SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Alesha
Online
Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 30-40
I've been a part of and experienced many important, brilliant things in life, but I find success and simplicity are most fulfilling when you have someone to share it with. I'm skeptical about online dating, but realize the beauty in taking risks and trying new things, even if there is a brutal physical determination of your dating worth pre-requisite. But, if the best people are on this site, then I have to put myself out there for even the slightest possibility of success.I am currently a student of Neuroscience. I also work full-time and volunteer. I once met a man who was homeless because he gave up everything he ever loved to help his son with his medical bills. He worked in a mill and lost his job due to the economy. Since he didn't have any schooling, his only asset was his home. I was ten years old when I met him, and on that day I decided I wanted to be a doctor and help as many people as I could. I find it both inspiring and horrifying what people will do for those they love. While I did pity him, I also envied him for his strength and courage. I'd like to think I'd do the same thing if I were in that situation. I feel that without people there would be no history, and finding the right person can make you want to be the person you long to be......who you yearn to be. While I am doing well for myself and have a large group of friends, I need someone who's not afraid of being with a successful woman to stand beside me. A man who appreciates the small things, enjoys learning, finds my quirks charming, sees me as a "catch", knows how to have a relationship, is down-to--gazing, cooking, etc.), I am a very honest, forthright person who believes mostly in quality of character. I am loyal, goal-oriented, funny, caring, and confident in who and how I am. I'd love to meet a guy who makes me want to be a better woman, one who makes me realize what's worth losing and what's worth saving. I have never done online dating before and have zero idea why this box is here, so I'm going to fill it with what I think a first date should be like and what it shouldn't be like, so (deep breath) here we go:A great date should be:1. Out of the ordinary. I'm thinking scavenger hunts, dinner with board games, seeing an outdoor symphony, picnics in unusual places, mystery dinner theaters, etc. 2. Educational. I think online dating might be tough to really get to know someone. I like seeing expressions when people talk about who and what they love. After all, we are who we love so I'd like to hear old stories about your life and why you like what you like.3. Relaxing and fun. I find as a society we are taught to be who we want to seem like *** who we actually are or long to be. You aren't on the 'Bachelorette' here, Jesus. A date should not be:1. Where we play a game I call, "stop trying to **** me."2. A time where all you like to do is talk about yourself and make yourself seem incredibly impressive.3. Where you play on your cell phone the whole time or show me pictures of your cats.4. Treating me like I'm one of your guy friends.
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Lovie
Online
Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 30-40
I've lost at love but am not ready to give up. I'm fun loving, caring, fun to be around and very inquisitive. I like to ask questions and get to know whom ever it is i am talking to. I am not usually at a loss for words and like to discuss just about anything. There really is nothing shy about me when I get to know someone. I love to laugh and to make those around me laugh as well. I am a goof ball with a silly sense of humor. I try to have fun doing whatever it is im doing and where ever it is i am at. I enjoy a wide varity of things from getting down and dirty in the yard to dolling myself up and enjoying a nice night out. Movies, live music, a dive bar, a fire pit under the stars. Who doesnt enjoy a night wrapped up with someone special on the couch watching tv or goofing off. I am spontanous and will try anything once. I am a huge animal lover. I have my lovable and adorable chihuahua and 2 great cats. I'd love to have more dogs someday. A man with a soft spot for animals is a huge plus. Another plus....tats and motorcycles but not a deal breaker if you don't!! Being outside, a walk in the park, soaking up the sun on the beach, fisbee, a bike ride, fishing all very enjoyable. Lazy Sundays, mindless strolls through a store or a drive with no destination. I believe in the golden Rule....Treating other as you would like to be treated. I believe strongly in saying what you mean and meaning what you say. I would love to find my partner in crime. Finding that someone special is very important to me. My other half. My love. Thats why I am here. As I feel i am an independant woman, i'd feel complete, whole, with a man who I can love and care for. I am very romantic, wether its sharing a tender moment or laughing our asses off. I think passion can and should be a part of everday. To undertsnad the good and the bad parts of being in a relationship where two people choose to coexsit in eachother lives. All of the things that make 2 people 1. I understand that a relationship of this nature takes time. Don't get me wrong, a whirl wind romance would be exciting but taking things slow, building a true connection, a friendship, making a successful bond are all worth the wait in the end (or the start of something wonderful :) Getting to know someone, the first date, the first kiss all so very fun. I don't want life to pass me by. I love to be able to share my all with someone special!!
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Queen
Online
Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 30-40
Something to make you think *** guess a little about me :)I'm a country girl, born and raised. I don't mind getting dirty, but clean up nicely, or so I'm told. I'm easy-going and enjoy the simple things in life, and believe that memories are made by who you're with, not by what you're doing. Some of my fondest memories involve the most mundane tasks, but had great company. :) Honesty and communication are incredibly important to me, as without them, you can't have a solid foundation of trust and respect that every relationship needs. I strive for harmony, balance, and peace in all aspects of my life and try to avoid drama whenever possible. My family and friends are very near and dear to my heart, and I will do what ever I can for them, whenever I can. Several years ago I was adopted by a lab cross, and now I couldn't ever imagine life without her. Like most people, I enjoy going out with friends, catching a flick, grabbing a cup of coffee, playing in the rain (or the soon to be coming snow) or heading out to the local pub, and I'm always up for a good game of cribbage! I love to surround myself with music, as you'll usually find sheet music or chords sheets scattered across my coffee table lol (I play several ***, some better than others) or humming or singing around the house. My taste in music is broad and ranges from "You gotta hear this!" to "I know, Please don't judge me" and I love discovering "new" artists (If you have any recommendations, let me know!!) I've been asked what it is I'm looking for, and to be honest, I don't know, but I'll know it when I find it. He'll have a certain "spark" in his eye. He won't complicate life, but compliment it. He'll make my heart sing at just the thought of him. :) Failing that, If I make a new friend or two...then it's worth it. "Music isn't just learning notes and playing them, You learn notes to play to the music of your soul." ~