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Barrie, 31
United States, Michigan, Birmingham

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About Me

I guess it's time to update this... For starters, I do love the outdoors, but wouldn't say I love EVERYTHING outdoors. This goes for being active as well. I work out on my own schedule doing activities that I like to do.- it's not me. I try to stay in shape and love SKIING, hiking, camping and various other activities, but they aren't my entire life. Everyone has a habit they just can't kick - and cooking is mine - some friends might say I'm a little obsessed with it... I try to cook every day and the meals tend to be healthy, but I'm all about beef stroganoff every once in a while :***and my family recipe is killer!I love traveling and take the opportunity whenever possible. I've been to five continents and hope to make it to the other two soon. (Luckily Antarctica was my first overseas trip, so that one's out of the way:) I love learning about new cultures (particularly when it's exploring a new cuisine). I consider myself pretty open-minded, but I guess people can judge me how they will. That being said, I do tend to have conservative views (sidenote: open-mindedness and conservatism are not oxymorons). My view of being a conservative is to take responsibility for my actions and I expect others to do the same in their lives. As far as looking for that special someone - I think I have a pretty good idea of what I'm after and it's probably easiest to just list what I'm not after. (I hope no one takes offense to this list, but then again, I'm just being honest).1) I can't date a guy that can't spell. If you grew up in America, you were blessed to have a decent public education system - you should appreciate it and use it. 2) I'm not interested in people that are still trying to figure out what they want to do in life. I know what I want and have had a decent job for the last 7 years. I have an established career and life and am looking for someone with similar ambitions.3) I wouldn't say I'm completely against dating someone that has been divorced and has children, but it's not on my priority list. I would love to have a family, but am not sure how I feel about raising someone else's. It'd have to be a pretty extraordinary circumstance.Again, I mean no offense to anyone, but I think it's best to just be honest and up-front with the 'deal-breakers' and those are some of mine.If you haven't gotten tired of my ranting... feel free to shoot me an *** am a pretty traditional girl, so it's unlikely that I'll be initiating a conversation, but I am on an online dating site, so you never know!After many interesting messages, it's come to my attention that I need to add more to this list.4) Modesty is attractive. A nice body is great, but taking a picture of yourself in a mirror with your shirt off is not flattering - it doesn't matter who you are. It'd be ridiculous to say that attraction isn't important, but all looks fade and the basis of a relationship shouldn't be that someone has a six pack (sorry, I'm 31 and I live in reality - a six pack to me means that you probably spend more time than I care to in the gym, don't eat the foods that I prefer to cook, or have freakish genetics that I'll never be able to feel comfortable around). Even if the latter is true - no one needs to boast about it.5) I do drink alcohol - I've listed that already. It's not going to change. I rather enjoy it and I have absolutely no guilt about it. If this is not the lifestyle that you are looking for, then you should be looking elsewhere. ...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

INTERESTS

Fitness / Gym Music Swimming Irish Korean Vietnamese Documentary Mystery War Snowboarding Tennis
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