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Deb, 38
United States, Michigan, Oak Park

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About Me

I'm not REALLY a princess, but what women doesn't want to be treated like one? I'm a little sarcastic, a little flirtatious, and will certainly be that girl who can cheer your up if you are having a bad day.. Every day should be full of laughter, chocolate and kissing. : ) I'm newly single.. again...and looking for friends first...but I'll tell you, I won't reply to an *** only one sentence. If you are going to ***, you should have something to say that is going to get my attention. That means if i get a message that says "hey how's it going?" and nothing else, i most likely won't reply :pI'm not looking to hook up, or have a fling, or a one night stand, I am looking for friends and take it from there. There wasn't an option on the drop down menu that says "Looking to date with a possibility of a relationship" :DDon't let my age fool you, I might be 38 but you would never guess if hasn't told you. Most people guess under 30 which is exactly how old I would have put if i wasn't so honest..which I am.. sometimes overly honest, if you ask a question be ready for the answer as I won't often give you the answer you may think.There are a lot of men out there who know how to treat a women right, I know there are, I just haven't had the pleasure of meeting many of you...Nobody is a perfect 10 however you should be honest, considerate, romantic, and fun!! Everything can be fun, I can make anything fun, even dishes. Trust me, I'm very creative!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

British Caribbean South American Turkish Comedy Martial Arts Dirt Bike Racing Rodeo
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  • Neely from Oak Park | Woman | 40 years old | Capricorn
    Neely

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I won't tell you just what you want to hear & I need you to listen to what I have to say... I am a 40 year old woman with more to offer than any man I have ever known deserves or could handle... I could ramble about many things, but we both know that is the last thing a man wants to listen to... I have been through the fires of hell and don't even smell like smoke (few will understand my point) but, let me get to it...I am creative by nature, art is in my blood, I love music of ALL kinds. I went to college for marketing & graphic arts, in which I did for 20+years.... then in a twist of fate or divine destiny... I am now a registered medical assistant working with cancer patients after losing my mom to brain cancer a year+ ago...life has turned a ***and I am truly in a new beginning in many ways. Consistency tells a lot about character... I am funny and outgoing but, deep... I love to cook, it is therapy for me.. I LOVE IT... I am not interested in booty calls, being your drinking buddy or waiting for you to text me. My faith and my God is why I am still here, I am a free spirit, a writer, a romantic by heart and I tend to say too much.... so for now, I will leave it at that and build on a good thing as we go along.... by the encouragement of a friend I am here again and being completely open and honest to possibility...... I am not interested in passing your time or you wasting mine. I think it is best to stick to locals, I don't think I have it in me for another long distance anything. SOOOOOO Start diggin'.... OK, so I guess I will add some thoughts... because if you have come this far, I will assume you wanna know more. I am the whole package, come on now, seriously... if we don't think that about ourselves who will!? I have been on here a few times before and SWORE I wouldn't be back. I cannot be described in one word. There is nothing average about me.... and who doesn't have a few extra pounds or more to lose if honest, unless you are TRULY athletic, which most who say they are on here, are NOT (I know I have met them). I am a beautiful women with a lot to offer and am still a work in progress... I describe myself physically as "curvalicious" and have never had a man complain about my figure. I am NOT a Barbie doll and you will prolly never see me in a dress and heels unless someone has died, and I will prolly still be in pants.I prefer to crank up some good tunes, put on my comfies, open a bottle of wine or make some drinks and cook you the best meal you have ever had vs. going out to eat. I am very laid back compared to most women I know. I am open and honest, loving and sincere. There truly is nothing fake about me. If you ask people who know me what I am like, they would describe me as faithful, funny, sarcastic, outgoing, inviting, trustworthy, kind, reliable, shocking, passionate, sexy and I have a giving heart. I don't care if it sounds too good to be true, it is the truth.... I don't have to try and sell myself... I am just being open.... More to come...I have learned the hard way that time is precious, I do not give it to just anyone because it is a gift and you cannot get it back. I am not a dater, much less a serial dater. I will not talk to nor go out with a dozen guys at once. Not being a dater has made being on a dating sight difficult, lol. BUT, I work full time and have my daughter half the time and I don't get out much anymore. There is nothing about the bar scene I miss, except live music. ... I want more than shallow, surface relationship, I need substance. I need physical attraction just like anyone, I am not disregarding it.... it is vital. BUT, I want what I have never had. My longest relationship was 18 years and it did not work, that is almost half my life... I will not give away my heart so easily now, but when I do... that man will be blessed.

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  • Lauran from Oak Park | Woman | 40 years old | Aries
    Lauran

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am honest, loving, told funny, out spoken, happy woman looking to have a lasting wonderful relationship with a amazing man that's perfect for me. I enjoy being outside no matter the weather. Time with my family and friends. If you want to know more just ask.

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  • Yareli from Oak Park | Woman | 40 years old | Cancer
    Yareli

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    How many people are good at talking about themselves?!?! Not me, even though I think I'm pretty awesome! LOL!I enjoy going out with friends, but I also enjoy quiet nights at home with a special someone... a nice bottle of wine and great conversation... and a lot of laughter. (Humor is sexy!)Family and friends are very important to me and I would like to meet someone who shares a closeness with their family and friends as well. I like all kinds of music... mostly country and classic rock.

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