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Bambi, 51

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About Me

Thanks to help from family, I now have a sunroom overlooking the water and a 'woman cave' in the works in the basement. I like baking, sometimes cooking but I'd rather be playing Rock Band and let someone else do the cooking LOL. Ok, I can compromise, so we cook together and then play Rock Band together. This is my new favorite winter hobby ... learning to play an *** vocals. My body can no longer handle the cold weather... brrr. I do like to traveI and would aspire to spend a month or two in a warm climate in the winter. I love exploring.I am happy, intelligent, witty, goofy, playful, caring, responsible and a community volunteer.Good things happen to me because I choose to focus on .... good things! LOL.I am a people person, love meeting new people and hope to travel more in the futureI like playing on the lake all summer - swimming, boating, reading a book, bird watching, watching my brother fish...I love eating vegetables grown in my garden and am building a perennial garden with pathways.I'm a very casual, earthy girl who also loves to get dressed up for an occasional dinner out.I spend a lot of time with family and sometimes travel to see them. I live in a nice house and have nice things but I'm not perfect, I don't expect you to be perfect.I don't care what you drive or what you own. I care about who you are and what you have done with your life and intend to do in the future.I have many interests and I have listed them all before, but I think that just confused people. I have experienced a lot in the 51 years that I have been here. Life is always expanding, growing, learning and I am interested in participating rather than watching. What have you been doing for the past 40, 50, or 60 years?I am retired from the software industry and after a short stint buying and selling antiques, I'm now sticking with buying jewelry wholesale which I sell on eBay and rent space in a local store. This is 'fun' money. I am financially stable and love living a simple lifestyle. I volunteer for 2 non-profits and do whatever I can to help from painting, fiberglassing and sweeping floors to building and updating websites! I am thankful to have the opportunity to meet and talk to new people!I would love to find a man with integrity and intelligence (can't stress that enough - my daughter is a Fulbright Scholar). A man who is positive, loving and wants to have fun, laugh, and finds the silver lining in all situations. Drama and games are not allowed in my life. If we are not a match then we should move on because .... there are plenty of fish ;)I am looking for a longterm, serious relationship but would love to start it out with some casual conversation and get to know each other. No pressure, no expectations. I am always at my best near the ocean, water, outdoors, mountains, etc. Something simple like meet at a pub with an outdoor band... lol. We'll figure it out!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Zipporah

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am a country girl at heart. I am pretty easy going, not temperamental, and love anything that makes me laugh. I don't watch a lot of television. I like to exercise, watch sporting events, hang out with my kids, and go dancing somewhere in the midst of it all. I have been blessed. Early evening walk in the park or on the beach, meet at happy hour, something simple and fun

  • Dani

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I don't like all the men I have met, but... I am not interested in most all Men and perhaps that is what makes those few unique individuals that I do connect with all the more special. About myself -I am always looking forward to tomorrow, I am confident but I sure know my shortcomings too~~I definitely know how to admit when I am wrong.I have found that there are so many things I Love to go and do, I wish there were more hours in my days, But more than that...Someone to share those things with me.I am very fortunate to have had a lot of diverse friends throughout my life so far, I am very passionate about things that interest me. When I care about something or Someone, you will definitely know it.. I can be restless, analytical, and opinionated. I am not offended by a dirty joke, and I am sure I remember a few myself.. I Love to laugh, Life is too short to be So serious and uptight. I have been single over 8 years now so I have become very Independent, But sure would Love to let someone take some of that away:) Variety is the spice of life, there are so many things that I want to do in my lifetime, Someone to share those things with would be more than a Dream Come True !!!~~ I Love to Cook, Write, Dream and get my hands dirty once in while,I get so much Joy out of watching flowers grow and Birds eat. Taking walks and smelling a Sweet smelling flower, watching the Sun Rise or Set.. But most of All I Want Someone who enjoys the same and is ready to also start enjoying the same with someone. I want to Love again and Be Loved Again.:)......Someone to Inspire and Be Inspired By. I have chosen to try on-line dating again, I am not a woman that likes to spend a lot of time texting or talking on the phone.I think if there is a common interest there, we should meet and see if there is a connection and take it from there. I hope that if you are interested you would "ONLY" contact me if we share some of the same ways of thinking. If your a man that has just come out of a bad relationship or a divorce, I ask that you PLEASE pass me by. I know that sounds harsh But I know from experience that you need "Time" behind you after a break up, if only to figure out what went wrong..I know there are no guarantees in anything we do in life but If I am lucky enough to find that Special Man in my life, " I want it to be the last for us both". I am not a religious person, But I am full of Faith & that is where I draw my strength from, I ask that we share in the same Belief as there are so many to choose from..if you even want one. As 4 me..There will always be 1" just " + One! The only "One" Way 4 me and I will never change that about myself. I would never try to change the man I fall in Love with, I know so many failed relationships where one of them just wouldn't be like the other wanted them to be..Isn't that Crazy? I would not have you any other way but they way that made me Love you :)) I am the same person everyday, I wake up in the same body and I act the same..!" if it was a bad day ".:) *~~~HONESTY UP FRONT WITH ONE ANOTHER~~~*!.:)I have been a wife, a mother, a best friend, a daughter and a Struggling single Mother. I have done the Very Best I know how at being all of these things, and I hope to be a lot of other things before I am done with this life. You will be the one that makes me smile when your away from me, You can be Passionate and Spontaneous and You want to love someone as deeply as I do. You don't live in the past, even though you have one, "we all do". You look to the future with Great Expectations yet to come, Optimistic about everything. You can even smile if you forgot your umbrella on a rainy day:). You are content with yourself and you sometimes have a few surprises in store for that Special someone in your life, and she never has to wonder if you love her..She will just know..I am Looking So Forward To Meeting You 3The Best of Luck to All who are on this site for the Right Reasons... I think we can both agree on this together, I do Love a good Coffee and think it is a great public place to meet for the first time, but open on this..

  • Ela

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Honest, independent, adventurous farm girl, everyone is considered a friend until they crap on me. I ride a motorcycle, like camping and staying active outdoors. I am into fitness and healthy eating. Trying yoga but having trouble with the patience part of that! My hobby is stained glass and am teaching myself guitar. I am passionate, caring, and young at heart.Looking for interesting, honest, fun, mature man to hang out with. Someone who will treat me with respect. I don't go to bars to find someone and am still from the mind-set that the guy does the asking out. I am a Christian and have old-fashioned values, cussing and vulgarity are turn-offs, although a good off-color joke is not off-limits. I am looking for someone who takes care of their body and mind, who is not into material possessions, someone to share life with. I don't like the winter months so much anymore and hopefully can relocate to warmer climate in the future. Life's too short to be on a favorites list....send me a message *** for coffee somewhere. No long drawn out meeting in case there is no chemistry. Do not want it to be painful!

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