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Alayah, 36

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Why, yes, I would LOVE to spill my guts to any Tom, D*ck or Harry that would happen to click my face ... but thanks for taking the time to look :) I'm really young at heart so I enjoy being goofy and sarcastic ... making myself & other people laugh. I can be serious, though. No, really! I can ... :) I think my family may have a lot to do with that because since I was a little girl they've been pulling pranks, cracking jokes & even doing skits to get the laughs. Sure, I may use humor as a defense mechanism at times, but most people laugh it off!! Music and singing are my life. My family is all musically inclined so its pretty much in my blood. I've been in my church choir since I was 12, and I'm constantly searching iTunes for the stuff I like. I wouldn't say I'm a music SNOB, but I am a pretty harsh critic when it comes to what I like and don't like. I also have a sensitive ear when it comes to pitch and keys ... love live music, but hate 'pitchy' singers! LOL! If I listed all the bands I like, there wouldn't be any room left in this thing. Mostly Alternative, some Techno, Top 40, 80's, 90's ... Self diagnosed OCD, and sometimes a little eccentric .. but not to the point of being weird or annoying. I like to think of it a quirky, & I've had friends tell me its funny. As far as goals, I want to go back to school next year for a degree in Accounting. My current employer provides tuition reimbursement, so I'm excited about the opportunity Now let's be honest ... at my age, I'm not on this site to make friends or go on a "casual date" ... If you're looking for a notch in your belt &/or head board, DO NOT APPLY HERE! I at least wanna meet a guy who's serious about getting to know me & starting a relationship. If I wanted something shallow, I'd pick up a random at a bar ... LOL! I'm too old for that shizznit!! On the flip side, however, if you want to get married this week, you're taking it too far and you scare me. Don't show up on the first date in a tux with a ring ... ya freak! LOL!!First dates are always a little intimidating ... this is someone you've only talked to a few times. You've probably only see their best pictures. You want to make a good impression on your first date ... want them to like you. BEWARE: Elaborate first dates leave way too much expectation for the future (don't act like you're shocked). I say keep it simple but don't be a cheep-skate. Dinner and a movie, or fun activity (like pool or bowling). If you're expecting the woman (aka "ME") to pay her own way (which is really low class on the first date) you should tell her up front. Don't wait until you're asking the waiter for the check"S" to inform her that she has to pay her own way ... it's just pansy of you. Have the juevos to tell her (aka "ME") up front that you're part of the generation that believes the woman need s to pay her own way for everything ... so I can leave. Now don't get me wrong all you forward thinkers. I'm not lookin' for a free ticket! but the first date??!!!?! Come on!!! At least pay for dinner and I'll by my own ticket or bowling or whatever ...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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