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Selene, 38
United States, Michigan, Oak Park

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About Me

After reading the below, it may not seem like it, but I am very laid back and go with the flow. I do need to plan out my days, mostly due to necessity (2 kids to consider), but I can be spontaneous too. I'm non-judgmental and believe everyone should do as they please as long as they aren't hurting someone else. I don't believe in organized religion. I'm a grammar nazi - I won't date someone who can't figure out that "your" is not "you are" before hitting send. I don't have a lot of time for dating, so if I feel there is a connection after chatting a couple of times, I will gladly meet you in person. That being said, if there's no physical attraction, then there won't be any more dates. Also, I'm not really looking for someone to have more kids with, but it's not completely off the table.Here are my non-negotiables when it comes to a partner:• you do not smoke• you are drama-free• you are pro-choice & pro gay rights• you're smart, funny, witty, with a bit of sarcasm thrown in• you like to play & watch sports (extra points if Aggie football is on your list)• you are not a student or in the midst of a career change• you like kids and want to be a good role model• you have male friends and make it a point to spend time with them• you understand that I need girl time every now and then• you're a gentleman• you like staying in shape but aren't a gym rat• you like dressing up for a night on the town, but enjoy staying home watching movies and eating pizza• you are looking for someone to come home to each night• you aren't religiousIf you message me and I don't message you back, it's probably because I saw something in your profile that doesn't mesh with one of the bullet points above. Also, please save us both some time and don't message me to tell me "good luck with that list." It's there for a reason - I know what I want and if you don't fulfill these characteristics, we are not going to be a match, no matter how great of a guy you are. Happy Fishing! Anything that allows for conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American Thai Adventure History Horror Sport Cricket
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