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Ela, 51

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About Me

Honest, independent, adventurous farm girl, everyone is considered a friend until they crap on me. I ride a motorcycle, like camping and staying active outdoors. I am into fitness and healthy eating. Trying yoga but having trouble with the patience part of that! My hobby is stained glass and am teaching myself guitar. I am passionate, caring, and young at heart.Looking for interesting, honest, fun, mature man to hang out with. Someone who will treat me with respect. I don't go to bars to find someone and am still from the mind-set that the guy does the asking out. I am a Christian and have old-fashioned values, cussing and vulgarity are turn-offs, although a good off-color joke is not off-limits. I am looking for someone who takes care of their body and mind, who is not into material possessions, someone to share life with. I don't like the winter months so much anymore and hopefully can relocate to warmer climate in the future. Life's too short to be on a favorites list....send me a message *** for coffee somewhere. No long drawn out meeting in case there is no chemistry. Do not want it to be painful!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

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