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WendolynOffline
Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 27-37
I am a divorced mother of two. My children will come first, but I would love to have a good man to share in our lives and grow to become someone I love as much as them. I am actively involved in my child's school on the PTO board and also volunteer at a nature center infirmary helping care for sick, injured, and orphaned wildlife. I have recently gone back to school (online, so I can "go" to class in my pajamas, on the couch, at midnight, watching Leno) in effort to obtain my paralegal certification after several years working as a legal assistant. I am quite the child when it comes to wildlife. It will never cease to amaze me to see a deer in my yard. While I see creatures in my yard every day (some pretty amazing ones some days!), I feel privileged each and every day I can witness them. It is even more of a privilege to be able to handle them when I work at the nature center. I love to watch certain shows and especially enjoy classic films. I have had two long-term relationships in my life, and I say this to emphasize that I don't do casual/flings. I am a one man girl and want to find that one person I can be with, be myself with, and not be afraid of. That being said, I have a history, like most people do, and I know what I don't want. Please, don't smoke, use/abuse drugs, have a criminal past, use me as your punching bag, and especially don't lie to me. Please, do have a healthy sense of humor. I love to laugh. Yes, I would like a father figure for my kids. They need a POSITIVE male in their lives. Someone who can help teach them things I cannot do alone. No, I will not let anyone meet my kids early on. They are my whole world, so I will keep them shielded until I feel comfortable and have a sense of longevity in a relationship. They don't need people coming in and out of their lives any more than I do, so don't even think about asking to meet them right away. Just believe that it isn't anything to be taken personally if I don't want you to meet them for a long time. They deserve the best. For me to get involved with someone requires an understanding that we are a package deal. I don't want to be with someone who merely tolerates them. I want them to have someone who genuinely wants to be a part of their lives some day: play ball, attend tea parties, help with homework, tuck them in, etc. I don't say this to scare anyone away, I say this to show that I am looking for a permanent relationship, a partner, and to ensure that if someone is interested in me they know they might take on this role if things work out well. I will say what I mean, and most of the time I will say things that need to be said in a tactful and thoughtful way. I try to be a good person, and I work hard to do the right things for my family. I'm just a real girl, with a real body (two children later, it is what it is), with real issues, and a real heart longing for someone who can appreciate it. I want to be with a man who can handle a woman who appreciates having her own identity while enjoying the companionship of a man who compliments her positive and negative traits. If you're still with me after that, and aren’t running scared, send me a message.*If you smoke, do not contact me.*If you cannot pass a background check or a drug test, do not contact me.*If you cannot write with real words, please don't contact me. I don't like "text-speak." "U" and "R" are letters. Letters are used to compose words. I enjoy words. My grammar may not be perfect, but I try to use language properly. No, I'm not a **** for not wanting to communicate when you send me a message with "ur" in place of "you're" or "your." I choose not to spend time with someone who will annoy me. It just wouldn't work between us.I will not accept being treated with anything less than love, respect, and dignity; and I shouldn't have to. I'm not perfect, but I'm worth it. On a first date, I would like to get a nice cup of coffee, or maybe dinner. A walk through a pretty park, any time of the year, creates a peaceful atmosphere for getting to know one another. Movies and concerts are not conducive to good conversation. Asking me to do something at 7:30 on a Saturday evening just tells me your first plans backfired. Please, don't be that guy. I don't expect anyone to only date me, but if your first plans are cancelled, suck up the lonely night; don't expect me to give up my comfy pajamas and tv (because this is the plan I made for myself if I have no other plans) as your second choice. Just don't lead me on, pretend you're interested because you haven't found anyone better yet, or break a date with me for someone else. We girls find out about these things one way or another. Be the kind of guy you would want your daughter to date. I want to date someone (one person) and have a relationship, but I'm not desperate. And don't pretend to be interested and imply you're interested in seeing me again if you're not. I can actually handle the truth and don't need to be be dropped like dead weight. You can say, "Hey, it was nice to meet you, but I'm not interested anymore." I really don't need to be told you want to see me again and stop communicating. Be civilized and honest. That's what you'll get from me.
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CristinaOffline
Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 24-34
Hello! I've been described as happy go lucky, a lot of fun, huge hearted and quirky. I've also been called stubborn and even selfish at times. A lot of people love me and those who don't like me well... Then they don't know me do they? I'll never intentionally hurt anyone's feelings and if I do I will spend forever trying to make up for it. I enjoy spending time with my friends and family, I have strange work hours, I enjoy socializing and going out. Concerts are a huge plus for me. I love bands such as City &; Wine...I also enjoy quiet nights at home just reading, watching movies, cooking and cuddling. What I'm really looking for is a partner in crime, a team mate. Someone who loves me for me and who will back me up. Do all the things I would do for the person I care about. No liars, cheaters, beaters, sneaky **stards, self righteous pricks or guys with lots of baby momma drama and baggage. My sons father and I get along swimmingly, we're good at cops renting and comfortable with our roles as his parents. I expect my mate to be the same if he has children. Please be original, think cheesy romantic comedies. I'm a lady in need of being spoiled. I've had it up to here with the poster children for generationY. Wow me :) show me you're worth taking a Saturday night off for.
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AdrienOffline
Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 24-34
I enjoy going camping in the summer months with my family and playing mini golf. I decided to join this site because i haven't had the best of luck with the guys that i meet in my everyday life, so i figured i would try something new and see what else is out there... i am looking for a guy who is honest, has a good sense of humor, outgoing, someone who is close with family like i am...Im sick of guys who say one thing and do another. You better know what you want out of life because i dont have your crystal ball. I think on a first date you should definitely do something like dinner or mini golf.. Somewhere that you can talk and get to know each other and have a good time.