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Bernetta, 26
United States, Michigan, Hudsonville

Offline, last seen Mon, 16 Mar 2026 14:04:31

About Me

""It does not do to dwell on dreams and forget to live, remember that."!Dating and hanging out with friends is separate for me. Seems most people in my generation blurs the lines and it prevents them from developing a real relationship. I may be a bit blunt but I'm also a sweetheart and loyal to true friends. Sometimes I can be too deep and miss the obvious; a philosophers touch. I'm pretty laid back most of the time and spontaneously at random others. I suppose that would depend on the company I'm around and what they bring out of me. I have quite a few tattoos and want more ink and piercings. I'm big into trying new things and experimenting. My secret is that I've been through more than I could ever tell. I don't talk about it much but I have gained strength from it. My family is very important to me although I don't have any children of my own.What am I looking for? That spark....you know what I'm talking about. I miss the butterflies, that automatic smile when you see someone that you're falling for, talking into the night while stargazing, bursting into spontaneous laughter over little things, the passion...All that mushy stuff. Go to a stand up comedy show or see live music...Open minded, spontaneous and up for almost anything.If your still reading this then send me a message and say hi.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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