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Ima, 39

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About Me

Hi there! Oh this on line dating stuff has got me baffled! I am going to just put it out there on the line! I am NOT on here for a hook up, booty call or whatever you guys call it these days. Now, having said that, I am a widowed single mom of 2 handsome young men who are my life! I have a fulltime job, pay for my own apt, and have my own car. I am very independent and can take care of myself. My family, and my friends (second family), are very important to me, and wouldn't have it any other way.I have some big goals set for myself to reach within the next 5yrs and would love to find the "right one" to share those goals with. I have a saying that I firmly believe, " I don't NEED a man, I WANT a man". I want a man so when I come home, we could cook dinner, have a glass of wine and cuddle up on the couch. Could this be you?I love the Yankees, the Cowboys, camping, swimming, would love to go to the beach! I like to cook, entertain, or just sit and play cards with the family. Love going to the dirt track races, drag races, concerts, sporting events... sooo many things. I don't like drama, don't want drama.... IF YOU DONT HAVE A PIC, I WILL NOT RESPOND, AND IF YOU ONLY WANT A HOOK UP, CONTACT ANOTHER LADY, BECAUSE I WOULD LIKE A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP.Thanks for reading my profile and hope to hear from you. I would love to go to a nice quiet Italian restaurant and get to know eachother a little bit. If dinner goes well, maybe a movie, a good romantic comedy, or action.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm looking for someone who shares my passion for travel and adventure, someone I can talk with and laugh with and just have fun with no matter what we do or where we are. I love to cook and try out new things. I enjoy exercising but need to exercise more. I get bored easily so I'm always trying new things like Crossfit and boxing but yoga and spin class are at the top of my list too. I love taking on challenges and overcoming my fears. I'm up for a night out on the town (although my days of loving crowded, hot, loud dance clubs have passed) or a quiet night at home cooking and watching a movie. I am looking for someone to love me for better or for worse. I'm looking for a guy who's not afraid to be his true self, who will worry about my safety, who will respect me and make me laugh!I'm not on this site looking for a hookup so if that's what you want, please don't message me. I also will not date someone who smokes or dips; that is a huge turn off for me (and please don't lie about this either; it's not cool). I'd rather be honest at the beginning as to what my intentions are rather than waste time. I hope you feel the same way!

  • Philis

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    First of all, I would like to say I am not into booty calls,one night stands or mind games. If you have that in mind please move right along. I am interested in someone that can carry on an intellectual conversation and have more than 2 working brain cells. I am a spunky female who loves to laugh and have a good time. I love listening to live bands, comedy shows or just hanging out with friends. As far as music goes, I have a vast taste....Jazz, big band, swing to some country, pop to gospel I have made some changes in my life over the past few years and have lost some weight, but still havent met my goal. My preference is an older man...salt and pepper hair or grey hair is a plus!! Say hello on *** McGowan Meet to have coffee or a drink and see if we click

  • Jeffrey

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    They really need to let you put more than one option on the relationship intent. Yes, ultimately i am looking for a relationship but not looking to jump right into anything. What ever happens happens right? Will I stay here after that, Who knows? I guess it will depend on what is going on in my life at the time. I am a single mother of a wonderful son who is 13.. HE is my top priority, If that is a problem and you can't handle the fact that I am maybe overly cautious where he is concerned, Then things just are not gonna work for us. That doesn't SEEM to me to be a strange request? Does it? When i do meet someone who I want to spend time with, i can make time for them as well. I am an easy going girl and enjoy to watch movies at home or out at the theater! I enjoy to go out have a few beers at times, and play some pool listen to music and do some dancing and hang out with my friends, but not a huge club hopper! BBQ and a bonfire is usually a much better choice than the bars. I also enjoy some quiet time at home too! I am also looking to get into some new activities/hobbies (any suggestions?) I love to watch Bama play some football so I am usually somewhere doing that on Saturday's during ***! I am slightly OCD, and at times ADD.. Lol Although it doesn't always look like it. On either accounts.. Time and energy and the kid's activities keep me from keeping the house and yard the way I would like to, but I try! Sundays are usually spent at church and trying to relax before work. something relaxing.. coffee/ talking and just getting to know eachother..

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