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About Me

I am on this site to have a relationship. If you are out to get a cheap thrill then don't even bother trying to chat with me. Have a little respect for people.A big turn off is just start talking to someone and you are already talking perverted or trying to hook up for sexual pleasure. May work with some females but not this one. Not trying to be on the mean side. I am a people person but come on. Read my info and you will see that is not what I want. I have separated on my profile as to not mislead or lie to anyone. I am legally married but been separated for almost 6 yrs now . Have not spoken or seen him in two yrs except for a child support hearing. There was a family issue back when as to why I did not get the divorce. Now it is more I don't have time, don't see a point as of right now and I don't really have the money. I don't really have much for hobbies. I do love to hang out with my friends. If I am with them then I am having fun. My one true goal in life is that my kids are respectful and grow to be somebody someday. People tell me I have an amazing personality. Not sure I believe them though. One thing that makes me unique is I love people. I am very kind to whom ever I meet. My friends tell me I am too kind. They are the world to me. I forgive a bunch of things and people. I do however hate liars. Do not hurt my children or lie to me and all will be fantastic. I listen to music that comes on 95.1. My kids got me into listening to it. I can handle country and other genres. Singing is a passion of mine but do not ask me to sing in front of a crowd. I am indecisive because I do not ask for much of anything and am happy with the little things. I start off shy when I am outside of my environment if that makes sense. Then after I am very outgoing. I tend to sit back and observe people. This gives me a chance to know what I can do or say around them as to not offend them. I do care for people. Most times too much. I rather help people than to ask for help. I am someone that answers questions so if you have any you want to ask go for it. I don't ask too many myself though.I am looking for a great guy. One that is not out there for a friend with benefits. Know a few guys which that is all they want. They are my friends but are still trying to get me to be a friend with benefits. I am not at all for that. I am not the type to sleep with people just for fun. Sex is really unimportant to me. I want to find a man, be friends with him and see where it goes. Don't want to rush into anything either. I have been hurt a few times before and don't want that and I have my children to think about. They come first in my life and will be included in any relationship I do have. If they feel the man is not treating them right or me then the man will be kicked to the curb.I have been told I am the type of person to try anything. I do know I will never sky dive or bungie jump. I do like to salt water fish. Would love one day to deep sea fish but not sure how I would handle being on the water. I would also like to go on a wave runner. Never have and looks like a bunch of fun. I think that covers most of it for now.If you want to meet me or get to know me then send a message. See how things go from there. I am not a picky person; very indecisive because I usually have fun just hanging out. The bar seen is not my style. Maybe dinner and a movie would be a great first date. Dinner and a nice walk would be fine too.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

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  • Kezia

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm just looking to see whats out there these days. Not sure what else to write right now, will write more later. Its telling me I have to write more, so Im writing more. Coffee

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