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Ludie, 30
United States, Michigan, Flushing

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About Me

Hi! I just moved back a few months ago to be closer to family and need a nice strong man to show me around and see what I've been missing. I am not the typical 30 year old single Okie girl; I have no tattoos, kids or ex-husbands, and while I'm open to starting a family I'm not really in a hurry. If your biological clock is ticking louder than mine, it's kind of a turn off for me. But I'm sure there are plenty of other girls on here dying to get married, so good luck!I love to laugh and joke around/tease, so if you're super serious (and intend to stay that way), don't waste your time on me. I like getting those serious stick-in-the-muds to lighten up, so consider yourself warned. If you're not smiling in any of your pictures, send me one or I'll probably think you're mean. Also I find proper grammar and spelling super sexy, and really only respond to guys on here that have interesting messages or profiles. Wordplay is my foreplay--if you can't stimulate my mind, you can't get in my pants. And don't be sarcastic; as a first grader explained to me "Sarcasm is mean lies." I like positivity!Guys I'm most attracted to: I'm clean cut/preppy and like guys who are as well, I don't like sloppy hipsters, lots of piercings/tattoos (I can deal with arm/chest/back, but rib/neck/calf tattoos gross me out), or "creative" facial hair. Also I know you guys are very proud of your abs, but it's better if you save that as a surprise for a special lady as opposed to plastering your shirtless self all over the Internet. Keep it classy. If you don't know who that is, I'm probably too old for you! :) I like to talk so hopefully you like to listen (or can at least fake it reasonably well). Coffee/drinks is a good start that could always lead to better things. Chemistry is important, as is good conversation, so if drinks go well, sure let's have supper. Also if we don't "click" romantically but we have fun together, I'd like to still hang out and be friends! Seems everyone on here either wants a wife or a one-night stand, and I'm somewhere in between...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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