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Xochitl, 40

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About Me

I am a fairly simple girl that loves to engage in great conversation,over a glass of wine or a latte. I love to smile and laugh and just enjoy life as it comes...Have 2 beautiful girls which I share ***with my x.I am a very patient person, very loyal in everything i do...I have a small family but we are very close and my friends and family are very important to me :) Im looking to find that special connection, chemistry, (emotionally, physically & mentally)spark that i know does exist out there...and i know one day im going to find it.I am looking for a long term relationship...so if you are looking to hook up for a one nighter, Im not the girl for you. I don't understand why people dont read the fine print... After the initial Meet & Greet...if we hit it off, let's plan something special...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Prudence

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am a Paramedic and I am an also very intuitive and empathetic woman and single mom of a eleven year old brilliant little boy, whom is Awesome. If you are not a gentleman or plan to message me with ungentlemanly chat, don't waste our time :) During the warm months I spend most of my free time with my son at the beach where his grandmother owns a home and we love the salt water and fishing. Winter months I enjoy watching movies and just enjoying my time off and relaxing and being with friends and family.... Please understand I am not interested in material things, I have my own thanks to my father and all he taught me. Love my career and I am very good at what I do. I have learned many, many lessons in life and feel that I am a pretty evolved human being lol, I am looking for the same. I care about people a lot and try to even love my enemies. I am easy going and love to laugh and smile all the time. I have been hurt and I've hurt people, I think maybe we all have. I am honest and loyal to a fault. I am a very positive person and love to surround myself with positive people. I have been on this site before and had my share of dates, just have not found what I am looking for. Physical attraction is important, but character, honesty and a good sense of humor goes a lot further with me. I read a lot of non fiction books and am business oriented as well. My body type, I would describe as busty curvy and some people think I'm pretty attractive. I am a country girl at heart and a lot of fun, I love the water and the sun...and again love to fish. I can be shy at first but once I come out of my shell...look out.... I love to slowdance in the kitchen or anywhere for that matter. My taste in music ranges from country, motown classics, R&B to top 40. Hmmmmm, well I am pretty open to anything, a casual meet somewhere public and if everything goes well...I'm sure we will come up with something for an actual date. I do not meet every one that messages me lol....7 total in a off and on, two year period. If this fact bothers you... I am also not going to be your cup of tea...because I am absolutely not fully vested in meetville.. meaning I am not a full time dater, not even part time. However, I am sincere in wishing everyone good luck finding exactly what you need and desire in life :)

  • Xylina

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    "*******..sorry.********I'm a hard working single mother of a very sassy soon to be 4 year old. I'm an excellent mother, loyal friend, thoughtful daughter, and dependable sister. I come from a big family and almost always have an event on the calendar. I'm cheerful, affectionate, & fun, but do take my responsibilities seriously. I have no time or interest in drama. I like my life simple & fullfilling. I find joy in the little things...a good cup of coffee, random artwork from my daughter, a card from a friend, etc. Friends and family describe me as grounded, attractive, and funny. I am in NO WAY materialistic, and don't want someone who is motivated by $$ or status. I am very affectionate and time together & touch is very important to me. I do what I say & say what I do. I say what's on my mind...communication is essential. I'm just as happy at a fancy dinner as I am at a bonfire or just relaxing at home. I am looking for someone local that is stable, has regular job, solid finances, & no ex drama that is down to earth and has morals. Must be understanding about my limited free time and willing to work around my somewhat hectic schedule. I need a man that brings as much to the table that I do with enough in common to be compatible, but differences to teach and learn from. I am not interested in someone who is never home & works too much...time together is key in building & maintaining a solid relationship.DO NOT CONTACT ME FOR SEX OR HOOKUPS....NOT HAPPENING!!

  • Elfrieda

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Hey there!I have absolutely no idea what to say here....So here goes. I try to live a relaxed, drama free life I am always laughing and can find the humour in any situation. I take things as they come. I am intelligent and enjoy great conversations. I am very independent, honest, kind, sarcastic and funny( I like to joke and make people laugh). I am also an amazing mother,sister and friend. The girls and I like to go for drinks or whatever else we may get up to(we went to Vegas after xmas). I love to camp and be outside, music of any kind and going to concerts. I like to do lots of different things, but will spare you and not list them all.I am looking for someone with their shirt on.....lol jk, who is down to earth and really wants to get to know me for me. Someone to talk too,spend time with and have some fun...much more difficult than you would think. So message me if this sounds like you. drinks,coffee whatever is comfortable for both of us

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