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Jaylah, 28

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About Me

New to POF

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tyisha

    Online

    Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-35

    I am a lost soul searching in the dark for some semblance of harmony in this vast universe of chaos we call life. I have my perks, and my downfalls. Mainly, I am losing hope that my Mr. Right will find me. But, ya never know! In the mean-time, I figured I'd hop back on this website, start a new profile since my old one disappeared and just see who pops up.A little about me:I LOVE music, it keeps me going, it calms me down, it centers me, it gives me great joy and also soothes me when I'm stressed. I love to sing and am pretty good at it I hear. Music is my therapy. My favorite genre is R&B/soul/jazz or other beautiful soulful harmonic deep moving music. I also like hip/hop, dubstep and other various kinds of music, aside from most country- usually cant relate. Holiday, and sooooooo many more! If you also enjoy this kind of musical/lyrical talent, Im sure we could make harmony :)I have a beautiful daughter who is my heart, she is amazing and smart and sassy and a huge part of my life. I do make time for mommy :)I am a licensed vet techI have 1 and ***dogs and a cat/dogI like to sleep in any chance I get, which isnt oftenI am a US Army veteran, I sometimes regret getting outI have a tendency to make things complex and complicated, it's something that I drive myself a bit nuts with, can't help itI'm a bit of an extremist, and like to have funI've decided to get back into shape and improve my health, so I am at the gym at least 6 days a week and am currently on a strict diet, on my way toward my goals :)My car and I have been together since ***, she loves me even though it takes her a good while to start, she runs like a champI am friendly and funny- in the right companyI can be serious and take control- when neededMy childs father irritates me, we share joint custody, I wish I never had to see him again ... jus sayinI am incredibly stubborn at times, it doesn't always serve me well, but I am pretty toughI am a skeptic, pessimist and critic. It keeps me safe and logical for the most partI sometimes don't know how not to be sarcastic, and find it highly entertaining to go through life as if it were a comedy sitcom, in my head of course, so I randomly laugh because life can get boring so my extremely vivid imagination takes over to provide an entertainment boost, lolI can take things too seriously at times, and other times I should probably be a bit more serious, its a balanceWhat I want:I appreciate kind respectful, appreciative, understanding and easy-going, good-natured men that are strong, independent, loyal, decisive, fair, mysteriously calm and quiet, nice smile and eyes. My age or older, pref. no children but that depends on the situation. Have a car, a job, a place to live and your sh*t together. Other than that, we can discuss particulars. I am a busy woman, if that's a problem for you or you are needy/clingy or want a constant side-kick/companion, I'm not the one for you, at least not off the bat. Thats not to say I wont want to know you're available and willing to hangout more than once a month and not only at night and not only based on your schedule, Im busy but can make exceptions. You'll havta be cool with gettin in where ya fit in. If feelings are mutual and things progress, time-management can be adjusted.If you aren't with the 212, Im not interested.If you want to pretend you're looking for a relationship knowing you aren't ready or willing to participate and compromise, Im not interested.If you have baby mama drama, I am not interested.If you do not meet the minimum grown azz man requirements, do not contact me.If you aren't able or willing to be spontaneous and be available to spend quality time with me then I am not interested.If you are not sure what you want, be honest about that.If you think playing games is fun, we might have something in common but Im not interested in playing yours.Jus sayin :)I'm sure we could all write novels about ourselves, but I'm just gonna give you these random factsIf you want to know more, ask me!I have found it pertinent to mention that I am usually attracted to tall, dark (or light) and handsome black men and am a sucker for a fresh fade and all lined up lol jus sayin Somewhere with great ambiance, beautiful and inspiring atmosphere. Plenty of open space and yummy food and drinks. Not too busy and loud, but public is best for first time meetings. No expectations or obligations. I like to drive, so I'd likely just meet you there. Something fun, exciting and new. We can decide together. Or you can just leave it all up to me, which I usually don't mind. But those kinds of things can be difficult to do when you don't yet know the other person, so imput is always appreciated.

  • Taina

    Online

    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    I think I'm a decent mix of girly girl/tomboy and I like doing adventurous things (Scuba/traveling). I'm independent, but value the traditional roles of a man and woman.I'm responsible and have my head on straight, but still know how to have fun. I'm not perfect, but I try really hard to be a good person. Some days it takes a lot more effort than others.That being said you can always count on me to be honest and faithful in our relationship.I'm pretty blunt and wear my heart on my sleeve.Even though i'm strong i'm still sensitive, so be nice to me!Who I'm looking for:I’m looking for someone that shares common interest with me and that I can have fun with. I want someone who is stable, handsome, intelligent, funny, considerate, honest, respectful, and trustworthy.I would also like someone who is family orientated, and eventually wants to start a family of their own.I’d like to date someone that lives within a decent range of my house/work. I want to be able to see my man on a regular basis, not have to pack a lunch and my gps to go see him.If you want to "Meet Me" then message me.I'm not wretchedly mean, so toss me a line and I just might bite hook, line, and sinker!!!! On a first date/meeting I would rather it be something casual. (drinks/coffee) I won't meet people at their homes or let them come to mine until I feel comfortable with the person.

  • Lia

    Online

    Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-36

    .. I love it here.;; Maybe you've seen me, I have several flowers zip-tied to the back of my helmet. In the battle of Form vs Function, my flowery helmet wins, it increases both my style and my visibility!For all the fellas out there who list Camping/Hiking/Fishing/Anything Outdoors as your Interests, or talk about it in in your About Me section, this is for you: Yes, I wear sparkly jewelry, coordinate my attire, smell nice, and worry about my hair, nails, and make up, but don't let that fool you. I have a degree in Adventure Education, I have spent much of my adult life in the backcountry, dirty, smelly, and hairy. It's not that I'm afraid of dirt, nor is it that I don't know how to handle myself "out there", it's more so me embracing being a responsible adult in the front country, or at least cleverly disguising myself as one.Your spelling/grammar/punctuation is your digital first impression. Misspelled words, improper use of capitalizations, and the unintelligible abbreviations of text-speak look sloppy. Analogous to taking public transportation to at next to a homeless bum who has just soiled himself, then stepped in a puddle as you were getting off. You split the bill, asked her for a ride home, and never heard from her again. Whereas the general writing and style in this section showed up to pick up their date exactly on time, in freshly laundered and pressed business-casual attire, bearing a small bouquet of irises. The fleeting feeling of the gloriously smooth, freshly shaved, skin of it's cheek against hers leaves her longing to have that that same soft cheek on that handsome face buried between her thighs right then and there. As exemplified above, smarts are sexy; brains are beauty...I have a degree in Visual Arts: Photography, and in Adventure Education.; nor do I; nor should you.I spiritually identify as a Confused Jew.I am honest to a flaw.I don't do well with large, open-ended questions, such as "So, tell me a little bit about yourself?".Since I graduated from school, 'I've been dressing the part'. Still, it takes me by surprise when I say something and people take me seriously. I mean they should take me seriously: I am smart, educated, articulate, and I know what I'm talking about. I'm just not used to people taking me seriously.What people are most likely to notice about me right off the bat is my style. My style: not style like the pure aesthetics of Gucci Style, rather the larger concept of what is style, like a Teaching Style. When people meet me in a professional context, they notice that I am sleek, coordinated, organized, and put together. In spin class, they notice that I am beat and dripping in sweat by the time we're finished. On my bicycle, people notice that I am bold but safe, and they notice my helmet. The first time a friend comes to my house, they usually say something to the affect of "Yep, this is your house!" It's a way to comprehensively describe all the details that collectively make me undeniably me, style!The top five things on my must-have list are as follows:1. My phone- which is my main contact to my family, who are all over the map, and to many of my friends. It is my Address Book, my Internet, my go-to reference for anything and everything when I am not at home.2. Family3. My car and/or my bicycle4. My planner5. FoodWhat I do with my off time: Most week nights: I spend a lot of time at the YMCA.On a typical Friday night: I am wiped out after a long week. During the weekends: I'm a homebody, so chances are that I'm at home, cooking supper with friends; there may or may not be a bottle of wine involved. I can also be found somewhere out there in a tent, at a friend's house, the Yavapai College Performance Hall, or the occasional soiree Down Town. I lead a fairly mellow lifestyle.You should send me a message if:You find me interesting, attractive, or otherwise intriguing; if sex isn't the only thing you want from me; and if you value proper spelling, punctuation and grammar. It depends on to what degree we already know each other:Completely blind date: I'll meet you in a predetermined public place for dinner.We met online, and haven't communicated much: StarbucksWe met online, have corresponded at length, and feel comfortable with each other: (My not at all Politically Correct answer: *Ideally*, you have a plan. I am an extremely involved and incredibly resourceful community member. I usually know how to entertain myself. BUT, in my ideal world, you are the man, as the man, it is your job to entertain me; I am the woman, if I am adequately entertained, my job is to put out. [I am fairly confident that it will take some modestly serious initial buy-in/general attraction to me to get this far in my profile, so I am not quite as concerned about being perceived as easy as I would be if, as my tag-line I were saying "Entertain me and I'll put out!".; keep me entertained, and eventually, I'll sleep with you. The extent of me "putting out" on my ideal first date would be one, long, slow, sweet, kiss goodnight: no tongue, at first, at least; our bodies pressed up against each other, desperately wanting to tear off every bit of clothing separating the two of us;; when we can no longer tolerate not being inside of each other, slowly our mouths open; as your hand reaches up to gently cup the back of my head, my knees quiver; you break it off, leaving me breathless, wet, and in eager anticipation of the next time we see each other.) Now, for the slightly more PC, and incredibly less graphic version: You can pick me up at my house, we'll go do something, like catch a movie, go watch Jazz on the Square, go to an Opening Reception at an Art Gallery; in any case, it involves a drink: loosen things up. Now that we have marginally compromised sobriety and a shared experience off of which to go for conversation for the rest of the evening, we can go enjoy a meal, and/or perhaps a movie... When all is said and done, you bring me home, walk me to the door, and give me a kiss goodnight.

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