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About Me

Why, yes, I would LOVE to spill my guts to any Tom, D*ck or Harry that would happen to click my face ... but thanks for taking the time to look :) I'm really young at heart so I enjoy being goofy and sarcastic ... making myself & other people laugh. I can be serious, though. No, really! I can ... :) I think my family may have a lot to do with that because since I was a little girl they've been pulling pranks, cracking jokes & even doing skits to get the laughs. Sure, I may use humor as a defense mechanism at times, but most people laugh it off!! Music and singing are my life. My family is all musically inclined so its pretty much in my blood. I've been in my church choir since I was 12, and I'm constantly searching iTunes for the stuff I like. I wouldn't say I'm a music SNOB, but I am a pretty harsh critic when it comes to what I like and don't like. I also have a sensitive ear when it comes to pitch and keys ... love live music, but hate 'pitchy' singers! LOL! If I listed all the bands I like, there wouldn't be any room left in this thing. Mostly Alternative, some Techno, Top 40, 80's, 90's ... Self diagnosed OCD, and sometimes a little eccentric .. but not to the point of being weird or annoying. I like to think of it a quirky, & I've had friends tell me its funny. As far as goals, I want to go back to school next year for a degree in Accounting. My current employer provides tuition reimbursement, so I'm excited about the opportunity Now let's be honest ... at my age, I'm not on this site to make friends or go on a "casual date" ... If you're looking for a notch in your belt &/or head board, DO NOT APPLY HERE! I at least wanna meet a guy who's serious about getting to know me & starting a relationship. If I wanted something shallow, I'd pick up a random at a bar ... LOL! I'm too old for that shizznit!! On the flip side, however, if you want to get married this week, you're taking it too far and you scare me. Don't show up on the first date in a tux with a ring ... ya freak! LOL!!First dates are always a little intimidating ... this is someone you've only talked to a few times. You've probably only see their best pictures. You want to make a good impression on your first date ... want them to like you. BEWARE: Elaborate first dates leave way too much expectation for the future (don't act like you're shocked). I say keep it simple but don't be a cheep-skate. Dinner and a movie, or fun activity (like pool or bowling). If you're expecting the woman (aka "ME") to pay her own way (which is really low class on the first date) you should tell her up front. Don't wait until you're asking the waiter for the check"S" to inform her that she has to pay her own way ... it's just pansy of you. Have the juevos to tell her (aka "ME") up front that you're part of the generation that believes the woman need s to pay her own way for everything ... so I can leave. Now don't get me wrong all you forward thinkers. I'm not lookin' for a free ticket! but the first date??!!!?! Come on!!! At least pay for dinner and I'll by my own ticket or bowling or whatever ...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Eusebia

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    OMG!!! Yes - I'd rather be single! No - I don't want to pay for your expensive meal or double drinks. Nor do I want to see a naked picture of your package an half and hour after meeting you. Oh! I almost forgot - please don't burp twice on our first date and please move out of your parents and please dont break my moms moms crystal wine glass and not say sorry. I also don't want to be with someone who is self-centered and doesn't think of others. And please don't stalk me outside my house and follow me to the store. And please don't search through my private property. I am looking for an older gentleman without kids. I'm not looking for someone younger than myself. Just a nice and normal man with manners. Thank you.I'm looking for people to hang out with. I like bike riding, going for walks, concerts, sporting events, working out, golfing, camping, going for dinners, skiing, cooking, watching law and order, criminal minds, breaking bad and reading. I'm not a big fan of movies but I'll watch them sometimes. I drink about ***times a year when I like to let loose and go out and party! Other than I don't drink and I don't want to be with a drinker. I also don't want to be with a smoker. I would really like a man who takes care of his teeth and flosses. Honestly my ideal relationship would be to hang out with someone twice a week till we get serious. I like to take things slow and make sure we like each other first before we get committed. Thanks for reading my profile! Go for a coffee.

  • Blondell

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Hi thereSo here we are...checking out strangers sites, hoping to find that one person who we can connect with and seems like a perfect match (according to the profile at least)...What are you really looking for?? I know what I want and I am picky because I am really looking for a real love, honest love, forever love...I want a partnership which to me means we support each other, respect each other, go above and beyond for each other...and we truly get what kind of commitment and effort it takes to make a great relationship work!Here is my top 10 list...Oh yes there is a list:):) This way you get an idea of what I am looking for, and if this is not you then atleast you know to move on to the next wonderful person and if this is you don't waste another moment and send me a message so we can see if number 1 on this list is present for both of us:***Attraction is there...ie. Chemistry which you only know when you see each other in person2) Mutual values, morals, goals...ie. Big picture stuff has to be a close match (this is what you figure out through dating***Integrity...ie. Your Grandma is proud of you because you're the same person in front of others as you are when no one is looking (no secret freaks***Ambitious...ie. You have a career you like/love...you are motivated and have lots of positive energy at work and at home (no couch potatoes or late night gamers please***Communication...ie. Yes you love to talk-talking about life, daily crap and big stuff...staying emotionally connected (closed books need not apply***Trust...this is a given, and you understand that if you don't have this you have nothing7) Positive Outlook...ie. You are happy...You love rainbows and puppies;)...you try to live in the present and enjoy all your moments (you smile alot because there is alot to smile about in your life***Funny...You have a good sense of humor and like to joke around, you would be described as light hearted, can be silly and lots of fun 9) Caring and kind hearted... You put others needs before your own (You are the guy who mows your neighbor's lawn just because***Balanced...You are healthy..ie. Emotionally/Spiritually/Physically (You take care of your needs...mind, body, and soul)So now about me...I would say I hold all of the above characteristics-great right...well there is more...I am happy person, always smiling...an optimist, open-mind and a nonjudgmental person and I am really seeking the same in my partner!I am definitely into connecting with someone who also believes in lifelong learning, practicing kindness and who has similar family values to mine. I am fun and energetic...friends would describe me as the party planner extraordinaire so your next b-... I work in health care and enjoy my work but I do not live to work. I would describe myself as very balanced, I get who I am, I have integrity and I know I am responsible for my own happiness. I need a man who also has a strong sense of self and his direction in life. I am not looking for perfection, I am wanting someone who is just perfect for me and vice versa:) I am not willing to settle just for the sake of being with anyone and I am looking for someone who also is not just looking for a "good enough for now" relationship. I am not into rushing into a relationship but ultimately I am looking for a life partner to share my life with, be crazy silly with, dance in the kitchen with, travel to remote areas and explore with...and really making amazing memories in a happy life together:)I love being a mom. I have a great kid who is a big part of my life. My child has a great dad in his life and we are both very involved in friendly co-parenting.... I would be open to the idea of having more children if I find true love for life.;)Best of luck:) Something fun and no stress...lets first figure out if we have a mutual chemistry between us...then we can move down the long list;)

  • Wilhelmina

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    This is about me - I"ve been single a long time, my boys are getting older and really don't need or dare I say want me as much as they once did. So I have decided it's time to put myself out there and see what happens. I like the outdoors in the summer, camping, hiking, riding, or just floating down a river, whatever we do it's all great especially the roar of a campfire at the end of a day. I also like to travel and see new places and things. But I can also be a homebody, I enjoy a good board game and laughs with friends, and then there are the days that I can watch movies all day long or get lost with some stupid online game. I'm pretty easy going, I get along with everyone, I tend not to judge. I want an outdoors men, a hunter, a fisherman, a motocross/atv rider, a man who is good with his hands and not afraid to get dirty. You should have a job and if that job takes you away or you work crazy hours, that's fine with me, cause I do believe the saying "distance make the heart grow fonder". Anyhow If this sound like you, and if you like how I sound then I think we should chat. I think coffee to start and see if we have a connection is a good start, to me you can't feel the sparks unless your face to face first.

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