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Alethia, 35

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About Me

I am the proud mommy of one beautiful daughter. I just finished college and love what I do. I'm not real sure what i'm looking for on here..... So far, not so good. Blah blah blah. I guess this is what the dating world is all about? I love to make new friends and meet new people. Unfortunately, this experience has been a huge let down.Good looks and status don't preserve healthy friendships or relationships. Your character traits (like how we treat one another) do. I have often wondered why we care for things we can never measure up to such as superficial and materialist ideals. As you know, physical attraction depreciates overtime, while character can be cultivated and improved. In other words, your character doesn't depreciate over time - it is an investment that actually gains value if you work for it. We cannot measure the worth of someone through means of status, beauty, wealth, and power. These things have very little to do with improving the quality of life as they are only surface things, appealing mainly to our most carnal nature. If one gains people's attention or affection based on good looks, the words one speaks, natural beauty, status, and rank, then that will be the only things to keep their attention. Of course, these aren't negative traits; more so, they are not the kinds of traits meant to sustain us.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Ok! No luck on Match so I'm giving this site a shot. I've been divorced three years and online dating for one. No luck so far! Beginning to realize that there are some really messed up people in the world. I'm not looking for perfection.......just someone who is honest, funny and who is actually looking for a relationship or at least open to the idea. It's funny because the tone of this profile is so different from my Match one. It's amazing how a year can be discouraging and disappointing enough to completely change your outlook on something. As unappealing as my profile may sound so far I do want to say that I have not become completely jaded and I do still believe that there are good men out there......just a little more cautious now!So now on a lighter note.......a little about me. I'm an animal lover. I love to laugh and I laugh a lot! I have a sarcastic and somewhat twisted sense of humor. Spent most of my life working around men so I don't get offended easily. I quit smoking 6 months ago but I do use an electronic cigarette.I workout daily.....was a runner up until recently when I decided to switch to the Insanity dvds (determined to get my 6pack back). I also love food so if we meet for dinner don't expect me to be ordering a side salad. I'm not looking for someone to take care of me nor do I want to take care of someone else. I just want to find someone I enjoy spending time with that feels the same about me and hopefully it can grow in to something more.

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I don't need to talk or date a lot of people; I want just one. The right one!Is it possible to meet one decent guy here??!! I have my doubts and don't take this to seriously! I guess I'll be married to my career. Lol! Ideal man wanted: I want a man who I have chemistry with, great conversation, a deep connection, my best friend, someone with the same ethics/morals, well-adjusted, trustworthy, professional, easy going, funny, athletic, attractive, strong, kind, has God in their life, treats everyone with kindness, respect and courtesy, traditional, goal and family orientated and ET cetera.Taller the better; I'm super tall for a girl. Hopefully, have a great time together.

  • Cymone

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I'm a petite ball of energy. I do take life seriously.. Up to a point. At the same time I want to experience life with as much zest as I can. I love people and getting to know them. I'm that person who will see someone in need and stop what Im doing, and help them. I believe nobody can live in this world without a helping hand from time to time. I'm very empathetic and compassionate which helps in my line of work. I'm independent, loyal, optimistic and fun. I'm the girl you can have an intellectual conversation with, and who won't belittle your beliefs. Someone who you can count on, be silly with, and be your best friend.If your looking for a materialistic girl then keep moving. If your allergic to cats, keep moving. If your looking for the real deal, MSG me and let's see what happens. In life it is not were you go-- but who you travel with. Disclaimer: don't send me msgs asking for more pictures. Something low key so we can talk and get to know each other.

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