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About Me

Please, do me a favor and if you want to msg me go for it, but don't bother with a one liner. I think I've shared plenty below to attempt to help you generate a conversation. Intelligence does count for something - just give it an honest try because "how r u? whats up?" sounds like the generic blast you just sent out to anyone with or without a picture on the profile. I took the time to go through their little "tests" because I am serious about finding someone decent & laziness just isn't attractive.I married and divorced young to a military guy over ten years ago & have always thought of myself as single and not divorced. I am completely ok being alone and single. I believe it is better to be single and happy than stay in a relationship to avoid loneliness and fear. Not a lot of people can handle that. I am independent, stubborn, and make it look like I can do everything on my own easily. Ok, so I ALMOST can do everything on my own;) Things are just more special when you have the right person to share it with it, and I am at the point where I want someone around to share in the laughter with me. Really though I am just looking to start trying new things again. I have traveled a lot, and I haven't been able to like I used to since I had my daughters, but I'm thankful for the opportunities I did have because I have seen so many different glimpses of the infinite possibilities. I have done some pretty wild and crazy stuff, but its even more fun when you have the right person to share it with and laugh about it - i like to laugh. Shamelessly I can say there are very few situations I can not have fun in. Optimism to a default - it works for me. I'm living my perfect life backwards in order I highly recommend it. If you aren't happy with yourself, you aren't going to find someone that can make you happy. I have two beautiful daughters ***& almost 5) that keep me entertained and believe that they should get a say in this process, & sometimes they will browse profiles & my youngest one narrates these stories that make me laugh so incredibly hard! Definitely beats bedtime stories!Mr Waffles is the man of our house. He is kinda girly- Our family has a thing for pets. I like to think I have a special bond with the petsmart guy-its probably 1 sided fiction most likely he probably groans when he sees us come in. Many stories there. I do like music, I do not own an ipod. A random taste of artists for you: Pink, Beastie Boys, Face to Face, Liz Phair, B52's, Flyleaf, Garbage, She & Picky eater. Independent Movies usually. SOA, US of Tara, 30 Rock, Parks Recreation, Orange is the New Black.I think its important to do what you love and enjoy in life. $ is only $ can't take it with ya, it can't buy you happiness. I think if this is really my one and only life I want to try new things, take the harder path if it makes me happier, and never let others try to convince me its too late to do otherwise. So if you think you can handle this world of laughter... It has been forever since i've been mini golfing, but I really suck at it - which to me makes it almost more fun. I love breakfast food, although I am not your traditional breakfast food eater.- it needs to be remedied immediately!!!I love the NEW Zoo, just walking around hoping to catch unusual activity, I'm always amazed at how much more active the animals are the cooler it is outside. March and early fall seem to be the best times to go to really watch em get spunky.Los Banditos - the East side food just tastes better even if it is the same at the West side.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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