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"*******..sorry.********I'm a hard working single mother of a very sassy soon to be 4 year old. I'm an excellent mother, loyal friend, thoughtful daughter, and dependable sister. I come from a big family and almost always have an event on the calendar. I'm cheerful, affectionate, & fun, but do take my responsibilities seriously. I have no time or interest in drama. I like my life simple & fullfilling. I find joy in the little things...a good cup of coffee, random artwork from my daughter, a card from a friend, etc. Friends and family describe me as grounded, attractive, and funny. I am in NO WAY materialistic, and don't want someone who is motivated by $$ or status. I am very affectionate and time together & touch is very important to me. I do what I say & say what I do. I say what's on my mind...communication is essential. I'm just as happy at a fancy dinner as I am at a bonfire or just relaxing at home. I am looking for someone local that is stable, has regular job, solid finances, & no ex drama that is down to earth and has morals. Must be understanding about my limited free time and willing to work around my somewhat hectic schedule. I need a man that brings as much to the table that I do with enough in common to be compatible, but differences to teach and learn from. I am not interested in someone who is never home & works too much...time together is key in building & maintaining a solid relationship.DO NOT CONTACT ME FOR SEX OR HOOKUPS....NOT HAPPENING!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shaye

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    To start off I'd like to thank you for stopping in.. and welcome to what I like to call the worlds largest vending machine..lol but can't kick the machine to get your change back when you don't get what you want! I hope it's treated you well so far..:)I'm a fun loving, out going gal, I enjoy the outdoors, but can also enjoy a night in..I live my life with 110% put forth..if someone reaps the benifits, I will always expend the maximum effort..:)I tend to be alittle feisty, and I can become consumed with the things I'm into..I'm passionate about plenty, tend to be very postive and am chock-full of motivational rehtoric..Perpetual positivity mantra.. If you believe it, good things will come.I am drivin and know what I wantI love watching movies, all types of music and I like it loud..I love to dance, but have NO rythym but always willing to bust a move in the middle of the store when they play a good song.. I'd like to find a dance partnerI Love to sing.. I use music to sooth my soul.. when I'm angry or upset or happy as can be.. music heals all :)singing and dancing is my medicine..:)I love to cook, and bake, I'm working on expanding my kitchen skills into one day having my own restraunt...but for now, I spend alot of my time learning and experimenting and trying new things.. I do alot of cooking for friends, and I love to entertain..My biggest fear is flying. (I would like to break that fear one day and travel)My best quality would be my determination.. I do give everything I have.. and I fight hard for what I believe in, or love.. and my compassionate heart.. is one hard to come by, this could be magical or I could make you sick..lolTo inspire people through humor, romance, or anything that can *** passion with in them makes me happy, and it might even make you smile too..:)My biggest flaw, I would believe to be is trusting people.. one thing I have learned is words are easy to come by.. actions tell all, people tell you what you want to hear all the time, but do the total opposite .. WHAT ONE DOES AFFECTS MORE THAN WHAT ONE SAYS! So PLEASE be yourself..:)I would like to meet someone spiritual, romantic a robust sense of humor,I am playful and prone to laughter.. fundamentally he's be adventurous like me, and he'd never say NO to trying something new..:) He wouldn't waste time complaining, look for the good in peopleI will watch, learn, and feel you out, rather then you telling me how great you are... I want to know if you can admit your not perfect.... I'm not judgemental but expect common sense.. and your true identity. I pride myself on being true to one self..I am one of the very few people left that believe in commitment.. I know it's unique but it does still exists..I have 4 wonderful children ages 8 to 17 that I share with my ex.. I'm looking for a family man, one that in time, my kids and I can look up to and learn from with a positive influence, and can accept the sameI love animals and have 2 crazy dogs and a cat to call my own... and I love them all dearly, I adore hanging out with my friends, and value my family..I do like to cuddle, as it is a requirment.. but I can't stress enough, I am NOT looking for a one night stand or a friend with benifits.. if you are, I will disappoint you..:) I'm looking for someone serious about a real relationship..I have a big heart with alot to offer, and expect the same in return.. I'm not looking for perfection, just someone perfect for me..:) we should make each other better, it's all about adding value to each others lives..I'm not looking for us to be 2 peas in a pod, as I feel being different adds flavor.. we aren't the same person and different is interesting and challenging to me as it will allow me to learn from you.. but somethings in common is always nice and always a place to start and or fall back on.I strive to do my best in everything I do, but can accept that I will fail sometimes and I strongly believe rising after you fall is your greatest glory... it will take one hell of a MAN to rock my world... no one said it would be easy.. just promise it would be worth it..:) My beliefs, my loyality, my genuine love..are very unique..AIM HIGH, AND LAND GRACEFULLY................:)One last Question as curiosity moves the mind.... I'm a fan of both Criminal Minds and Big Bang Theory... I love Dr. Reid and Dr........in a battle of wits who would win???? Visualize me with bloodshot eyes and 7 empty tea cups in front of my laptop for a week straight, all I'm asking for is, for you to now *** of it..anything will do..lol....Yes I am a romantic at heart.. I'm not the first one to go to the movies with a date, as it would be a shame to sit there and stare at the screen for a couple of hours, when we could be chatting and getting aquainted with each other... I need mental stimulation..(I crave it)...

  • Brittni

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    My pictures are being weird but I'm not!!!I am an attractive single girl who is looking for new friends to have fun n excitement with. I am wanting to explore new things and re-explore for new memories.I enjoy my lifelong friends and am lucky to have every one of them. New friends add excitment to an already exciting life. I work really hard to have what I have, which isnt a whole lot, but I say that so its understood that I can stand on my own ;) Plans of camping, concerts, and late nights are in my future. Would like the company of new friendships and relationships. So now you know what your missing , Have fun guys.... Lol.. I don't know where or how that pic of my puppy got on here but... I've experienced weirder things so I'll let this one pass.... Pretty much any first date that did not include....ummmmm..MUSHROOMS!!! lol.. Nevermind, I`m pretty easy going, so any first date that made me laugh and let us have a good time, that would be a perfect first date.Lol, ok so I've gotten a lot of mail from some pretty confused fellas out there tellin me how disappointed they were that I like to do drugs, but they are willing to look past it since I'm so hot..?! ~ I was only referring to the fungus food some people eat .. I just graduated and earned a diploma in Addictions, and I now work at a Men's Shelter, Case Manging guys that are celebrating sobriety... I am not addicted to anything other then.. ;) definitely am NO angel tho.. ;)I own my own car, an a jeep, I am very independent, but sure don't mind being spoiled sometimes ;)That's good for now, you'll learn lots more if your lucky ;)P.s.. Even if I did like to eat mushrooms by the campfire with friends listening to good music..would that really be such a BAD thing?!?! P.s.s.. I'm thinking my new meetville app leaves me online, guess I'm finally officially in the game now huh?! It does show I have mail on my phone, only place I have this meetville thing, so I will get back to you if I get the chance ;)

  • Merrilee

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

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