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BeckaOffline
Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 18-28
Hi! My name is Becka. I am never married atheist caucasian woman without kids from Alma, Michigan, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.
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AdallinaOffline
Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 30-40
"What the hell are you doing on a dating website" is the response i get from my male friends"Im really short- i seem to get messages from those a foot taller.. ok, yes i pay attention to that. Well~ My life experiences have really helped me gain insight into what I do and do not want in my life. But I'm still working on it. Everything in life is a process, and I'm truly at a place in my life of self exploration and personal growth. I am working hard to become a positive thinker and it's really great to be where I'm at in life. It's not perfect, I slip up and get in funks of negativity~ yes I'm human :) I have 3 children- And I started really young, my daughter is 16..son is 9 and now my youngest is 7... I'm not really interested in going back to ***care of an infant. I am busy enough with life-kids-work, it would be really unfair to bring another child into this chaotic world when I'm already looking for more hours in the day. Your children regardless of age or living arrangement is not an issue at all for me. I like to have fun..get a little crazy, offend people in public, ride roller coasters.. love sarcasm and humor... Laughter, family, and physical human contact are essential to living a happy, content, prosperous life. I can't deal with uptight in my life- I am a very deep person and I've found that deep and uptight do not mix well. There's a time and place for serious- no matter how serious I try to look at the positive in every situation. I believe everything happens for a reason and there are no coincidences in life. I believe life is what you make of it and what you attract is based on your energy. There's a lesson to be learned from all experiences however you chose to take it.I hope to meet someone with goals , similar beliefs and passions... I'm not here with expectations- if you don't put yourself out there you never know what you might miss.I'm not here to hook up or play bullsh*t games. I'm open minded , love fun and adventure as well as deep/serious...I love music- wide variety. I'm a huge Ani DiFranco fan so love it or hate it. I am not materialistic or superficial- I'm spiritual/universal but not religious. I'm very real- straight forward and yes guys- I know it's hard to believe- but sometimes I'm just b**chy.. But again I'm human.. Lets not pretend we are flawless superhuman or special. Really we are alll human and equal. Not sure how I feel about long distance...I love to dance. Not that I can say that I can do it well or not but it feels good- I do like to go out alone sometimes just to dance ...Or dancing around the house.And- I don't have a body shot for a reason. Not cuz I'm fat, hot, sexy, built, or retarded- but... Because I prefer to get messages based on similar interest and personality- not how I look. Although im starting to question if thats as big of a deal as i think it is- i overanalyze sometimes. With that said, assume what you will and we'll just see!Ok- that does it for now. I like to talk (about interesting things) so even if your socially awkward Im pretty good at keeping an open ended conversation going Something easy and Comfortable. Drinks are good :) coffee... Whatever...
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TambraOffline
Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 29-39
I must say Men complain that Women are Shallow must say that Men are as well. I shaved my head in support of those with cancer which is very personal to me I personally have lost close relatives to this battle. I like giving back to those who have supported me through the years and by doing this I want to donate to Locks of Love, however due to previous ex's turning me into there image of me my hair was too damaged to do so. My only option was to shave it and its summer so I did it, hopefully ill have more when it gets cold.. But rather than being commended for this feat I have decided to take on which really isn't easy for women due to the social reject esp. reject stemming from Male opinions of what a Woman should look like. Men whom not three days ago wanted to go out on a date with me. In my opinion if you cant understand and respect my decisions then you really weren't worth my time... Let's see *takes a deep breath looks at her cards and calls* I'm a single mother of three, two girls and and an angel. My youngest lives with her father, due to the distance I get her every other weekend. My eldest lives with me and I'm taking care of her on my own her father has chosen to be absent. Some think my subscriptions have subscriptions themselves but I guess that's what makes me. 32 years of trauma have blessed me with ptsd, mdd, conversion disorder, anxiety, and bipolar... I know I've been slapped with a text book right... I'm seeing a therapist, and I am finally on proper meds and am feeling so much better.. Also due to being born severely premature with complications, I contracted hep-c from a blood transfusion... Trust its not something I like saying let alone telling people, but I'm real and I don't believe in hiding things and surprising people later down the road. But due to all this my doctors have taken me out of work temporarily so I can heal.. I have a service/therapy dog who I love and in the past 8 months she has become an extension of me, she goes everywhere with me, she understands me at times more then I have understood myself. I honestly can't see life without her... I tend to walk a lot, I have chosen to not have a car for the time being and I let my licence expire. I use to blade, bike, goto the gym (I want to go back), row (crew), hike, and ski... Due to a dip showing off to one of the snow patrol chicks at my work I ended up snowballing down a hill severely damaging my right knee. In use a PTO brace a good part of the time and surprisingly I manage to do things. Seeing how its my rightly knee it also makes driving long distances troublesome at times.... Got a couple of other minor things that I work through, but I feel like I'm rambling and possibly scared y'all off.... :***aspect from online dating is weather or not the person is appealing and worth the bother to make the attempt at saying hi first. I understand that it can be intimidating trust me I know this one. But the intimidation would lessen if there was a pic representing YOU not the you you think everyone wants to see. YOU.. OH and this isn't Myspace, I'm not interested what the inside of your bathroom looks like... I am not a gold digger I have lived a very frugal life and have learned what matters and what doesn't, I'm not looking for someone to carry my baggage for me, in not looking to carry someone else's baggage mines heavy enough, all I want is someone to walk the rest of this journey we call life with me. I don't feel like that's too much to ask. In a very simple person, it's the little things that matter most to me. So I guess I'm saying I'd rather have a million tiny memories then one big one...I also like to feed my inner nerd, I like to play World of Warcraft in my spare time, I hear companies like hiring people who play seems like they work harder, so why not have a significant other who plays betcha she'll clean the house better .....I would also like to state that I had my tubes tied back in ***so any interest of having kids may be problematic...I am also not a booty call so please do not contact me looking for a cheap trick. I am looking for something real something worth bringing home to my kids. I have also been celibate for 7 months now and I intend on keeping it that way for a while.I'm looking to find the one, I know he exists. My ideal Man that I would appreciate to share my life with must contain 5 or more of these qualities in any order: doesn't smoke or trying to quit or if you do not around me and my kids, must love dogs, must love kids, believe in me, understand that if you want something out of me if your polite then your more likely to get it, if you expect me to work out with you I would be more then happy to but understand that I have a bad knee injury that didn't heal right and problems with my shoulder stemming from being trampled by a horse, must have a sense of humor and want to make me laugh because you love the sound of my laugh, I am deathly afraid of heights well more of falling then anything so rock climbing outside of a gym probably wont happen, I do like to go out and socialize concerts every so often lol but no floor unless there's a seat for me to sit in lol (comes with age I swear or the fact I wreaked my body in my younger concert years), movies is a definite, must like music and all kinds I like a variety yeah rock rap soul jazz etc are all ok but I cant listen to just one I have mixes that would baffle you, be a gentleman open doors for me, understand that my ideal relationship is very old fashioned. I'm not a gold digger so diamonds aren't in my eyes my favorite stone is my birthstone. Be sensitive Well before the potential first date can take place, some intelligent conversation needs to take place. I understand and acknowledge that I am very beautiful and my best feature has been said to be my eyes. I'm a rare breed, to me a good conversation is better then sitting there conversing over how hot you are or what you would like to do with me. I'm not looking for a sugar daddy and I am not livestock, I am an intelligent woman who likes to be treated with class. I tell people if you won't say it in front of your mother then don't bother. My kids are my world and it would be a while before I introduce them to anyone. Aside from all that hello I'm Lisa my favorite game is 50 questions (nothing x rated) you can go first...... :-)