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Malinda, 28
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My hobbies are, drawing and writing at the moment (though I don't claim to be good at either).I'm sorry to say, I don't really have any goals per-say. I'm currently stuck at bit in my life right now but I am trying to move my way out of it.What makes me unique is... Well, at some point everyone I meet more then twice in my life has called me "weird", though they say it's not a bad thing. That, and "kind". I've also been referred to as a "wholesome person", strange to meet in this day in age. As well as a bit wise beyond my years, however I don't claim to be smart.I am me, I won't and don't want to be anyone else. I will tell you if I think you're doing something wrong, I usually speak my mind. But I try to do so with kindness... Unless you've really pissed me off, LoL.I'm usually described by others as a person who can be as much as a Christan without actually being a Christan... I listen to my heart and *** do what I think is right.For pets I myself have a cat and two birds. My parents have two painted turtles (rescued) and a cat... Though they have had MANY pets in the past.I am very much into "mangas" and "anime", though it's mostly supernatural and shojo (romance). The Japanese have some very interesting ideas in story lines and I'm a totally hopeless romantic through and through.Besides reading manga, books I read a lot of romance. But I give pretty much anything a try at least once.For my music tastes I'd have to say mostly I listen to pop the most. I also listen to techno a lot, too... Though I can't stand gospel or country or rap music to much.Movies I love a mixture of romance and comedy with a little horror and action thrown in. I am not a afraid and love horror movies of them selves though as well as comedies... I adore most romance movies especially if it has to do with vampires (I have a thing for them for some reason)... Though I admit I'm not really crazy about action movies all that much but I give most of them a shot.Oh, I also live with my parents still. They have health problems and it just makes it easier to help them... And to be completely honest I haven't been able to afford to live out on my own as well yet... Thanks very much for reading this far! *** NO BLACK GUYS - give up, I may be an over weight white girl, but I WILL NOT add to that by popping out a bunch of half black children that most of you probably won't even help take care of!I am looking for someone who has a seance of humor, can make me laugh as well as can take a joke but who also knows when to be serious and fast to say sorry when he realizes he's gone to far. But I don't want "sorry" to be just about every other of our conversations if you know what I mean.Is gentle yet knows when to be strong.Must be a good listener but not afraid to truly speak his mind. Will tell me when I'm being out of line with others or himself.MUST love animals (should have a couple himself), and is into nature. Likes and is good with kids as well as the elderly and animals.I am a total sucker for blue eyes and/or an Irish accent.MUST have a thing for Halloween (not just like), I LOVE the holiday and go all out to decorate and go to attractions!I'll tell you all right now, I'm not the type of person that will date someone just so I won't be alone no matter how lonely I am. I just can't do it and it ALWAYS ends badly... There has to be a connection there for me.I think the key to any good relationship is communication and compromise (I think it's especially essential to a romantic relationship). We should be equals to each other and not afraid to voice our thoughts and feelings to one another.;instinct"Although I do wish ultimately to find a good and health romantic relationship, we must be friends first. I do have morals and values so I am not the type of person to just jump into a relationship (as I stated before above).Also, NO GUYS over 30 years old please. I do not go 5 years over or under my own age.No sports fanatic guys please. I like sports in fun but I don't get worked up about them ever and I don't really understand guys who do.

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  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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