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Sudie, 38

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About Me

Please don't let "hopeless romantic" scare you off, they made me pick something, and I couldn't find one I liked. I hate being labeled :) They didn't have the option of girl next door. Which describes me pretty well, I think. Well, depending on your neighborhood, I suppose. I'm really not home all that much, activities and work keep me busy. However, I have a knack for finding time for other things that are important to me. I spend time with my son and friends, doing the typical things, going out to eat, movies, theme parks. I spend a lot of time with my family, I love my son, and plan on making the most of the time he will still spend with me (he's about to become a teenager, so I'm about to become the most uncool person on the planet). I don't need a partner, but would like one. I would love to find someone to go on adventures with, and most importantly share some laughs. I'm not a fan of drama in real life (tv is a whole other story - I work hard (3 jobs), but also play hard. I'm focused, detail oriented, but likes to see the big picture. I'm aware of politics but not super into them, I'm more focused on the local impact. Christian, kind, good hearted, funny (well I think so),and loves to laugh. Loves being outside, and fresh air. Old fashioned, I don't call guys until I really know them, I'm not sleeping with you until I trust you. I'm not flashy, and am shy. I'm not Barbie, and can't be bought. I see through most BS, and have a very low tolerance level. I'm a grown up with grown up responsibilities, I don't have time to play like that. What I'm looking for: a great guy. Kind, funny, confident (but not a jerk). Nice teeth (shallow yes, sorry). I really want someone that I really look forward to seeing, and talking to, and they feel the same way about me. I don't want to be a chore, nor for me to have another one.What I'm not really looking for: rude, arrogant, "I'm better than everyone else" guys. If you are proud of the fact that your a jerk, please keep moving. I don't need the attitude, and honestly, you are not that great. Any place we can talk and check each other out, but has a quick escape route. Not coffee, I get nervous enough on my own, the extra caffeine throws me over the top ;) I've had good luck at parks, free, nothing lost but time, and always something to look at. But, I'm open to anything.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Terica

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    In no way is this in any set order just a go with the flow when I feel like adding to my profile. I am comfortable being out or staying in and watching a movie. I can dress up and wear my heels or I can be a jeans and tennis shoe kinda girl (usually slippers and I'm not talking house shoes lol - extra points if you know what I'm talking about)! I do prefer a bar than a club but have those crazy nights I want to let loose. I think I have a great sense of humor and love corny! I can be very sarcastic and quick on my feet. I'm the perfect boy mom so I think our sense of humor is very close of course I believe I'm funnier than them maybe not my youngest he cracks me up. I love being adventurous and will try anything twice - once to see if I like it and second to make sure my initial decision was right. I also love to cook and grill - not sure how my boys became such picky eaters when I love most food and love to cook new recipes.I have two teenage boys 13 and 15 who keep me on my toes and try to give me dating advice scary but funnyI'm not a big fan of facial hair- scruff is cool sometimes but full beards can't do I love to kiss and facial hair can sometimes be uncomfortable on my sensitive face. My needs are minimal affection, attention, communication and respect. My wants well those are negotiable. I think people confuse there needs with their wants :) I'm not looking for someone to complete me. A relationship consists of two whole individuals. I'm looking for someone complimentary, not supplementary.I do believe that you must have chemistry physical and mentally. You have to be attracted to each other physically and then personality which will either make you more attractive or less :) with that being said you must have a picture in your profile. Also, eyes are amazing and pics with sunglasses hide them from the world. Just like men say about women please have current pictures within the last year. Let's talk age I don't mind adjusting the age requirement a few years on both sides but that's about it. I would like a man who can take control in little things like dates (hint) and decisions. I want someone else to be in control once in a while being a single mom I'm always the one (don't ask my 15 yr old he thinks he is lol). If you do something at the beginning of a relationship I get used to it so don't do things at the beginning if you don't plan on doing things all the time :***questions I ask you:Where do you see yourself in five years? (Yes that question being established myself I need to know where you see yourself)What drives you in everything you do?More to follow :) or maybe not - if you got this far thanks for reading. Once you get to know me I'm a big clown who like to have fun and good around :)Submitted from mobile I'm hoping you can take control of this part :)

  • Jaymie

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    We're all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you've been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there's no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn't until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems--the ones that make you truly who you are--that we're ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you're looking for. You're looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong person--someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, "This is the problem I want to have."I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.I don't want to be your world, that's just too much responsibility. I will not be your one night stand. It really can't be that hard to find someone that you want to spend more than 5 minutes with. Grill out, go out, and spend time getting to know. I'm not sure I believe in forevermore. I'm not here to scratch your itch. I'm a good girl but that goes out the window with the person I'm with. I'm the girl next door with edge. I'm curvy and no drama. I hate conflict, extremely loyal, but will stand and fight for the things I believe in. I have a ditzy naivety about me but extremely intelligent also. I can be extremely sweet and or brash if I need to be. I can be submissive and I can be dominate. If you read this and say that girl might be out of my league then you're right. I like a confident strong man. Now please understand there is a difference between being of strong character and just an ass. If you're the second I will quickly call you out on it. If you are not at least 5'10 I'm probably not going to be interested. If you are really skinny I'm probably not going to be interested. If you show a hard on in your photos I'm not going to be interested. If you are into gaming as one of your hobbies and have your hat on sideways gangstafied, I'm not going to be interested. For ****sakes you're how old?!?!? I can't say for sure what I'm looking for but I surely know what I'm not looking for. I have changed my life over this year. I have closed my business and left corporate world. I have realized my happiness is more important than money. That my easy going nature thrives in the unstuffy world with which I have thrown restraints away. You can say I play with dogs and horses all day now for my career. I will say that I'm not sure how you guys put up with us. As females we are a pain in the ass. But at the end of the day I'm just a girl. I believe, I feel, I hope, and sometimes I don't want to show the brave strong side. Sometimes I will want to crawl into your lap bury my head into your shoulder and draw upon your strength. Have a super sparkly day. :-) First meet.. Simple and easy.. Meet up for a drink.. ect.. Preferably with easy escape windows.

  • Deon

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Looking for a real guy who knows what he wants....i have my career all set, i love my family and friends....all that is missing is a companion...i have always been considered "that" friend who will be single living THE life and my friends would envy me. i thought i wanted that too until THE life got old...i now know i am ready to open up and consider this relationship thing. open to anything

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