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Bulah, 32
United States, Michigan, Alma

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ok so im in an area where i think it will be hard to find my true match close by but if you really perk my interests i am not opposed to driving. i have a job but i think im kind of a real hippie at heart...looking for openminded, down to earth, on the funny side, and musically intune. i am at the moment just trying to get in better shape...ive had a rough couple of years since my dad died and havent really cared about physicalities. im not morbidly obese but am no skinnyminnie either..but im getting back on track. im actually more into faces and personalities..but if youre in shape thats cool too ;-). i am on the tall side so i would prefer same height or taller but sometimes you can get around the height thing just cant be below my chest. ;-)I'm smart but only have an associates degree in social sciences. am in the middle of figuring out what i want to go back for....haha that was an interesting development or lack there of..i did meet some good friends there but now they are all scattered..i have a pretty interesting life timeline i think.was never great or really concerned with being on time or deadlines. But unfortunately this cruel world enforces them a little too much... I liked it there but didn't realize it at the time and only lived there for a couple years. I worked at a golf course for about two weeks. ha they were very unorganized.My dad passed in march of ***, I would give anything to have him back. With his death came confusion, anger, depression and anxiety.He owned one of the most popular bars in the southern tier. His death was shocking. Many people loved him. He was my rock and center. so needless to say i am trying to learn how to live a good life without him and has been difficult....However, I am trying to get back to my old self again!On a lighter note! I am awesome and always have been, but all of my old friends have moved away and started families...and it's a weird feeling to feel almost left behind. I am deep down a lover if life and its way if presenting opportunity and irony at the same time. one thing, i dont mind guys that love sports, by all means i would love to go to an event or have a good friendly competition, ive even had a good time playing golf ...but just am not a huge sports nut. I have always been huge into music and all kinds of entertainment. I used to dj for my dads bar on the weekends. art....I can draw, I like to think I have a special talent, even though it probably will never make money. but i do want more some day. Whether if its owning my own business or doing something else.I want to learn both the guitar and piano. i listen to pretty much all alternative 90's miss this decade terribly, but all in all i have such an ecclectic music taste it is nearly impossible to list...but i like a lot of the newer modern indie rock stuff, 80's, 70's classic rock, i am an old soul and can listen to music on a deeper level. everybodies got their own life experiences that can be related to a song or even a specific band or artist. music is my life's inspiration it has helped me get through a lot of bullsh*tin my life. i wrote all this and i coulf still go on with the conversation....so if u read this far why not send me a message...yoy nwver know!? i am just taking it one day at a time right now am trying to save money and figure out my next step.. just hoped i could meet someone to do some fun stuff with and see where it goes. Probably a public place! dont care, we can make that up as we go along... I like randomness.coffee, movies, I love any place with music, live or even just a jukebox! I don't mind bars as long as we can get to know eachother. I like to play pool, however im not that good.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Jazz Salsa Documentary Horror Mystery
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