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Debra, 39
United States, Michigan, Plymouth

Offline, last seen Wed, 11 Mar 2026 02:42:23

About Me

First of all, I am a musician and researcher in computer music. I'm in my dream job, working as a lecturer. I love all kinds of music, but I do not like talking about it. See, the problem is, I do weird music that most people do not like. In fact, most people don't even think it's music. So, they think they're meeting a musician, then hear what I do and get all disappointed. Then, on top of it all, it's my job to listen and talk about music. So I tend to avoid it socially. I do like going to concerts and shows - of all kinds of music. I really am open-minded.I like to read, paint and take photos. I love languages, but I'm only average at learning them. I have this idea that I could be the female equivalent of James Bond, charming people in their native tongue. I'm lucky I don't start international incidents. I love dancing, especially ballroom and salsa. But, I truly only go mad-dancing at home where no one's looking. Or on my Wii Zumba.I like going out and being with friends, but I often need alone time at home.I have a cat, but I'm not a crazy cat lady. Well, unless I do it on purpose to be funny.I like fixing things but have to work to *** I don't have ***, I'm hopeless. Changed the oil in my old car. But, I also short-circuited the entire kitchen of my grandmother's house by attempting to fix her toaster. The worst part was, she had Alzheimers, so about twice a day I had to explain to her what an idiot I am until I could get the electrician in.I don't own a television. Not because I'm a snob but because I'm an addict. I am looking for the real thing, which means taking a little longer. So, for a first date, I prefer a coffee and a chat. If we click, then maybe a meal. I prefer to do loads of talking to suss out compatibility and attraction. After that, well... I am up for adventures!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Disco Cycling Chinese English Middle Eastern Bowling
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