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Benita, 40

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About Me

Happiness to me is about a lot of simple things...family and friends, rain on a hot day (I just might splash you if I see a big puddle), sitting and watching fireworks, shooting stars or snow falling, toasting marshmallows on the beach or by a camp fire, feeling exhausted after a good workout, dancing around barefoot in fresh cut grass or on the cool beach sand on a warm summer night, going to amusement parks, plotting next travel destination or just taking off and having fun on a short, unplanned road trip for a weekend.I get oddly excited during thunderstorms and blizzards. I've been known to pet strange dogs. I like to joke around with doormen and waiters. I like building things. I'm genuine, sincere and adventurous (will try just about anything once...skydiving...check!) I could go on but if you really want to know more just ask! First meeting - grabbing a cup of coffee or a drink after work. First date - could be a friendly game of horse on the basketball court or a tennis match, or checking out a museum or venturing throughout NYC till we get lost.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Margit

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am a 40 yr. old single mother of a beautiful 6 yr. old daughter. I work full time and spend every minute I can with her. I work hard and enjoy being independent so please don't bother messaging me if you're looking for anything less than the one. I was born and raised up North, so I have a tendency to be direct and not play games. I enjoy going out to see live music/bands, nice dinners and travelling. I really hate this part so if there is anything at all that you want to know about me, please feel free to ask.

  • Cherise

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am an outgoing, free-spirited woman who has a positive outlook on life and enjoys spontaneity. I love a good sense of humor and I am extremely young at heart!! ;o)Love being outdoors and not afraid to get dirty now and then. I clean up nicely and look great in a little black dress! I enjoy a quiet night at home snuggled on the couch watching a good TV show or movie, yet also enjoy heading to a local watering hole for a beer a sports game or live music.Love listening to music and am a sucker for good lyrics and a good beat. (I have been known to dance in the kitchen while cooking!) Love a bit of everything-.. a WIDE range!! Lol... I enjoy cooking different kinds of foods and love to cook favorite meals for that special someone. I am a romantic at heart, yet definitely love to be silly sometimes and I appreciate someone who feels the same. I love leaving little love notes or gifts (enjoy receiving them too!) Looking for someone who is honest, trustworthy, respectful, loyal & fun... someone who wants to have a good time and see where it takes us. I have a lot of love, smiles and laughter to share and I am looking for someone who can appreciate that. Someone who enjoys the outdoors, has a good sense of humor, communicates well and isn't afraid to get involved with someone who has a child. My son is everything to me and we are very close. I am a very active and hands on mom & enjoy tossing a baseball, football or lax ball around the yard. (I throw a mean spiral!)I think it is important to share interests, yet I am always open to learning new things and exploring a new activity- I think that is the wonderful part of finding someone new- to share what you know and love and to learn something new and different from them. I believe that two people who are attracted to one another need to be strong enough to stand on their own, yet truly enjoy and appreciate time together and value what they bring out in each other and what they create. Good luck on your search! Hmmm... this is tricky... probably best off doing lunch so we can both get to know one another; however, having dinner and a drink or two out, in a place where we don't have to shout to talk, is good also. ;o)The first date is a precarious occasion...we will hopefully have *** talked, yet that defining moment of actually meeting face to face is truly a "make-it-or-break-it" moment... (at least for me.)There MUST be chemistry...- intellectually, physically, with interests.... you know what I mean...can't make it work, no matter HOW hard you try, if there isn't chemistry!! ;o)

  • Sherley

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I love bowling and hanging out with my friends and family. I spend a lot of time with them if I have the extra time I should say. I work nights again so I'm back to not having to much extra time. I try to spend it with my boys as much as possible. I normally get out on Saturday nights to hang with my friends and would love to share it with someone special also. I work in the medical field and would like to move up in my job. I have the biggest heart in the world and give people the benifit of the doubt all the time. I don't like negative people because they just bring you down. I like to go out to nice places to eat and go see a movie or just order in and rent a movie and cuddle. A good first date I would say would be going out to eat so we could talk. I love going to bars but you can not communicate with all the loud music. If dinner goes well then maybe go to the bar for drinks and some dancing. I think dancing shows a lot in a person just like the first kiss.

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