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WendolynOffline
Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 27-37
I am a divorced mother of two. My children will come first, but I would love to have a good man to share in our lives and grow to become someone I love as much as them. I am actively involved in my child's school on the PTO board and also volunteer at a nature center infirmary helping care for sick, injured, and orphaned wildlife. I have recently gone back to school (online, so I can "go" to class in my pajamas, on the couch, at midnight, watching Leno) in effort to obtain my paralegal certification after several years working as a legal assistant. I am quite the child when it comes to wildlife. It will never cease to amaze me to see a deer in my yard. While I see creatures in my yard every day (some pretty amazing ones some days!), I feel privileged each and every day I can witness them. It is even more of a privilege to be able to handle them when I work at the nature center. I love to watch certain shows and especially enjoy classic films. I have had two long-term relationships in my life, and I say this to emphasize that I don't do casual/flings. I am a one man girl and want to find that one person I can be with, be myself with, and not be afraid of. That being said, I have a history, like most people do, and I know what I don't want. Please, don't smoke, use/abuse drugs, have a criminal past, use me as your punching bag, and especially don't lie to me. Please, do have a healthy sense of humor. I love to laugh. Yes, I would like a father figure for my kids. They need a POSITIVE male in their lives. Someone who can help teach them things I cannot do alone. No, I will not let anyone meet my kids early on. They are my whole world, so I will keep them shielded until I feel comfortable and have a sense of longevity in a relationship. They don't need people coming in and out of their lives any more than I do, so don't even think about asking to meet them right away. Just believe that it isn't anything to be taken personally if I don't want you to meet them for a long time. They deserve the best. For me to get involved with someone requires an understanding that we are a package deal. I don't want to be with someone who merely tolerates them. I want them to have someone who genuinely wants to be a part of their lives some day: play ball, attend tea parties, help with homework, tuck them in, etc. I don't say this to scare anyone away, I say this to show that I am looking for a permanent relationship, a partner, and to ensure that if someone is interested in me they know they might take on this role if things work out well. I will say what I mean, and most of the time I will say things that need to be said in a tactful and thoughtful way. I try to be a good person, and I work hard to do the right things for my family. I'm just a real girl, with a real body (two children later, it is what it is), with real issues, and a real heart longing for someone who can appreciate it. I want to be with a man who can handle a woman who appreciates having her own identity while enjoying the companionship of a man who compliments her positive and negative traits. If you're still with me after that, and aren’t running scared, send me a message.*If you smoke, do not contact me.*If you cannot pass a background check or a drug test, do not contact me.*If you cannot write with real words, please don't contact me. I don't like "text-speak." "U" and "R" are letters. Letters are used to compose words. I enjoy words. My grammar may not be perfect, but I try to use language properly. No, I'm not a **** for not wanting to communicate when you send me a message with "ur" in place of "you're" or "your." I choose not to spend time with someone who will annoy me. It just wouldn't work between us.I will not accept being treated with anything less than love, respect, and dignity; and I shouldn't have to. I'm not perfect, but I'm worth it. On a first date, I would like to get a nice cup of coffee, or maybe dinner. A walk through a pretty park, any time of the year, creates a peaceful atmosphere for getting to know one another. Movies and concerts are not conducive to good conversation. Asking me to do something at 7:30 on a Saturday evening just tells me your first plans backfired. Please, don't be that guy. I don't expect anyone to only date me, but if your first plans are cancelled, suck up the lonely night; don't expect me to give up my comfy pajamas and tv (because this is the plan I made for myself if I have no other plans) as your second choice. Just don't lead me on, pretend you're interested because you haven't found anyone better yet, or break a date with me for someone else. We girls find out about these things one way or another. Be the kind of guy you would want your daughter to date. I want to date someone (one person) and have a relationship, but I'm not desperate. And don't pretend to be interested and imply you're interested in seeing me again if you're not. I can actually handle the truth and don't need to be be dropped like dead weight. You can say, "Hey, it was nice to meet you, but I'm not interested anymore." I really don't need to be told you want to see me again and stop communicating. Be civilized and honest. That's what you'll get from me.
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CherieOffline
Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 23-33
i love piercings and tattoos... i have 20 piercings and 25 tattoos .. i plan on getting my whole body covered in tattoos..and no I don't have nipples or my cupcake pierced so don't even ask.. i love going to movies, horror are my favorite the bloodier the better and hanging out with friends, going to the bar with friends to have a drink and have fun... i listen metal here are some of the bands i listen to..... i listen to other genres of music but mostly metal....i like the paint and make jewelry and be creative and what not.... I like to shoot guns... I'm not very good at this sooo if you have any more questions just message me :)i do like to talk alot so you better be willing to yip right along with me lol!Also I have alot of guy friends some of my guy friends r my x's bc we make better friends then bf gf so if u have a problem w a girl having friends that r the opposite sex not only do u have controlling self confidence issues but u also don't need to waste ur time messaging meI do speak my mind I'm considered a **** bc I'm very truthful and honest and I will tell it like it is and if something is bothering me I will let u know so if u can't stand blunt truthfulness the move along. Also I have good diction just didn't use it here I'm intelligent and can't stand stupid so if u can't hold an intelligent convo w me then move along I don't want to have to explain what certain words mean to u.I grew up w guys and 90% of my friends r guys so I have a good sense of humor and not a girly girl... Yes I do my hair n makeup but live n yoga shorts and a tank tops I don't care.I do have 3 cats all rescues too so if u hate cats don't bother even though my cats r more like dogs then anything.If ur just looking for sex move along bc I'm not that type of girl not a booty call so **** off and don't even bother messaging me! depends on the person
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ElizbethOffline
Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 25-35
I value my relationship with God above all else. I hope to find someone who feels the same. I'm looking for a man who is stable, mature, dependable, honest, and knows what he wants. We must both be willing to put in the effort needed for a lasting connection. Happy Fishing!