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Janessa, 53
United States, Maine, Sanford

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I am not your typical woman. I am a unique mix of old fashioned "take care of your man" and strong, independent woman. I am happiest when in a solid, committed relationship, but I am perfectly ok taking care of myself. My past is a happy, healthy place and my future looks very bright.. My sons, ***, are pretty much out of the nest (except when they need food or money!)I am looking for dating here with the hope that it will bloom into in a serious, forever lasting relationship.. that would be wonderful!Humour and intelligence are key for me, I really enjoy a man who has the wit to banter and play with me. My best times are with people who are curious, ask questions and are open to a wide variety of conversation topics. I find negative people tiresome and keep away from them.Laughter is part of every day of my life, you need to be able to see the humour in life and be focused on the positive!Walking is also a daily part of my life.. I am on my feet and on the go all the time!I'd love someone who enjoys holding hands and walking with me. I prefer a destination when I walk alone, but when I'm walking with My Love, it won't matter where we walk, so long as we go together. I prefer a man who is tall and stocky, but Chemistry is hard to predict! I am a curvy woman, which in female speak, means I am plus sized. If you appreciate a soft, warm, strong, sturdy and healthy woman who is feminine and who savours her womanhood, you'll like me. I want one good man who appreciates my big heart, big brain, big laugh, and big body..So, having FUN is what I'm looking for.. What does that look like?It means spending an evening going to listen to live music, bike rides, cooking (you cook, I'll wash up!) walking, just meeting for coffee.. Maybe it means heading out to a market, festival or concert together!I am an easy going, easy laughing, happy woman.. If you are light hearted too, then maybe we could have some fun times :)Just so you know.I LOVE all things related to water... Any water ideas will be welcome!!I don't really like cooking.. Can I be the sous chef?Numbers are just a bother for me, words are my life..Want to make me happy? Don't buy me anything.. Talk, spend time, listen, be with me.. That is what makes me happy.I LOVE road trips.. Surprise me.. There isn't a place I don't want to go.. Somewhere where I can hear your voice, see your eyes, watch you speak, catch a sense of your physicality..I want to hear you laugh!!So, a patio? A park? A pub?We'll know very quickly if there is a spark.. But because we are both decent and kind people, we will enjoy the visit even if we know it will be the only one..If there does seem to be a friendly feeling, well then, lets plan our first adventure!Cheers!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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