Total users: 60,863,029 Online users: 219,143
Norah, 29

Online

About Me

I just spent the last year of my life with a manchild I met from this website. We met and I fell hard and so did my kid. He dumped me after a year and said he was not looking for a commitment.... yeah you read that correctly.... dragged us along for a year but does not want a commitment. So I decided to update my profile because for some reason, unbeknownst to me, I always end up attracting these self-serving types, and I feel it is my duty, everyone's duty, to change their own fate. After that last relationship I feel broken. But in reality I am kind of awesome lol. The truth of the matter is I am a great Friend, Lover, Mother, and Volunteer, and any man would be lucky to have me. Not to be cheesy, but I enjoy waking up with the same man every day, talking about our work drama at night, playing with our children, catching a date night every now and then, and bouncing ideas for one another's school work off the other. This is happiness to me. As I am nearing 30, of course most all my friends are married or engaged or preggo, and I always feel happy for them, no matter what kind of relationship I am in; this tells me that the idea of love is very much alive and accessible to those who want it. I feel like humans have only a small window to take what they want and make it their own because life is hard... life is short... and only the strongest will survive. After all we can't even drive on the freeway or go to the movies anymore without being shot at. This has made me even more aware of how precious life is and how I will be damned if I spend one more second of it without someone who feels the same way, who shares the same goals, and same basic values as me. I'm a smartass, caring, honest, and like to debate most all subjects. I like movies/music/photography/history/law. I have a Bachelor's degree and am registered for law school, work full time but like to unwind too. If you have kids, that's great, I love kids. If you don't, that's fine too :-) I LOVE to go on daytrips to Tahoe and camping and I hope there are some serious camping trips this winter! I think the most important traits in a man for me are as follows:You have to have drive... I don't care what you want in life, but want something, be passionate about it because life is short. If you want something, then fight for it. If you can't fight or won't fight for it, then you don't deserve it, period. Honesty is first and foremost. I didn't get honesty from my last relationship and it can wreck the soul - so just be honest. I promise I will be honest with you, good, bad, or indifferent. It's amazing how simplified a relationship can be if we are all just honest with one another; it makes you closer, stronger, and more connected.Good luck to all the fish in the sea... Depends on the man...but I am open for suggestions. I'm a coffee fiend, so that usually works for me! :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Starr

    Online

    Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-35

    I can imagine I'm not the only person on here perplexed as to what to write in this space. I suppose let's start with the basics and see where my mind flows- I started my military career in the Intel world, then switched to medical. I am slowly but surely chipping away at a degree in Forensic Science (but no, I do not watch CSI, NCIS, etc). I have a mutt, so if you have pet allergies or dislike dogs you might as well stop reading here. She's not going anywhere for anyone. Having been born and partially raised in the Bay Area, my dad made sure I became a Giants/Niner's fan. Although I will watch most sports, football will always be my favorite. I'm not saying I can ramble of stats like a bookie, but it's the one sport I like to get out and play, love going to the games and I'm currently ***on my fantasy team. Off the top of my head I can't really think of any hobbies I have, but I do know I enjoy kayaking and biking. They're just not something I do on a regular basis. I try to travel when I can. My music tastes vary, but if I had to list a few bands that I am almost always in the mood to listen to, they would be: Queens of the Stone Age, Social Distortion, The Postal Service, Weezer, Misfits and Johnny Cash. Mostly rock and country, but there are the few pop and r&b songs that I like as well. Before I write everything about me, I think I'll stop here....leave some room for possible future conversations. First dates are awkward, in my opinion. Having gone on a blind date before, I can only imagine online dating is just a tad less nerve wracking. I'd much prefer something simpler such a meeting for coffee, or jamba juice. Just need somewhere to meet up and be able to talk, to see if the online persona matches the real life persona and to see if there is potential for anything. If the answer is no, then you don't have to wait around for the end of a meal, but if the answer is yes, then you don't have to worry about the waitress rushing you out of her table to sit the next customer.

  • Tonya

    Online

    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    I\'m currently single and I have no children, but would like children in the future. Overall, I\'m looking for that certain someone who will complement my personality, make me laugh.

  • Eleonore

    Online

    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    OK I think I'm gonna try to keep it simple. I'm a single mom. I work and go to school. My daughter is my number one and always will be. I love animals. I like to read, swim, watch TV and movies, play pool and go horse back riding. Oh yeah and I like shooting ranges too. Yes I can shoot hand guns, shot guns and a bow and arrows. I'm down to earth. I don't like drama, liars or cheaters. I'm a little bit country a little bit rock and roll. I am one of a kind. People tell me I always look serious but once you get to know me I am a major smart ass. I try not to stay too serious. I rather be able to goof off with my daughter than play manager at work. I'm shy. I know what I want out of life and I'm working my butt off to get it. I like watching sports. Oh yeah! Tattoos! I have them, I like them, I think they are sexy as hell. And I like motorcycles too. *** if you never chat with me how will you know if you like me or not?? A first date I would want to go somewhere where we can talk and get to know eachother.

Follow Us: