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Hi thereSo here we are...checking out strangers sites, hoping to find that one person who we can connect with and seems like a perfect match (according to the profile at least)...What are you really looking for?? I know what I want and I am picky because I am really looking for a real love, honest love, forever love...I want a partnership which to me means we support each other, respect each other, go above and beyond for each other...and we truly get what kind of commitment and effort it takes to make a great relationship work!Here is my top 10 list...Oh yes there is a list:):) This way you get an idea of what I am looking for, and if this is not you then atleast you know to move on to the next wonderful person and if this is you don't waste another moment and send me a message so we can see if number 1 on this list is present for both of us:***Attraction is there...ie. Chemistry which you only know when you see each other in person2) Mutual values, morals, goals...ie. Big picture stuff has to be a close match (this is what you figure out through dating***Integrity...ie. Your Grandma is proud of you because you're the same person in front of others as you are when no one is looking (no secret freaks***Ambitious...ie. You have a career you like/love...you are motivated and have lots of positive energy at work and at home (no couch potatoes or late night gamers please***Communication...ie. Yes you love to talk-talking about life, daily crap and big stuff...staying emotionally connected (closed books need not apply***Trust...this is a given, and you understand that if you don't have this you have nothing7) Positive Outlook...ie. You are happy...You love rainbows and puppies;)...you try to live in the present and enjoy all your moments (you smile alot because there is alot to smile about in your life***Funny...You have a good sense of humor and like to joke around, you would be described as light hearted, can be silly and lots of fun 9) Caring and kind hearted... You put others needs before your own (You are the guy who mows your neighbor's lawn just because***Balanced...You are healthy..ie. Emotionally/Spiritually/Physically (You take care of your needs...mind, body, and soul)So now about me...I would say I hold all of the above characteristics-great right...well there is more...I am happy person, always smiling...an optimist, open-mind and a nonjudgmental person and I am really seeking the same in my partner!I am definitely into connecting with someone who also believes in lifelong learning, practicing kindness and who has similar family values to mine. I am fun and energetic...friends would describe me as the party planner extraordinaire so your next b-... I work in health care and enjoy my work but I do not live to work. I would describe myself as very balanced, I get who I am, I have integrity and I know I am responsible for my own happiness. I need a man who also has a strong sense of self and his direction in life. I am not looking for perfection, I am wanting someone who is just perfect for me and vice versa:) I am not willing to settle just for the sake of being with anyone and I am looking for someone who also is not just looking for a "good enough for now" relationship. I am not into rushing into a relationship but ultimately I am looking for a life partner to share my life with, be crazy silly with, dance in the kitchen with, travel to remote areas and explore with...and really making amazing memories in a happy life together:)I love being a mom. I have a great kid who is a big part of my life. My child has a great dad in his life and we are both very involved in friendly co-parenting.... I would be open to the idea of having more children if I find true love for life.;)Best of luck:) Something fun and no stress...lets first figure out if we have a mutual chemistry between us...then we can move down the long list;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Leeanne

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    HI, I have been on this site for awhile now and with not much luck. This is my last try before calling it quits and moving on to something else. For starters I am divorced and have been for almost ten years now. I have three grown children who are my best friends, and yes we hang out together, and we enjoy being around each other. I am proud that I was able to raise such great kids. I love animals, so if you arent an animal lover we probably wont get along, I share my heart and home with dogs and cats, but still do keep a very clean home. I am a non smoker and dont go to bars. I want to travel when time permits, I have so many places I want to visit. I am very down to earth, and very easy to get along with. I dont have an age preference because I believe age is just a number, I like music, mostly country, and hip hop, but will listen to almost anything. I am a girly girl meaning I do take care of myself, I do wear makeup and do my hair and I do like to dress nice. I am not picky about the person I am looking for I just want someone sincere and honest, who knows what they want. I will not do one night stands I have values and morals, and treat people the way I hope to be treated, so if you think you might like to get to know me, send me an *** go from there. Take care and hope to hear from you.P.S. I am not a jealous person, I overcame that several years ago and I am confident in the person I am. I like working out and taking care of myself, I believe that first appearances say alot. I am human and have made mistakes and I pray each night for forgiveness and to live the right way and do things right. If I still sound interesting please *** been on this site for awhile now, I have met some interesting people, some strange people and some really nice people, but I have NOT found love, the one thing I am searching for. I am at a point in my life where I want to relax, and want to be with one person for the rest of my life. Its been fun on here but I am ready to say I have had a good run, but its time to call it a wrap, Enough. I will leave up my profile few more days and then its as I said Enough. Apparently after this long I am either doing something wrong or he just isnt here. Best first dates are definately dinner or just getting coffee and talking.

  • Jayleen

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am outdoors type of girl, loves shopping and spending time with family and friends.I like quadding and fishing.I am interested in trying new things and foods.I love all sports.I like watching comedy and romantic movies.I just recently started reading about self-affirmation.

  • Keighley

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    This is not my first time on this site lol. Gave up this deal well over a year ago but decided it was time to give it another try. A little about me......I am happily divorced and have my life in order. I do believe I am missing that special someone and would like to find Mr. Right. I'm open minded and don't put too much emphasis on looks and material things but rather someone that also has his life in order and knows how a functional relationship works having both parties making effort. I'm very busy and like it that way. My career, children and independence mean a lot to me. I like to try new things, listen to others, meet new folks and overall just enjoy life to the fullest. I have learned that we only a few days here so we may as well make the best of it! I've got a positive attitude and refuse to let negativity be a part of my life. I've been single for over 3 years and have learned some valuable lessons, the good, the bad and the ugly lol. One thing is you can't force chemistry, its there or its not! Not everyone knows how to dance!!!! Some people are good at compliments and some are well, just plain clueless lmao. Some folks (both men and women) seem to thrive off "games".....yeah, just not interested and refuse to participate. Brains and brawn don't always go hand in hand. I really believe that in my age group, there should be no requirement to ask you Mother or your Ex for "permission" to go out. Seriously!!!! And, sadly enough, not everyone understands the definition of "foreplay". Last chance google it or read "Fifty Shades" for some tips!!!So, I'm looking for something that could potentially lead into a serious relationship. I know and understand that these things take time and effort. I, for one, am willing to to do my part! The question is "are you?"Dating means actually spending time together, not texting/messaging for days and hours on end. If you in the race to meet a great lady, send me a message!!! Double D's lol, Drink or a Dance????

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