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i am a single mom of 2 children that mean everything to me... although I do still have ***years left of chemo so the right person will have to be understanding and comfortable with that! the steroids in the chemo have caused some weight gain and have made issues with me bring able to work out but i intend on getting back in shape and if you can like me with the extra pounds you will love me thinner! I am a pretty easy going person and tend to treat people the way that they treat me...i am just looking for someone to share my life with!! Just got out of a ***year relationship...looking for someone that can take the bad with the good and doesn't bail on me...in other words a true relationship! I like to have fun and all my friends see me as funny but i just see it as me being me! I also tend to have a quirky sense of humor at times so being open minded is a must and when i am in that mood you just cant take anything that comes out of my mouth to serious! Life is too short not to have fun! I am one also that finds a positive in almost every situation...even having cancer has not got me down!I do like to fish and wouldnt be against sitting with you in a deer stand either... I am on dart leagues all year long so that seems to be my sanctuary for wind down time...love to have lazy days just cuddled up in bed or on the couch with a good movie too!! I have things on a bucket list that I want to do and would love to find someone to share those adventures with (and of course he would have to do the driving too, haha)Please note that yes I would like to meet a man to spend my life with that does not mean that if you contact me on here I will meet you somewhere the next day! If I find interest in you I would like to talk first and get to know you before I set up an actual date! It is a big red flag for me to have someone push themselves on me so please respect that of me! I am worth the wait to the right person so please talk to me and get to know me... meet up for a drink or dinner to have a good sit down get to know ya conversation

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

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  • Ester

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

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