SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Alayah
Online
Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
Why, yes, I would LOVE to spill my guts to any Tom, D*ck or Harry that would happen to click my face ... but thanks for taking the time to look :) I'm really young at heart so I enjoy being goofy and sarcastic ... making myself & other people laugh. I can be serious, though. No, really! I can ... :) I think my family may have a lot to do with that because since I was a little girl they've been pulling pranks, cracking jokes & even doing skits to get the laughs. Sure, I may use humor as a defense mechanism at times, but most people laugh it off!! Music and singing are my life. My family is all musically inclined so its pretty much in my blood. I've been in my church choir since I was 12, and I'm constantly searching iTunes for the stuff I like. I wouldn't say I'm a music SNOB, but I am a pretty harsh critic when it comes to what I like and don't like. I also have a sensitive ear when it comes to pitch and keys ... love live music, but hate 'pitchy' singers! LOL! If I listed all the bands I like, there wouldn't be any room left in this thing. Mostly Alternative, some Techno, Top 40, 80's, 90's ... Self diagnosed OCD, and sometimes a little eccentric .. but not to the point of being weird or annoying. I like to think of it a quirky, & I've had friends tell me its funny. As far as goals, I want to go back to school next year for a degree in Accounting. My current employer provides tuition reimbursement, so I'm excited about the opportunity Now let's be honest ... at my age, I'm not on this site to make friends or go on a "casual date" ... If you're looking for a notch in your belt &/or head board, DO NOT APPLY HERE! I at least wanna meet a guy who's serious about getting to know me & starting a relationship. If I wanted something shallow, I'd pick up a random at a bar ... LOL! I'm too old for that shizznit!! On the flip side, however, if you want to get married this week, you're taking it too far and you scare me. Don't show up on the first date in a tux with a ring ... ya freak! LOL!!First dates are always a little intimidating ... this is someone you've only talked to a few times. You've probably only see their best pictures. You want to make a good impression on your first date ... want them to like you. BEWARE: Elaborate first dates leave way too much expectation for the future (don't act like you're shocked). I say keep it simple but don't be a cheep-skate. Dinner and a movie, or fun activity (like pool or bowling). If you're expecting the woman (aka "ME") to pay her own way (which is really low class on the first date) you should tell her up front. Don't wait until you're asking the waiter for the check"S" to inform her that she has to pay her own way ... it's just pansy of you. Have the juevos to tell her (aka "ME") up front that you're part of the generation that believes the woman need s to pay her own way for everything ... so I can leave. Now don't get me wrong all you forward thinkers. I'm not lookin' for a free ticket! but the first date??!!!?! Come on!!! At least pay for dinner and I'll by my own ticket or bowling or whatever ...
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Fawn
Online
Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 37-47
I believe in simplicity. So I keep it simple. I cherish communication, commitment, monogamy, loyalty, love, and laughter. Looking for someone who doesn’t make it all complicated to get along with.
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Blondell
Online
Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
Hi thereSo here we are...checking out strangers sites, hoping to find that one person who we can connect with and seems like a perfect match (according to the profile at least)...What are you really looking for?? I know what I want and I am picky because I am really looking for a real love, honest love, forever love...I want a partnership which to me means we support each other, respect each other, go above and beyond for each other...and we truly get what kind of commitment and effort it takes to make a great relationship work!Here is my top 10 list...Oh yes there is a list:):) This way you get an idea of what I am looking for, and if this is not you then atleast you know to move on to the next wonderful person and if this is you don't waste another moment and send me a message so we can see if number 1 on this list is present for both of us:***Attraction is there...ie. Chemistry which you only know when you see each other in person2) Mutual values, morals, goals...ie. Big picture stuff has to be a close match (this is what you figure out through dating***Integrity...ie. Your Grandma is proud of you because you're the same person in front of others as you are when no one is looking (no secret freaks***Ambitious...ie. You have a career you like/love...you are motivated and have lots of positive energy at work and at home (no couch potatoes or late night gamers please***Communication...ie. Yes you love to talk-talking about life, daily crap and big stuff...staying emotionally connected (closed books need not apply***Trust...this is a given, and you understand that if you don't have this you have nothing7) Positive Outlook...ie. You are happy...You love rainbows and puppies;)...you try to live in the present and enjoy all your moments (you smile alot because there is alot to smile about in your life***Funny...You have a good sense of humor and like to joke around, you would be described as light hearted, can be silly and lots of fun 9) Caring and kind hearted... You put others needs before your own (You are the guy who mows your neighbor's lawn just because***Balanced...You are healthy..ie. Emotionally/Spiritually/Physically (You take care of your needs...mind, body, and soul)So now about me...I would say I hold all of the above characteristics-great right...well there is more...I am happy person, always smiling...an optimist, open-mind and a nonjudgmental person and I am really seeking the same in my partner!I am definitely into connecting with someone who also believes in lifelong learning, practicing kindness and who has similar family values to mine. I am fun and energetic...friends would describe me as the party planner extraordinaire so your next b-... I work in health care and enjoy my work but I do not live to work. I would describe myself as very balanced, I get who I am, I have integrity and I know I am responsible for my own happiness. I need a man who also has a strong sense of self and his direction in life. I am not looking for perfection, I am wanting someone who is just perfect for me and vice versa:) I am not willing to settle just for the sake of being with anyone and I am looking for someone who also is not just looking for a "good enough for now" relationship. I am not into rushing into a relationship but ultimately I am looking for a life partner to share my life with, be crazy silly with, dance in the kitchen with, travel to remote areas and explore with...and really making amazing memories in a happy life together:)I love being a mom. I have a great kid who is a big part of my life. My child has a great dad in his life and we are both very involved in friendly co-parenting.... I would be open to the idea of having more children if I find true love for life.;)Best of luck:) Something fun and no stress...lets first figure out if we have a mutual chemistry between us...then we can move down the long list;)