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About Me

I am on this site to have a relationship. If you are out to get a cheap thrill then don't even bother trying to chat with me. Have a little respect for people.A big turn off is just start talking to someone and you are already talking perverted or trying to hook up for sexual pleasure. May work with some females but not this one. Not trying to be on the mean side. I am a people person but come on. Read my info and you will see that is not what I want. I have separated on my profile as to not mislead or lie to anyone. I am legally married but been separated for almost 6 yrs now . Have not spoken or seen him in two yrs except for a child support hearing. There was a family issue back when as to why I did not get the divorce. Now it is more I don't have time, don't see a point as of right now and I don't really have the money. I don't really have much for hobbies. I do love to hang out with my friends. If I am with them then I am having fun. My one true goal in life is that my kids are respectful and grow to be somebody someday. People tell me I have an amazing personality. Not sure I believe them though. One thing that makes me unique is I love people. I am very kind to whom ever I meet. My friends tell me I am too kind. They are the world to me. I forgive a bunch of things and people. I do however hate liars. Do not hurt my children or lie to me and all will be fantastic. I listen to music that comes on 95.1. My kids got me into listening to it. I can handle country and other genres. Singing is a passion of mine but do not ask me to sing in front of a crowd. I am indecisive because I do not ask for much of anything and am happy with the little things. I start off shy when I am outside of my environment if that makes sense. Then after I am very outgoing. I tend to sit back and observe people. This gives me a chance to know what I can do or say around them as to not offend them. I do care for people. Most times too much. I rather help people than to ask for help. I am someone that answers questions so if you have any you want to ask go for it. I don't ask too many myself though.I am looking for a great guy. One that is not out there for a friend with benefits. Know a few guys which that is all they want. They are my friends but are still trying to get me to be a friend with benefits. I am not at all for that. I am not the type to sleep with people just for fun. Sex is really unimportant to me. I want to find a man, be friends with him and see where it goes. Don't want to rush into anything either. I have been hurt a few times before and don't want that and I have my children to think about. They come first in my life and will be included in any relationship I do have. If they feel the man is not treating them right or me then the man will be kicked to the curb.I have been told I am the type of person to try anything. I do know I will never sky dive or bungie jump. I do like to salt water fish. Would love one day to deep sea fish but not sure how I would handle being on the water. I would also like to go on a wave runner. Never have and looks like a bunch of fun. I think that covers most of it for now.If you want to meet me or get to know me then send a message. See how things go from there. I am not a picky person; very indecisive because I usually have fun just hanging out. The bar seen is not my style. Maybe dinner and a movie would be a great first date. Dinner and a nice walk would be fine too.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Halle

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I have to say creating this profile was harder than I thought! It's not easy to convey who you are and what you want in just a few paragraphs!! I am blessed with 3 great kids, great friends and family! I am positive, honest, affectionate, active and up for anything. I can have a good time anywhere as long as I'm with good company:). I enjoy going to concerts, sporting events, movies and exploring new places. I am as happy getting dressed up for a night out as I am staying home with a glass of wine and watching a movie.About him:I'm looking for someone who is easygoing, has a sense of humor, is spontaneous and loyal. A man who wants to see the world with me and all of the amazing things there are to experience. A man who treats me like a lady and will kiss me unexpectedly for no reason;) someone I can learn from and respects my opinions and values.A companion to go out to dinner with, walk on the beach or just watch a movie and lounge on the couch on a rainy Sunday! I want you to be confident and comfortable with who you are and know what you want out of life...If this sounds like you send me an *** chat.At the end of the day, I'm hoping to meet someone who shares my view on life and will be my best friend!

  • Aracely

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm not entirely sure how you convey yourself or a "personality" in a written profile, but here's my attempt.Friends and those I love would say I'm personable yet sarcastic with just enough salt and vinegar sprinkled in to keep things interesting and often times entertaining. I'm outgoing, yet sensitive, dashed with a heap of independence and determination that have taken me far. I'm always up for something new and willing to try anything once and twice if I like it! I'm sincere, genuine, loyal and have a huge heart that will do anything for those I love. You can also throw in that I'm honest, passionate, athletic, caring, witty and a financially responsible gal who has great friends and a family whom I'm extremely close with (you should too!). For fun and what I'm usually doing in my spare time often includes hanging out with my friends/family, going to those hole in the wall places or someone's house for great conversation and to root on the Sox, Patriots, B's or C's! I take my dog for hikes/walks or to the park, crossfit/gym, reading, photography and bike rides during the warmer months. I love to cook, though cooking for one (let's be honest***sucks! I'm also pretty well traveled both domestic and abroad, but there are still a bunch of other destinations I'd love to knock off my list. All of this is just missing that special person to share it with! Interested? :)So what am I looking for? Well, I’m so glad you asked! :) I'm looking for that spark and click. You know it when you know it. I want to share in someone's life and have them share in mine (the good the bad). Ultimately, I'm looking for someone that I can just be "me" with (idiosyncrasies and all - we all have em'). I'm not one to play games or waste anyone's time and I don't date for the sake of dating (too time consuming). Sooo....I’m interested in meeting you if you've liked what you read so far (yet there is a lot more to me than what's here). But also equally important is that you’re honest, loyal, funny, self aware, communicative (actually like and want to talk), want kids and a family, affectionate, outgoing, emotionally available and financially stable. I’m even more interested if you are sarcastic/witty, have hobbies/interests of your own that you would enjoying sharing with someone (i.e. me), enjoy snowboarding (or skiing), SCUBA, like photography (or willing to share in my excursions for this hobby), enjoy traveling and are up for trying new things. Bonus points if you're tall! Well, if any of the above resonates with you, shoot me an *** can go from there. Looking forward to hearing from you. If not, good luck to ya! World Series Game 6, who's in? Just kidding, well, not really but that should at least give you a little idea of me. I like comfortable environments with some drinks and where it's easy to talk or be enaged in something.

  • Jacey

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Let's see ... I am energetic, love my 3 girls 5, 15, & 18, and I have a love for God, life and all it has to offer. I listen to a wide range of music, like to read books, go to the movies or watch a flick/show from home. I look forward to dressing to the nines for a night on the town, or just cuddling at home. I wish to find someone who loves kids, who can see themselves attending kid events as well as adult events, and who wants to get to know each other before moving to the next level. I refuse to settle and you must seek God to find me. For a first date I would hope for something casual like a coffee house, or maybe a step above to semi-dressy at a happy hour.

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