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Janessa, 53

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About Me

I am not your typical woman. I am a unique mix of old fashioned "take care of your man" and strong, independent woman. I am happiest when in a solid, committed relationship, but I am perfectly ok taking care of myself. My past is a happy, healthy place and my future looks very bright.. My sons, ***, are pretty much out of the nest (except when they need food or money!)I am looking for dating here with the hope that it will bloom into in a serious, forever lasting relationship.. that would be wonderful!Humour and intelligence are key for me, I really enjoy a man who has the wit to banter and play with me. My best times are with people who are curious, ask questions and are open to a wide variety of conversation topics. I find negative people tiresome and keep away from them.Laughter is part of every day of my life, you need to be able to see the humour in life and be focused on the positive!Walking is also a daily part of my life.. I am on my feet and on the go all the time!I'd love someone who enjoys holding hands and walking with me. I prefer a destination when I walk alone, but when I'm walking with My Love, it won't matter where we walk, so long as we go together. I prefer a man who is tall and stocky, but Chemistry is hard to predict! I am a curvy woman, which in female speak, means I am plus sized. If you appreciate a soft, warm, strong, sturdy and healthy woman who is feminine and who savours her womanhood, you'll like me. I want one good man who appreciates my big heart, big brain, big laugh, and big body..So, having FUN is what I'm looking for.. What does that look like?It means spending an evening going to listen to live music, bike rides, cooking (you cook, I'll wash up!) walking, just meeting for coffee.. Maybe it means heading out to a market, festival or concert together!I am an easy going, easy laughing, happy woman.. If you are light hearted too, then maybe we could have some fun times :)Just so you know.I LOVE all things related to water... Any water ideas will be welcome!!I don't really like cooking.. Can I be the sous chef?Numbers are just a bother for me, words are my life..Want to make me happy? Don't buy me anything.. Talk, spend time, listen, be with me.. That is what makes me happy.I LOVE road trips.. Surprise me.. There isn't a place I don't want to go.. Somewhere where I can hear your voice, see your eyes, watch you speak, catch a sense of your physicality..I want to hear you laugh!!So, a patio? A park? A pub?We'll know very quickly if there is a spark.. But because we are both decent and kind people, we will enjoy the visit even if we know it will be the only one..If there does seem to be a friendly feeling, well then, lets plan our first adventure!Cheers!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Amira

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Looking to get the most out of life. It doesn't matter what you do for a living but what you do with your free time. I love to take the small signs and run with them. I like to balance personal responsibility with having a great time. I love football; Saints and LSU. I really love college football. I'm very concerned with my personal appearance. I expect the person I'm with to do their best at keeping in shape to the best of their capabilities. I can handle a bit of extra weight on a man. I want to meet someone that can be romantic. I'd love to travel to the American southwest and to Machu Picchu. I will consider a man with grown children. Casual drink; no food.

  • Dani

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I don't like all the men I have met, but... I am not interested in most all Men and perhaps that is what makes those few unique individuals that I do connect with all the more special. About myself -I am always looking forward to tomorrow, I am confident but I sure know my shortcomings too~~I definitely know how to admit when I am wrong.I have found that there are so many things I Love to go and do, I wish there were more hours in my days, But more than that...Someone to share those things with me.I am very fortunate to have had a lot of diverse friends throughout my life so far, I am very passionate about things that interest me. When I care about something or Someone, you will definitely know it.. I can be restless, analytical, and opinionated. I am not offended by a dirty joke, and I am sure I remember a few myself.. I Love to laugh, Life is too short to be So serious and uptight. I have been single over 8 years now so I have become very Independent, But sure would Love to let someone take some of that away:) Variety is the spice of life, there are so many things that I want to do in my lifetime, Someone to share those things with would be more than a Dream Come True !!!~~ I Love to Cook, Write, Dream and get my hands dirty once in while,I get so much Joy out of watching flowers grow and Birds eat. Taking walks and smelling a Sweet smelling flower, watching the Sun Rise or Set.. But most of All I Want Someone who enjoys the same and is ready to also start enjoying the same with someone. I want to Love again and Be Loved Again.:)......Someone to Inspire and Be Inspired By. I have chosen to try on-line dating again, I am not a woman that likes to spend a lot of time texting or talking on the phone.I think if there is a common interest there, we should meet and see if there is a connection and take it from there. I hope that if you are interested you would "ONLY" contact me if we share some of the same ways of thinking. If your a man that has just come out of a bad relationship or a divorce, I ask that you PLEASE pass me by. I know that sounds harsh But I know from experience that you need "Time" behind you after a break up, if only to figure out what went wrong..I know there are no guarantees in anything we do in life but If I am lucky enough to find that Special Man in my life, " I want it to be the last for us both". I am not a religious person, But I am full of Faith & that is where I draw my strength from, I ask that we share in the same Belief as there are so many to choose from..if you even want one. As 4 me..There will always be 1" just " + One! The only "One" Way 4 me and I will never change that about myself. I would never try to change the man I fall in Love with, I know so many failed relationships where one of them just wouldn't be like the other wanted them to be..Isn't that Crazy? I would not have you any other way but they way that made me Love you :)) I am the same person everyday, I wake up in the same body and I act the same..!" if it was a bad day ".:) *~~~HONESTY UP FRONT WITH ONE ANOTHER~~~*!.:)I have been a wife, a mother, a best friend, a daughter and a Struggling single Mother. I have done the Very Best I know how at being all of these things, and I hope to be a lot of other things before I am done with this life. You will be the one that makes me smile when your away from me, You can be Passionate and Spontaneous and You want to love someone as deeply as I do. You don't live in the past, even though you have one, "we all do". You look to the future with Great Expectations yet to come, Optimistic about everything. You can even smile if you forgot your umbrella on a rainy day:). You are content with yourself and you sometimes have a few surprises in store for that Special someone in your life, and she never has to wonder if you love her..She will just know..I am Looking So Forward To Meeting You 3The Best of Luck to All who are on this site for the Right Reasons... I think we can both agree on this together, I do Love a good Coffee and think it is a great public place to meet for the first time, but open on this..

  • Jaylynn

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Who said being responsible is also about boredom? Working is great, and I do it well...but when I'm not, I want to enjoy this ride in life...drink, dance and laugh, being an adult does not mean we must always be adultish, now does it? I respect good conversation...and will try to keep an open mind to anything you have an opinion on. I like to have fun, and enjoy the person I'm with, not one to sit in the house and stare at a T.V. I can be silly, spontaneous, and very out going, not a preacher, and don't wanna be preached at. I'm tired of drama, ex's, hang-ups, saddness, anger, etc. I didn't hurt you and you didn't hurt me, someone else did, let's blame them :). ALIEN HUNTING!!!!!! Beer or other feet un-balancing substances optional

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