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Phylis, 34
United States, Michigan, Burton

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You have heard of the crazy cat lady, yes? I'm the crazy dog lady. I rescue, rehabilitate, and rehome pit bulls and mastiff breeds. I have five dogs currently in my home, and I'm also a dog trainer by profession. I love dogs. But sometimes I like to be in a dog-free zone and communicate with actual humans. As much as I love dogs, they don't take me dancing; and they are lousy dinner company.I live in a century- I don't care for either. When I'm not slaying poisonous spiders, I can often be found dancing, singing, hiking, wakeboarding (poorly), or otherwise finding some reason to be out in the sun. I love trips to the city and trips to the mountains or the beach.I value intelligence, education, and fitness. I don't care about your degree, but I care that you are always learning. A man who is an avid reader and who challenges my opinions with his own rational thought turns me on. I stay very fit, and I appreciate the same in my date. I want to climb a mountain with you or dance the night away.I am hiking boots and stilettos, tactical pants and little black dresses, au naturale and all dolled up. I am emotional but make decisions based on logic. I love exceptional artistry and analytical brilliance. I am cerebral and physical.UPDATE: Here are a few handy tips for those who wish to write me. These will, of course, entertain all those to whom they do not apply and will not be read by those to whom they do.1. Grammar and spelling count. If you have huge typos in the first and only sentence you have ever written to me, I will question your intelligence. A few typos are fine. You will probably find some in this list.2. No terms of endearment in your first ***, please. They are creepy, not flattering.3. Taking a photo of yourself shirtless in your bathroom mirror is not cool.4. Taking a photo of yourself flexing in your bathroom mirror is even less cool. I love great abs. I don't love idiots.5. If you have photos of pit bulls or mastiff breeds sporting huge chains around their necks, we are not compatible... unless you are open to learning about tracheal scarring and the benefits of positive reinforcement training and a quality martingale collar. Otherwise, I rescue these dogs from people like you.6. If you say you have an athletic body type, your recent photos need to reflect athleticism and/or a fit body (which can be done while wearing clothing). If you have a beer gut, you need to list your body type as "average" or "a few extra pounds." Err on the side of underselling. I don't need a dude with a perfect body. But I do need a dude who is honest with me and with himself.7. If I can tell you haven't read my profile, I won't bother to read yours or respond to your *** ideal first date would be a hike up to Cleo's Bath in mid summer when the water is still high enough to fill the natural pools but slow enough to safely dip our feet. After a hike filled with stimulating conversation, silly stumbles, and great laughter; we decide the day couldn't possibly be over yet, so we head home to get cleaned up and dressed for dinner, drinks, and dancing.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Jazz Turkish Vietnamese Action Romance Basketball Sailing
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  • Malorie from Burton | Woman | 35 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Hi, I´ I grew up in WI, moved to Spain when I was 19 to go on a year-long study abroad program, fell in love with it, and ended up staying there for 13 years.) I moved out to LA to be closer to my family.ABOUT ME:-I looove going to the beach, so if you ever want to go, I'm up for it.-I play in a coed softball league on Monday nights.-I enjoy going to the gym and you will often find me there on a Fri/Sat night.-I'm really outgoing, and have never had a problem making friends/meeting guys, but I´m curious if I´ll find ¨the one,¨ so we'll see how it goes. :)-I enjoy going to upscale wine bars/lounges. Sports bars/dive bars can be fun, too. :) I hope you can be just as flexible.-I love to laugh at myself and, yes, I love to laugh at others while "people watching." Why do people go grocery shopping in their PJs? -I think the way someone decorates their home says a lot about them. I like warm, modern interior design.-I adore my family. My friends often referred to us as "The Cleavers." My parents gave me a childhood that most kids could only dream of. Their weekends were spent cheering me on at my sporting events-- they never missed a game/meet. When I had a weekend off, they would find other ways to have some quality time together. (art and historical museums, picnics, long hikes in the woods, gardening, BBQs...) -My brother, who is two years older, is still my idol and best friend. :-) Looking back, I am sooo thankful they made sitting down at the table as a family, for breakfast and dinner, such a priority. That is where a family becomes "a family." -I think honesty is the most important part of a relationship, and if not THE most important, at least it's at the top of the list. I was married to a spaniard for 7 years. Unfortunately, he had personal problems that he could not overcome, even with my loving support. My situation was unique, and I was forced to move on. It wasn't an easy thing to do, since I am a firm believer that marriage is a lifetime commitment. I put single down in my profile so I could be included in more searches. Sorry about that.-If I forgive you, I will forget it. (Unless you cheat) I would hope you could do the same. -I DISLIKE bickering and miscommunications. -I'll give you extra "; if you floss your teeth daily.I hope you can get a better idea of who I REALLY am with this video I made. I never thought describing myself in a short paragraph and posting 8 pictures would be so difficult, until I caught myself staring at a blank screen for 20 minutes.YouTube: "The House That Built *** don't think we'll be a good match if you:---Are looking for casual sex or phone sex. (I´m looking for a best friend and a committed relationship.***Send me a text, then I respond, then you disappear. (I won´t waste your time, so please don´t waste mine.***Send me pictures of you with a really messy house (I love order in my life.***Have magnets on your refrigerator. (we will save that for when we have kiddos.***.***send R-rated pictures (umm, that's just not appropriate.) ***PLEASE DON'T ASK FOR A BIKINI PICTURE, YOU'LL NEVER GET ONE.***---are missing teeth or if you look dirty (I love clean guys that smell good.)--major turn on! ;***are younger than ***that's pushing it) or older than ***exceptions are possible***take life too seriously. (I love to laugh and be sarcastic!***think that Spain is located in South America (I love exchanging stories with other world travelers.***have long hair, tattoos (ok, a few MIGHT be ok), earrings. (I prefer men over women.) ;***don't take care of your body/exercise. (I do, so you should, too.***smoke (no comment.***don't enjoy life's little pleasures, such as wine, a good gin and tonic, beer, the sun, nature, animals, a warm fire, spooning/snuggling. (Did I just say spooning??***don't enjoy watching/participating in sports (I come from an athletic family.***wear flat billed baseball caps---wear cargo pants or skeletoes to the gym.Thanks for reading-- I can't wait to meet up. :)One more thing, don't worry or feel intimidated if you never had a close relationship with your family. There's always room for another setting at our table. :-)

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  • Kae from Burton | Woman | 32 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    . I love my family..i love hip hop music..mostly all music but country and rock.. wanna have kids and family someday..im a nice loving chick with a big heart..I am NOT looking to party..so over that.no I don't wanna see naked pics of u.. lol please don't be creepy or sexual cuz that's a big turn off I can b shy until u get to kno me.. my weakness is "a bad boy" but i don't want a douchebag.. so that usually doesn't work for me lol...so it would be cool to meet some cool people and see where it goes from there.. in the end i want a relationship and my own family..

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  • Shonna from Burton | Woman | 35 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Hello,I'm Jennifer... I've been here a lil over a month, looking to meet some cool people.I'm not into liars, players, cheaters, black guys, nor COPS...I love All music but 90's alternative iS my fave.I hate hate hate scary movies.I LOVE LOVE LOVE MEN w INK!!I hate posting crap about myself, so just ask...

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