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Rafaela, 39
United States, Michigan, Rockford

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About Me

A little about myself - I'm pretty open...outgoing...I enjoy time with my girlfriends on my off week without my daughter...ive done the dating thing for awhile and I'm looking for something more...I'm drama free and looking for someone that is also drama free in the ex department. :) My ex husband and I have remained friends and co-parent quite well, without many issues. I can be kind of shy in the beginning, but most people find that it doesn't last long. Update: First of all I apologize that I haven't been on here in awhile. I honestly have been very nervous about dating again. I've spent some time off (for good behavior) to focus on me, and figuring out exactly what I want. I want someone that drinks socially, but doesn't want to go out to the clubs and party til 3am. I'd much rather meet friends for a happy hour and go home together and relax, watch a movie, cook a great dinner, or sneak away for the weekend. It would be ideal to meet someone that also has children. Although my kids are older (daughter 15 and son 20 in college) I'm not opposed to someone with young kids. Also, and please don't interpret this comment as negative. But, if one of your profile pics includes a topless photo in front of the mirror, I can tell you right off the bat that we're probably not compatible. I think that it's awesome that you are proud of your body, and if you hit the gym everyday I truly admire your dedication, I would just prefer my man be a little more modest with his six pack abs. :) If any of this hasn't scared you away, send me a message. Happy Fishing! The best first meeting to me would be over coffee. You can get an idea through light conversation if your both into it enough to try for a first date. And if not we've met someone interesting. Well hopefully :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Latin Reggae Camping / Hiking Fishing Italian Portuguese Adventure Drama Family & Kids Music Thriller Computer Games
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    I think I speak for most people when I say we are all looking for happiness and someone that compliments us. We have all had toxic relationships and hopefully we learn from it enough to know what you are not looking for or will accept from a potential partner. I am not a serial dater nor do I have any interest in being with anyone that is. I will not settle or be disrespected. To those that are looking for a quick hook up or a one night stand I am not your girl, I really think its sad that I have to include that in my profile. I have been in two long term relationships and for the lack of a better term, it just didn't work out. I have three children who are the light of my life and I am very proud of the intelligent, kind people they are becoming. I am looking for a man that will not only be good to me but to my children as well. I do not really have a specific type but there does have to be a mutual attraction lets face it there has to be chemistry. I will know when I find it. I do prefer a non smoker, caucasion, taller men (much taller than myself), that is clean cut, trimmed and shaved (some facial hair can be attractive), and a head full of hair. If you would like to know more send an *** I am interested in you I will respond, if not please do not be offended it is just a matter of preference. While I do understand job discretion please at least upload or attach a face photo ONLY there is no need for body parts or sexual innuendoes with your *** am not interested in attached or married men, I have no respect for people that are dishonest and unfaithful, I will never help you cheat. I also must add if your still really good friends with your ex's and you cant let go of that past relationship then we probably wouldn't be a good match. Being civil for children's sake is one thing but hanging around and getting together for dinner and drinks is another. Good luck in your search. Play it by ear.

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