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Aleshia, 33

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About Me

I am a single mother of 2 young boys, but Im still young myself! I want to continue experiencing life and having adventures with someone like minded. Im a hard worker and I like to relax and have fun on my days off. My "hobby" would be exercising the dogs at a local pit bull rescue. I own my home which I purchased myself 3 years ago and that is something I am very proud of. I enjoy all sorts of music right now: indie/college music when I was younger, dance/club when Im working out, classic rock when Im cleaning, all sorts. I thought I knew where my life was going but its all changed and Im excited to try new things, meet new people and have experiences that will enrich both mine and my childrens lives. I suppose a first date would be up to the individual. Something where a conversation can happen but also casual so there will be no pressure to stay long if things arent going well. Im up for anything.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Addy

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Before I say anything, let me just say: make me laugh and I'm yours. I strive to find a man that can keep me entertained in that regard. Ok, here goes:My self-summary:Self-professed nerd with a heart of gold. Ok, maybe not solid gold, but would you believe gold plated? I'm typically very honest and up front about everything. I don't like keeping things inside; that's what my body parts are for :)Originally from So Cal, I like to laugh and learn and love and am doing my best to just enjoy life, despite crap that may get thrown my way.What I’m doing with my life:Livin' it! I don't know how to answer this one. Ummmm, well I'm trying to enjoy my life? Does that work? Are they asking for a five year plan here, or what?I’m really good at:Making people laugh. And laughing. Oh yeah, and graphic/web design. But mostly the laughing part.Work-wise, I am a freelance graphic & web designer with a marketing background that specializes in software user interface design. The economy has made it more difficult to keep the "freelance" aspect of my work as steady as it has been at its height, but I have been laid off from enough liquidating dot-com companies to realize that I have no desire to work for "the man" that has no vested interest in me. Being self-employed has allowed me to work on my self-discipline as well as allowed me to teach myself new aspects of my business I wouldn't have learned as an employee elsewhere. The one part of sole-proprietorship I will never like and never get used to is collections. I hate making collection calls; I wish everyone would just pay for the work they commissioned :(Anyway! Enough about my work! I like what I do, but this is not something that I focus on all the time. I AM able to separate business from pleasure.The first things people usually notice about me:I'm tall, and I smile a lot. Other than that, you'll have to ask them.Music: Arcade Fire, Sia, Massive Attack, Radiohead, Rachael Yamagata, Air, Adele, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Blonde Redhead, Death Cab for Cutie, Goldfrapp, DJ Shadow, Junkie XL, Beastie Boys, Pogo, Ulrich Schnauss, The Flaming Lips, Frédé I pretty much like everything except country and heavy metal. 1, Star Wars (older episodes only - (Mostly everything else I read is online. I can't help it, I'm of the digital age and have a short attention span, so news sites and blogs are what I'm about at the moment. Oh, and please PLEASE don't *** you liked Atlas Shrugged. Please. Just. Don't. Do. It. Okay?Food: Sushi, a great steak, Thai food... and I'm good with pretty much everything else except Indian food and super spicy foods.The six things I could never do without:-laughter-my supportive and loving family-;-my laptop/phone/technology in general-great sex-- not having a car makes getting around difficult. But after THAT then I like to go out. Nothing crazy, but drinks with friends or a dinner out is always fun. I am also not averse to a night at home with a good movie and/or good company. I'm easy when it comes to these things.I’m looking for:Ages ***Near me (I'm serious.)Who are singleFor long-term datingYou should message me if:-You found humor in this profile.-You think you might like to know more about me.-You are going to space and need a cool nerd-girl to accompany you.A few other things:-I've come to the realization that I am an extremely affectionate person, and need someone equally as affectionate for a mate. It works out best for both parties, trust me.-I prefer passionate/aggressive men that know when to be tender. I said "aggressive men", not "***holes". Know the difference.-Chivalry is a huge turn on. Huge. Many a points are scored when my date is chivalrous.- I'm tall and I'm curvy and I love how I look, and if you don't feel the same about me, then good luck finding someone willing to put up with your superficiality. I'm a healthy human being and am not interested in being judged by the likes of you or anyone else for that matter.-Also, please don't message me if you are extremely religious or a Republican because I can tell you right now that it will not work out between us. Trust me, I've tried.***Oh yes, and one other thing... I'm starting to come to the unfortunate conclusion that the majority of men on here are either complete trolls or totally full of shit. I hate to burst your bubble, boys, but I'm not interested in a one night stand, and I'm not looking for some ***hole that thinks it's fun to try (operative word being "try") to take advantage of a nice girl. I realize I live in La La Land, but I have no interest in playing these ridiculous mind games boys seem to love playing. I am a real person and would appreciate being treated with respect. If that doesn't sound like your cup of tea, then feel free to move on to the next one, mmkay? Ideally drinks out or a somewhat quiet dinner somewhere quaint. I don't think that going to a movie or a concert on a first date is ideal. I'd like to get to know you, and don't think I can in such a loud setting. Also, I don't think that getting coffee is a good first date, either. I've been on a few of those and walked away feeling like I had been on an interview, not on a first date.

  • Loan

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Smart &... Well, forget the hat and boots but someone who loves camping and country concerts. I love to dress up in heels and dresses with a glass of wine in my hand but on the other hand I love my jeans and cowgirl boots around a campfire with a drink in hand. Family is very important and I love spending time with my nieces and nephews. First date.... Let's grab a cup of coffee or a drink and let's see where it goes.

  • Garnett

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Call me crazy but i am not into dudes that r under 6 foot tall so if ur contacting me cuz u r attracted to me and happen to b under six foot tall please have skmethingb substantive to say lmao. thick is not how u say it . DISCLAIMER: I AM incredibly Spiritual and a very very very free spirit.! :) GOOD LUCK THOUGH! my advice: find happiness within yourself and don't depend on anyone or thing to fulfill that feeling except for your own thoughts. I AM JUST LOOKING FOR LIKE MINDED ALTERNATIVE LAID BACK PHILOSOPHICAL MUSICIANS & AWARE Individuals. WE ARE LIVING IN A WORLD WHERE THERE ARE THOSE WHO ARE AWAKE &THOSE WHO ARE ASLEEP. --IM AN INSOMNIAC. I LOVE LEMONS & FASTING. I like people who are CONSCIOUS and RESPECT THEIR BODIES as DIVINE in NATURE. I AM NOT NORMAL. I MAY LOOK IT> BUT FAR FAR FROM IT>I DO NOT EAT AT ANY CHAIN RESTAURANTSI VOTE WITH MY DOLLAR IM AS OLD SCHOOL AS THEY COME. A REBEL..with a CAUSE lolI am me :) and very happy to be. I am a Musician that has been in denial for awhile so I'm working on nurturing that element. lol i am not a professional by any means but i have something rare..i do play by ear and can read music but choose to go no paper . I habitually smoke marijuana cigarettes. not really but i do medicate, frequently so if your not a fellow sufferer of society's ills we may not chill so copasetically. i am not really looking for a serious relationship or a sexual one for that matter. I am really shy around troubled individuals (in this society there are many) due to my inability to handle the capacity of my empathetic abilities. I AM AN INDIGO CHILD. if you don't know what that is..well look it up! lol I travel ALOT. so im in and out of the NOrcal area i am actually looking to go travel overseas soon.I graduated from sac state BA in INTERNATIONAL RELATIONS so i can carry a conversation to say the least, however i like to approach life from an observer standpoint although I do take initiative and action when necessary. I watched the documentary Thrive and my life hasnt been the same since. I AM VERY VERY RADICAL with my Political Views im in the return to nature mode. I AM IN THE PROCESS OF Creating a catalyst for elevating awareness IAM AN ARTIST. would like to connect with other ARTISTS. I WANT to meet peeps on my level of ACTION and ACTIVITY, i don't roll too slowly in this world tryin to blow me every which way...I determine where and how long it is I stay:) Im an old soul. they just lost one. :) I LOVE ALL MUSIC! If you are cool I will share my *** media/music:) just ask :) if u r creepy.... Nada lol IM AWARE OF OSMOSIS ! CHOOSE WISELY WHO YOU SURROUND YOURSELF WITH! :) i don't know if im down to really call it a date. im not into labels.

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