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About Me

First time dating site :/......I have heard bad stories so up front I will state what I dont want ; ...I do not want to have a friends with benifits or just a hook up. If your pic is not of a current u, send a current one, if I meet u and it was false advertisment I will walk right out. Just to not waist anyones time... I have waisted enough so... if u r a dead beat dad , dont have a job, etc etc ... planley put if u r a boy and not a man dont even bother. What I do want; short term, just to be friends and see if anything comes of it wether it be just friends or more, if more ...long term, maybe I have watched to.many movies but I do believe in love ..I want a best friend that I am compatable and happy withsomeone I can trust to give my heart to and trust I have thiers . My life quote is you only live once, no due overs so dont waiste it unhappy, make the best of it and dont settle for less than what you want . I am very outgoing and friendly ...I probably trust to much but once I dont, it wont come back. Since I am single I do go out on weekends I like to dance but only after ive had a few ;). I have a son that is 10.He iis the best thing that wver happened to me. Well I think thats sums it up ;) As I said in description friends first so a first date should be casual to see if theres even anything there so I guees really the second date should be the first . I think in most situations people show out at first and end up less then in the beginning when it should be opposite. I am me and I dont hide add or change anything about me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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