adventure -echostage -to party "It's possible," said Pride"It's risky," said Experience "It's pointless," said Reason"Give it a try," whispered the Heart.AnonymousI prefer to do a first date doing something fun. This way if we decide that we are not a great romantic match, we both can have fun anyway. I think you see people's personality better when you do activities.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

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    I think I have a good sense of humor, but I tend to be a little bit sarcastic sometimes (usually). I have been known to laugh at things that other people might not think are funny. I like to do just about anything. Especially if it is something new. I am always looking for something fun and exciting to do. I went hangliding a few years ago and would really love to zip line. I am also a total movie buff. The scary ones are my favorite but I love them all. I am looking for someone adventurous and fun. I want to do new things and I would love someone to do them with. I also want the same things every other girl wants; honesty, humor and a sweetie. So please send me a message hopefully we can talk ..... Hopefully talk about what we would do on our second date.....

  • Chalice

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am a single mother of two beautiful children. My oldest just graduated from high school, and my 12 year old lives with his Dad. I have been divorced for 11 years, so there is no lingering feelings between us and I am ready to try again for a real relationship. I have honestly been scared to find love again because the divorce really did a number on me. Now, I feel that void in my life that is eating away at me, and I long for a new companion. I am looking for someone to have long talks with, someone to experience new things with, someone to snuggle with at night, and someone that really understands who I am. I hope to find someone who is loyal, honest, romantic, sentimental, understanding, and loves me despite my faults (come on everybody has some faults), and knows the meaning of unconditional love. I love to watch movies, cook, go to concerts, and I love the beach!!! Someday I wish I could live somewhere where I could go to the beach everyday. As far as music goes, I am pretty versatile. I love so many genres, from heavy metal to dance to rap. I would also hope that the man I am looking for has an excellent and diverse taste in music. Things to know about me: When I love, I love with everything i've got, I believe in the importance of communication, and treating others the way you want to be treated. I want someone to make memories with, someone to call my best friend, someone to call my soulmate. If you have questions, feel free to ask. Turn ons, tats and piercings. Turn offs, liars and cheaters. An ideal first date would be a total surprise. I like it when a man puts thought and effort into planning a date. Things that I would enjoy are going out to dinner, going somewhere I have never been before, seeing a concert, going to a museum, and of course going to the beach!

  • Roseanne

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Well I am looking just for a honest guy who wants to go out and not jump into something so fast it will make your head spin. I have found out that most the guys on here want either one thing (which aint happening) or want to move in on you and act like you've been married ten years. Can't people be normal for God's sake. Yes Im scorned yes I think men are idiots. But it doesn't change the fact that I am wanting to open my heart up again. It may be the last time but here goes. If you want to know something about me then ask away but I can honestly say I am not push over but I am a honest loving caring giving person and just want the same in my life. Well that's it! I don't even know...lol

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