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United States, Michigan, Birmingham

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Looking for an independent, employed, honest, thoughtful and loving man to share my life with.I'm a single mother of one. My last relationship ended well over 3 years ago and I feel that I’m ready to find another someone special. I’m 5'4" tall, brown hair/eyes, fair skin, curvy figure, not a 10 but am confident with my appearance. I've spent the last four years pursuing a degree, which left love on the back burner. I’m ready to get back out there and find someone that I can connect with emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. I consider myself to be a good person, I try not to intentionally hurt others, and offer a helping hand whenever possible. It’s hard for me to see someone is a predicament and not help, although I’ve come to realize some people are beyond help, and I’m often disappointed when my efforts are unrealized. My friends would say that I’m too nice. I would say that I'm still learning that I can't save people, and probably need to reserve all my niceness for the people who mean most. I’m not interested in a relationship with anyone with a substance abuse problem or sex/porn addictions. I do drink socially (few beers) but otherwise live a clean and responsible life and am looking for the same.I feel like I need to discuss my religious beliefs upfront. There are a lot of men on this site for whom the subject of religion is very important (been an issue in the past) and I wouldn’t want to waste your time or mine…I don’t believe in organized religion nor would I consider myself a Christian of any kind (cannot be converted). I grew up in a highly dysfunctional yet extremely conservative Christian home. This upbringing poses confusion for anyone that possesses logic and critical thinking skills, in my opinion. Even so, I’m a spiritual person. I believe in good and evil as well as the power of positive and negative energies. I think as long as you’re a good person, do your best to live your life in positive way, and try not to cause pain to others you’ll have nothing to worry about when you leave this life. If I had to subscribe to any school of thought on the matter of religion the Buddhist teachings for the pursuit of TRUTH, WISDOM, and COMPASSION for all living things makes the most sense logically to me, and aligns closely to the beliefs I’ve formed for myself. I don’t expect for you to believe what I do, but I do expect the person I choose to spend time with to respect my beliefs as I will yours.I’m looking for a strong, loving, compassionate, honest, and trustworthy man who lives separately from his mother (deal breaker) that shares similar life and love values. Other deal breakers include: must have job, must have a car that you can take me out in. I don’t mind driving, but I don’t want to be the ‘driver’ in the relationship (even in this age group is has to be said). I think the full package of attraction includes physical, emotional, and intellectual chemistry in addition to the checklist that everyone has, although I’m not married to that checklist. I’m confident in what I can bring to a real relationship and what I have to offer to one good man. Drinks or coffee for a first date is perfect initial meeting, that way neither of us feel obligated.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

French Italian Japanese Thai
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