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Ila, 30

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About Me

I am a full-time, Monday - Friday, workers' compensation paralegal. It's a stressful and demanding job but I kind of love it. I also babysit my sister's two kids. I love kids! I am a shy person at first, but when I open up it's near impossible to get me to shut up! I like to have fun (who doesn't) and make sure that those around me have fun. I like to make people laugh and smile. When asked to describe my personality - I have to say I'm a bit girly with a tomboy side. I'm more of an optimist and try to see the good in everyone. I am dedicated and faithful. I put others before me. I am a klutz, it seems I spend a bit of time at the doctor's office ;) Haha! When I'm not working or babysitting I like to spend time with my family, spoil my three nieces and nephew, play with my pups, go to a movie, read a book, hit up an arcade or amusement park, or just zone out in front of the tv. I am currently separated, divorce in the works. There was and is no drama between my ex and I. We are still friendly...it just wasn't meant to be. With that being said, my ideal match would be outgoing, kind, understanding, and have something he is passionate about. Preferably a dog lover as well! Also, he must have an open mind. I cannot be with someone who is closed off to what he may not understand. Feel free to ***! "Date" is such an intimidating word. I would say that for the first 'meeting' -

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-36

    Loving the city thus far! I just now need a tour guide! ; I am a nice Midwestern gal. My family and friends mean the world to me. I am a very caring and giving person. I am looking for a guy that is adventurous, kind, caring, loves the outdoors and everything that entitles. I love the beach, going to sporting events, going to concerts, spending time at my parents lake house; I'm just looking for someone to share that with. If there is anything else you wanna know just ask me ;) Something fun and exciting! Skydiving, gun range, din and drinks will work too!

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    I am a single mother of two with a passion for music and dancing. I was not blessed with much of a talent for either one, but that has never stopped me from trying. I love musicals and live theater. Baseball and softball are my favorite sports. I don't really enjoy watching televised sports, but I will. I'd much rather be in the stands cheering with the fans with a beer in my hand!My favorite way to pass the time is watching movies (any type) or listening to live music. My favorite type of movie is a romantic comedy, but I like a good scare from a horror movie as well. (It's a great excuse to cuddle up close!) I will listen to just about any type of music, but I guess I lean toward pop, R&B and 80s hair bands. I think there is no better feeling than singing my heart out to my favorite songs. (Anyone within earshot of me might disagree.) I work as a medical billing specialist right now, but my dream is to go back to school for nursing. I'm hoping to make that dream a reality very soon. I am an intelligent woman and like intellectual conversations, but I love a man who can make me laugh as well. I'm easily amused and am not afraid to admit that I enjoy a little bit of crude humor every now and then.)My faith is very important to me, and I would really like to be able to share that with someone. I am extremely close to my family (I am the youngest of 6). Lastly, I refuse to believe that chivalry is dead. I believe a man should hold the door open for me and treat me with respect. Good manners can earn you extra points with me. I am not ready to give up on love. I believe that any good relationship is built on friendship and trust. If any of this interests you, send me an e-mail. I look forward to hearing from you! I think the man should plan the evening, not leave it up to me at the last minute. I am a woman who appreciates planning and attention to details. Surprise me!

  • Alanis

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    I really do not like this part! On that note here goes an attempt...I think a sense of humor is a must along with a sense of adventure. Although a night of movies and a drive to nowhere with the radio cranked up is just as good. I try to find the fun in just about everything but I can be serious when it is needed. I also have a sarcastic dry wit. I want a guy who I can do anything with. Whether it be to fix a leaky sink or plan a cruise to the Bahamas! I have all aspects of life pretty much down pact, except a relationship. I don't need someone to support me in any way but I want someone to share the fun stuff. I own a car, rent a house, have a job, and am pretty normal. It is short and sweet but if it leaves something to be desired just ask... I especially love living by the lake. I love water and I can't imagine an existence without water nearby!! Don't be put off if I don't know where you live.

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