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Debbra, 39

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About Me

I am a hopeless romantic and am seeking my better half. One who will love me despite my faults and inspire me to want to be a better person.I'm still hoping to find that one special guy that's tired of games and looking for a committed relationship. The foundation of every good relationship is a strong friendship, so let's meet up, get to know each other, and go from there. And yes, I'm looking to actually MEET....I'm not interested in playing texting games or talking on the phone for months without meeting. Isn't meeting people the whole point of being here? :)God knows I'm far from perfect, and I'm not looking for a man who's perfect either, just someone who brings out the best in me and vice versa. I want someone who motivates and inspires me to be better, and I'd like to find someone who's looking for the same. I'm NOT looking for FWBs or casual sex. Just someone to get to know and see where it goes. I'd like to get out to see the city, catch a movie, go shopping, go out to dinner, or go target shooting (this is one of my favorite hobbies, so felons and those not legally able to own guns need not apply).I know myself very well and know what I want and need in a man, and I'm hoping to find someone who is also to the point where he knows who he is and what he wants. Below is a little about me and what I'm hoping to find in a partner.About me:***, divorced, no kids (and I don't want any but I'm ok with it if you have kids)- Christian- VERY independent. I'm not looking for someone to take care of me. Although I love spending quality time with the person I'm with, I do also need some 'me' time.- Yes, I'm a big woman but I've lost a lot of weight (without surgery) since January ***. I'm fat, you can be too, as long as you're willing to work on it together.- Conservative Constitutionalist & politics are important to me- sweet but sarcastic and opinionated (I could test the patience of a saint sometimes!) :)- very loyal and affectionate- honest to the point of being blunt at times (which not everyone can handle)I'm looking for ONE good man who is:- African American (sorry, just my preference)- Christian (NOT Catholic)- Honest and reliable- Great sense of humor- Looking for a committed relationship- Must be local!- Not a liberal. If you are, we won't get along.NO PSYCHOS PLEASE! And by the way, if you're overly sensitive by women who are cautious, that's a huge red flag. There are lots of crazies out here, and if you're a guy that gets offended that I won't give you my phone number within 2 minutes of your first message, move on. If you've actually read my profile and are interested, please message me. Let's get to know each other! Depends on the person. I don't like going to the movies for a first date though, because you can't get to know each other that way.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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