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About Me

I'm an outgoing introvert.I work full time at a nonprofit. (I've been in my field for over 10 years. I'm very passionate, but somewhat private. Silence doesn't bother me, but strained conversation does. I don't like chaos. I am happiest at home, but I do love learning and seeing new things and places. I hope to learn the basics of the language. (I've been to South America and know some Spanish.) I did my first 5K in May. I think I'd like to do a couple more. I've come to have a deep appreciation for yoga. It is calming and challenging at the same time, and forces focus. I LOVE music. I grew up singing and playing the piano and flute. I like pretty much any type of music (except death metal, but my younger brother is in that type of band, so I will listen to it.)I'm looking for someone who knows how to begin and keep a conversation going. I want to get married and have kids at some point, so obviously, I want someone on that same page. I'm looking for someone who works hard, but doesn't let work take over their whole lives and is smart and very quick on their feet. Grabbing a sandwich and taking a walk. Having coffee and conversation. Dinner and drinks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tierra

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Yes! I may look familiar! I was recently on the site but took my profile down. Looks like I pulled it a bit prematurely though as I haven't been sufficiently snatched up yet! ;) I will say this upfront. I have dated fathers before. It never works out. I'm sorry, everyone deserves love but I'm tired of wasting my time and am definitely not interesting in coming in last on the priority list...I may be a bit rusty in the dating department but I know I'm a great catch ;) I am loyal to a fault, smart, sweet, SILLY, funny, independent, but not the kind that makes you feel like I am up to no good. I'd rather have a partner in crime for that. HahaAlong with being loyal to a fault, I am also honest to a fault, and relentlessly persistent ( is that redundant??) lol I am mostly laid-back but I have some things I am particular about. If you Give me too much space, I'll know that you and I aren't gonna work; I know that guys that like a girl, show it. Also, I truly seek someone whom appreciates me as a whole person. I'm the girl-next-door type, meaning yes, there may be prettier girls out there or on this site, but they may not be complete... I have a brain too and think I'm pretty funny ;) Hey! People laugh at my jokes! ... Or uh, maybe at me! Lol Either way; life is nicer when we're having fun! Don't you agree? I'm a sincere person. I want others to feel good around me, like I want to be with them. I'm not looking for perfect, just perfect for me! So... I own my own place, have a good career, and no kids. I am attractive and affectionate. I've got a pretty figure and a delicate heart. 3 I could stand to work out more (knee injury caused me some issues) but I am back in business. I was told previously I am too nice. It was followed up that I need to date like a man. I am too nice... I know. I am just now learning what "date like a man" means. I don't know how I feel about this?? I'm 100% lady with a bit of a quirky pervy sense of humor! It may take me some time to fully shine or it may take no time at all. This is the sort of thing that depends on the people dating. No one likes talking to a wall lol Some ask how I can still be on the market? I could have been married by now; however, I want to find someone I mesh with. Someone who is smart, Trustworthy, honest, loyal, a good communicator, affectionate... That is what I deserve. Looks matter too as well as chemistry! I honestly don't find many people drop-dead attractive early on. :) I am a young 35. I know age is just a number but if you act like a stick in the mud, a toddler or appear like life has been hard on you, meaning, you are 37 but look 47 then we aren't a good match... Let's be honest if I looked 42 or even my own age, many of you would pass my profile by. No double standard here ;) Btw, I don't chat. Please don't take it personally. I am certain there are plenty of women closer who would totally be into that :) Real men don't need to play games. They don't need women to play games either. If I'm dating someone and they cross my mind, I CALL or txt. If you want me to be scarce, then tell me upfront. I will not call you or txt. I will wait for you to decide you want to see me. I'll go ahead and date other guys in the meantime as your behavior doesn't suggest you're a man yet. Just remember, I have never dated a guy who has once dissed me and DIDNT attempt to come back around. I'm incredibly stubborn as well. I've given second chances to a few times only to crunch up my face and ask myself why? You see, I'm willing to be single for the rest as my life if the alternative is a bunch of b*llsh*t:) If you are serious about meeting someone, putting in an appropriate amount of effort, and being open about expectations, feel free to *** can go from there. if you are unwilling or too lazy to do those things, do yourself a favor and save yourself the trouble of composing an *** As you can probably tell, I am a straight shooter. My job is busy, I have responsibilities at home so wasting time playing peekaboo with a grown man is just ridiculous to me. I'll let you decide if I'm your cup of tea! Please take a peek and write if you'd like. :) Let's chat over drinks or dinner!! See if we can carry a conversation and have fun doing it! Hopefully laugh at each others jokes! Exchange bad date stories. Hopefully have an even better 2, 3, 4, 5.....100th date :)

  • Shaunta

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    My family and friends are the most important things to me in this world and hope to find some one that can be a part of that!

  • Voncile

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I've been single for a couple years now and in that time I've been on a number of dates but still have yet to meet someone I feel a real connection with. Therefore I decided to try something new. It might sound crazy to some but I want to try using horoscope compatibility to hopefully meet someone. I figure why not give it a shot, I sure don't have anything to lose. I've been in a handful of serious relationships and after doing some research on this whole horoscope thing I realized not one of those relationships was compatible with my sign. I find that rather interesting! I'm a Gemini and after reading numerous websites the consensus is that Libra & Aquarius signs are my best matchesA little about me:I'm a very laid back & fun type of lady. I love to be out and about being the social butterfly I am but I also enjoy quiet nights in and lazy weekends every once in a while as well. I LOVE music and most genres of it. There is nothing better than seeing my favorite musicians live. I've been to a good amount of concerts and plan to go to many many more over the years. I love movies as well. Comedies are the best but I like a variety of movie genres. I like to read and drink wine... As for my occupation I currently work in healthcare and have for over 10 years. I've learned a ton in this profession and continue to strive for growth and experience but am hoping to go back to college in the near future to possibly switch careers. I'm hoping to start a career where I can really make a difference in the lives of those who are struggling. It would be the most rewarding feeling to know I am helping someone in need each and every day. So if you're a Libra or Aquarius and you're willing to give my little experiment a try, please get in touch! No pressure for the first date, I prefer something simple like a stroll in the park, coffee or happy hour

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