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Lavender, 52
United States, Maine, Sanford

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About Me

First of all, I think that intent question is too black or white! Let me clarify...I am not into serial dating at all, but am not necessarily on the hunt for a relationship. Now about me.....hmmmmm I am a relatively busy single mom. I have an 18 year old son and soon, my time will be all mine. I am friendly, funny, and basically spunky. I have a fairly warped sense of humor. I work out about 5 days a week and am in good shape. I can't decide if I'm athletic, or average, or thin. I think it's all relative. I'm kind of little and cute, I'm told. I didn't have that option.Things I like are movies, (theater & snuggling at home), checking out new restaurants, live music, traveling, window shopping, red wine, politics, and definitely goofing off. Since I've been on this site, I have rediscovered that I actually really like writing. I dream of seeing more of the world someday when my son is safely in college. Previous plans were derailed by children! Yikes! I am enjoying meeting new friends, some dating and if it develops into a hot new romance, cool. Eventually, something more permanent is no longer off the table. At first, I had no interest in a serious relationship, but after 6 years, it's not quite so scary. This is actually scarier now!I enjoy a somewhat warped sense of humor. ;)I will not reply if you don't have a photo.I always wonder why the person who gives a glowing testimonial of somebody on a profile is not dating THAT person?!Another thing I wonder is why so many people do not post a photo? I generally assume that they are frightfully ugly. (I think that you probably think that too!)Or else you have a secret and don't want to be seen. So post a photo please. I will not answer an *** one. No man whores please. There seem to be way too many.Oh...and I do enjoy a little black dress and heels. We'll see what transpires :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rock Salsa American Adult Music Romance Western Archery Motorcycle Racing
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