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Bambi, 51
United States, Maine, Sanford

Offline, last seen Mon, 08 Jun 2026 18:20:37

About Me

Thanks to help from family, I now have a sunroom overlooking the water and a 'woman cave' in the works in the basement. I like baking, sometimes cooking but I'd rather be playing Rock Band and let someone else do the cooking LOL. Ok, I can compromise, so we cook together and then play Rock Band together. This is my new favorite winter hobby ... learning to play an *** vocals. My body can no longer handle the cold weather... brrr. I do like to traveI and would aspire to spend a month or two in a warm climate in the winter. I love exploring.I am happy, intelligent, witty, goofy, playful, caring, responsible and a community volunteer.Good things happen to me because I choose to focus on .... good things! LOL.I am a people person, love meeting new people and hope to travel more in the futureI like playing on the lake all summer - swimming, boating, reading a book, bird watching, watching my brother fish...I love eating vegetables grown in my garden and am building a perennial garden with pathways.I'm a very casual, earthy girl who also loves to get dressed up for an occasional dinner out.I spend a lot of time with family and sometimes travel to see them. I live in a nice house and have nice things but I'm not perfect, I don't expect you to be perfect.I don't care what you drive or what you own. I care about who you are and what you have done with your life and intend to do in the future.I have many interests and I have listed them all before, but I think that just confused people. I have experienced a lot in the 51 years that I have been here. Life is always expanding, growing, learning and I am interested in participating rather than watching. What have you been doing for the past 40, 50, or 60 years?I am retired from the software industry and after a short stint buying and selling antiques, I'm now sticking with buying jewelry wholesale which I sell on eBay and rent space in a local store. This is 'fun' money. I am financially stable and love living a simple lifestyle. I volunteer for 2 non-profits and do whatever I can to help from painting, fiberglassing and sweeping floors to building and updating websites! I am thankful to have the opportunity to meet and talk to new people!I would love to find a man with integrity and intelligence (can't stress that enough - my daughter is a Fulbright Scholar). A man who is positive, loving and wants to have fun, laugh, and finds the silver lining in all situations. Drama and games are not allowed in my life. If we are not a match then we should move on because .... there are plenty of fish ;)I am looking for a longterm, serious relationship but would love to start it out with some casual conversation and get to know each other. No pressure, no expectations. I am always at my best near the ocean, water, outdoors, mountains, etc. Something simple like meet at a pub with an outdoor band... lol. We'll figure it out!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I like to travel, I took my first cruise this year and now I think I am hooked. I enjoy hanging out going to outdoor restaurants and I am very family oriented. I love all music. I am a very kind hearted woman, fun, and down to earth.I DOnt like writing about myself so if you want to know more about me send me a message.NO BAGGAGE PLEASE. getting to know eachother maybe over a drink

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Looking for a kind, caring,tender, Compassionate man who have diverse interests. I like quiet evenings with my man, good conversation, dining out, romantic walks, visiting place of interest, and just have a nice time together. I like to garden, I like to go dancing, to the movies. Music I like is easy listen. I enjoy ice hockey.I have 4 teenagers so I do listen to just about anything. 1 child that lives with me that's in high school 3 more years to go. The other 3 have moved out and on there own. I enjoy going to church. I do try to work out and keep myself in shape and eat healthy. I am told I have a great smile and I love to laugh and have a good time. Thanks for looking at my profile and have a wonderful day. I would go out for coffee or dinner, so we could talk to get to know each other. if its a nice day go for a walk.

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  • Latonya from Sanford | Woman | 53 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Im a hardworking and responsable. Woman of God..I enjoy outdoor fun, indoor fun and everything in between. Im a great cook and I love creating new recipes. I love the theatre and going to the movies. Out to dinner . I love animals also. I love music of all kinds and especially contemporary praise and worship,oldies, blues,jazz etc. I eat healthy and excersize regularly.I enjoy the gym very much. I look and act much younger than my age. Guess its the joyful soul! Lots more to tell but Ill save it for when you ask!My perfect match would first, be a Christian. Catholic, Presbyterian etc. And if you are nonreligious but believe in God and have good morals that's great too. Secondly , he would be my age but be young at heart! Have a healthy life style including eating healthy most of the time and has taken care of his physical body with excersise. Or at least be willing to incorporate it in his life. Thirdly, he would be a lover of people and animals. Last but not least, A good sense of humor wouldn't hurt either! Lol.I Would like to add that I am a person that is set on being a peace maker. I am content when problems are resolved and not left up in the air for Inaccurate assumption and hard feelings to grow. I am a good communicator and tend to go to the heart of an issue so both parties will have personal growth. That draws two people together but sometimes the truth is hard to take but necessary for conflict resolution and a deep love relationship. It bonds two people together. I am quick to admit Im wrong and Apologise. I don't take offense at the little things that are said accidentally or intentionally. Or the unforeseen things that may happen to mess us up and take us off track. Stuff happens to all of us and we just need to grow up and get over it. People are to quick sometimes To take offense and to judge your whole person by one little thing that happens. And that's very sad. Im not like that. I give a person the benefit of the doubt until they prove otherwise. Especially when first getting to know someone. Some people are to quick to write you off if you don't perform to their Unrealistically high extpectations. That too is sad. We can miss so much by not looking for the good in a person and only focusing on the bad. Well I've probably said too much but i was compelled to lay it on the line. Life is to short to have so many hang ups. So lets get together have some fun. See if we click or part friends. Relax enjoy life. Well, I beleive that a first date should be very public and casual. Meet for a coffee or in my case a carrot juice, LOL! Talk for a while and see if there is a mutual interest. Then if both.. agree, head for some fun or a bite to eat. Yes I eat alittle junk food sometimes!If youve gotten this far I have more pics on match.I would like to and this note: I am a young looking and young acting 53 year old woman. I am looking for the same. If you are my age and look like your 65 or act like it ..please pass me by..pls pass me by. If you are just looking for sex ..it ain't happinen here. Run away. I'm not trying to be rude...just realistic...I want a serious lasting relationship with a compatable mate. Chemistry is a must..we all want to be attracted to our partner...thanks ItalianBellaDona

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