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Rafaela, 39
United States, Michigan, Rockford

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About Me

A little about myself - I'm pretty open...outgoing...I enjoy time with my girlfriends on my off week without my daughter...ive done the dating thing for awhile and I'm looking for something more...I'm drama free and looking for someone that is also drama free in the ex department. :) My ex husband and I have remained friends and co-parent quite well, without many issues. I can be kind of shy in the beginning, but most people find that it doesn't last long. Update: First of all I apologize that I haven't been on here in awhile. I honestly have been very nervous about dating again. I've spent some time off (for good behavior) to focus on me, and figuring out exactly what I want. I want someone that drinks socially, but doesn't want to go out to the clubs and party til 3am. I'd much rather meet friends for a happy hour and go home together and relax, watch a movie, cook a great dinner, or sneak away for the weekend. It would be ideal to meet someone that also has children. Although my kids are older (daughter 15 and son 20 in college) I'm not opposed to someone with young kids. Also, and please don't interpret this comment as negative. But, if one of your profile pics includes a topless photo in front of the mirror, I can tell you right off the bat that we're probably not compatible. I think that it's awesome that you are proud of your body, and if you hit the gym everyday I truly admire your dedication, I would just prefer my man be a little more modest with his six pack abs. :) If any of this hasn't scared you away, send me a message. Happy Fishing! The best first meeting to me would be over coffee. You can get an idea through light conversation if your both into it enough to try for a first date. And if not we've met someone interesting. Well hopefully :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Latin Reggae Camping / Hiking Fishing Italian Portuguese Adventure Drama Family & Kids Music Thriller Computer Games
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