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Bennie, 55

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About Me

I am a "what-you-see-is-what-you-get" person. No drama, no games! No ex in the picture. Very low-maintenance! I'm 5'1",***lbs., down-to-earth, sincere, witty, intelligent, and love to laugh and looking for someone who can make me laugh! My number one priority is my daughter so I can't just leave town at a moment's notice, although I do love to travel.I like going out but also don't mind staying in and watching a movie, as long as it's not scary! I love to shop....flea markets, malls, sponge docks in Tarpon, Wiregrass.....You can find me at the gym ***days a week. I am a cancer survivor. I've been in remission for the last 7 years and my doctor says it doesn't look like it's going to come back. I will gladly share more info once we get to know each other! :)I'm not into jazz, blues, or rap. I love POP....pretty much what my daughter listens to!....CLASSIC ROCK, mostly from the '70s............ but I also enjoy listening to Nickelback, 3 Doors Down, Daughtry!!! I LOVE going to concerts and to the little outdoor bars and listening to live music. I'm looking to date someone who doesn't live too far away so if we want to see each other for a little while, the drive won't take longer than the amount of time we have to hang out! FYI, I DON'T RIDE ON MOTORCYCLES OR ROLLER COASTERS!!!!..Friendship, trust, respect, honesty, communication. .. .. the ingredients for a successful relationship.I believe that chemistry is an important factor in the recipe as well.Please do NOT send me your profile without a RECENT photo of yourself. I'm not interested in what you looked like 10 years ago! My pics are within the last year, yours should be too. NO RECENT PICS, NO REPLY, NO KIDDING!!! No married men or one-night stands. Looking for my best friend. My parents have been married for 60 years and are still best friends. That's what I'm looking for.I look forward to making some new friends in the near future. If not, good luck in your search finding your life partner and soulmate. On a first date, I'd like to meet somewhere, talk and get to know the person, see if there's any chemistry, and decide whether there will be a second date. I want to make sure that we have enough in common to continue seeing each other. The place really isn't an issue as long as it's not too far or too noisy so we can talk and get to know each other. If we hit it off, a quick kiss good-bye could be in order but not interested in ending the night in a big make-out session with a stranger's tongue down my throat! (you'd be surprised).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Merlene

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I have many hobbies and I am looking forward to experiencing many others with that one special man...hey we all know that it's more fun doing things with that one special person. I enjoy romantic evenings either at home or a night out on the town. Enjoy working out and keeping myself fit. I enjoy dressing up in a little black dress as well as a pair of comfy jeans and boots. Especially enjoy watching football either at home or at a sports bar. College football to me is very exciting as I often go see my son play. My goals and aspirations have since changed from my younger years as I have accomplished most of them. I would have to say that my new aspirations would be to live life to it's fullest with no regrets making everyday count with lots of laughter and smiles. There are many things that make me unique and I would love to hear what you think makes me unique. I am a strong independant woman with a soft, loving, caring, affectionate side. I love music...I am the one that you will often catch singing and dancing while cooking or cleaning or just for no reason at all..just promise not to laugh...that might not be easy to do...really laugh all you want because that's what life is all about:). I enjoy most kinds of music however I don't enjoy Rap. Weekend getaways out east, upstate or long drives to nowhere are always fun especially with the right person. To end...it's simple I just want to find the one man that can be my everything and I can be his everything...someone that feels they are the luckest person to be with me as that's what I would feel about them. The first kiss is extremely important as I truly believe affection and keeping the fire burning is the foundation of a great long lasting relationship. You have to have heart and passion in order to live life to it's fullest. Be happy a smile goes a long way you never know you just might make or change someones day:) Open to many things...not much for meeting for coffee...meet for a drink where we can talk and get to know each other with hopes of good conversation and a strong feeling of not wanting the date to end with a desire for wanting date 2...3...4 and many many more.

  • Twanda

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Pls READ my profile before responding, & realize I'm authentic, loving & caring, with a fun, earthy, sweet, soft, sensitive side & not as rigid as my requirements may come across, yet I'm ruling out what doesnt work...TELL ME what we have in common in terms of interests, spirituality, holistic health/nutrition, animals (Please DONT hunt/fish)...Have recent reasonable looking photos ON your public profile...Be close enuf to age ***& TALLER than me with 5'10" minimum & hopefully 6' or more...Be truly single, divorced (prefer at least a yr) or widowed, NOT separated...Neat/clean/well-groomed, even totally bald is fine, but not distracting ungroomed balding patterns/straggly ear hairs/long nails...I can be obsessive with projects, but dont have addictions & DONT want you to have active addictions, nor to smoke pot (unless it is once or twice a yr), no communicable diseases...I did not say I drink socially bec that can attract people who must drink regularly when they go out &/or dont realize they have an addiction, and I dont consider it necessary for fun/joy other than occasionally having 1 or 2 drinks, which I enjoy at times...when I ask what you do 4 a living it is bec I am interested in what motivates you, bec I am not looking only at that in a man...I prefer you have at least a college education...I am spiritual, health & wellness oriented & would like if you are on a similar path...I was brought up Jewish, but don't practice religion, as it doesn't suit my values, other than for showing up in respect for family...I love Christmas... Warrior in you & the Feminine Goddess in me...I'm 5'9" slim-average shapely ***pds...Modeled some in my 20s...I dress with a chic, hippie, artsy, Goddess flair, Levis, yoga pants & leggings, heels with tall size 6 jeans by Victorias Secret, or whatever is necessary 4 the occasion...Been told I look much younger, & yes, my photos are all recent, tho I weigh 8 pds less now...I need my more serious side to be respected before I trust opening up fully, & when I do, you'll see my humor, silliness, sensuality, animality, and then there's no turning back...Most important, you & I continually value &; bring resolve 2 each moment of each experience, building a relationship on a solid foundation that is emotionally productive...I love constantly learning as well as teaching...I seek 2 continue 2 develop spiritually, 2 live each moment in a better way 2 grow/change/transform self, & 2 create loving truthful communication with all living beings beyond the veil of the belief system of the collective ego...IMO the negativity behind playing games/drama is a result of a lack of doing work in the spiritual and communication areas of life...When people have suffered or become compassionate enuf to take a spiritual path (not religion), be it 12 steps, mindfulness/Zen/other forms of Buddhism, there is more of an understanding & value of human suffering in self/others, & how 2 relate 2 each moment & communicate in creative way, so drama/games, if anything, is conscious, responsible, kind & loving...INTERESTS:*Occasional tv -;*Comedy (my best friend is a comedienne), / *Movies - Comedy, Sci Fi, Artistic, Independent, Documentary / *Poetry - Haikus / *Arts - Calligraphy, Graphic design, Crafts, Antiques-Country-Victorian decor & homes / *Music - Classic Rock, Country, Blues, New age, Reggae, Folk / *Words (Scrabble-Crossword Puzzles****Dream work / *Astrology*Reading - Holistic & Spiritual Healing people & animals ie Nutrition, Homeopathy, Buddhism; Auto/Biographies / *Writing&Proofread *Spiritual - *Buddhist Mindfulness & Meditation (Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction Jon Kabat-Zinn style, derived from Thich Nhat Han, attend all-day sitting/walking meditations****Nichiren Buddhist Chanting (Nam-myoho-renge-kyo devotion to the Mystical Law of Cause & Effect, transforming past Karma); *I-Ching work (Carol K.*Nutrition/Health Oriented - some Vegetarian/Vegan/Raw/ also Pescaparian bec eat some fish, tho want to eventually stop & only do raw vegan; also, raw org coconut oil is large part of my diet...So, lets get a heathy kitchen & lifestle going together!*Homeopathy - I study & receive treatment; Also I use & prepare flower & other vibrational remedies for friends & family*Exercise - daily now on mini-trampoline rebounder/ Favorite Yoga form is Iyengar/ Hiking *Animal Lover/PETA member- Enjoy animal healing, massage, Reiki, animal communication, esp with my orange 4-yr. old indoor cat Rusty & cats that are outdoors...I'm concerned about ethical treatment of all animals.....I no longer buy clothing from dead animals I'm content with exploring simple & spiritual things with my partner, & while I haven't been only motivated by material things, & I wouldn't settle for anything less than chemistry & true love, the things I like and feel called to do for myself and others, do require money, so I want a man who can afford to live at least reasonably so we could have a comfortable healthy lifestyle & help people & animals holistically...AND*Education/Aspirations - I want to go back to school to be a therapist or nutritionist &/or start a business related to my interests, either by myself or with you, my hopefully soon-to-be boyfriend...A long time ago I went to school to be a speech language therapist, but was unable to complete Masters...I value the education I received from the school of life, which I received along with great suffering, & which made me have to change & become a better personI like learning how to do things on my own rather than being a slave to the expensive services of others, such as doing my own nails, facials, nutrition, & using my own healthy flavored tinctures with stevia or green tea in restaurants, rather than drinking expensive unhealthy sugar/chemical laden drinks...If I dont get back to you right away/at all, I'm human & get turned down too, & I need to wait til I have time or take my time to meditate on which profile seems appropriate to respond to & when...or it could be bec current computer trouble...Men get upset that women need a lot of info & *** they will meet...Its helpful if you realize that a woman cannot help how she feels...kindly be tolerant cause God made women to be a way that actually benefit all in the long-run...I appreciate each man on here, & I esp love seeing photos of you with animals, so even if we dont speak or date, I wish you each Peace, Love & Light! I am old fashioned when it comes 2 dating, including in the sense that I want to allow a man to feel like a man so that I can feel my femininity, and so the relationship, or possibility of one, does not lose its charge...I am not looking for a bunch of free meals...If you live near me I would be happy enough having a drink of water or something small to eat, just to see if we are compatible...I always love Starbucks or similar :)

  • Timika

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I'm a laid-back, fun-loving, easy-going, humor-loving girl who will always be older on paper than I am in my head. I'm open-minded, a free thinker, and a free spirit.The first thing I notice about someone is sense of humor, and it's probably the biggest factor in my being attracted to someone. "I love people who make me laugh. I honestly think it's the thing I like most, to laugh. It cures a multitude of ills. It's probably the most important thing in a person." ~ Audrey HepburnI bleed purple and love me my Vikings, no matter how many times they break my heart ;) and can out scream most guys when the game is on. I love pro football the most, and pro baseball and hockey come a close second. However, I have resigned myself to the fact that I'm a much better onlooker than a participant - I guess we can call it athletically challenged - just sayin ;) I don't jog, bike or run (unless I'm being chased***walking, yoga and Pilates more closely match my skill set. I am not interested at all in hook ups - I want to make that point crystal clear! Dating is fun and I've met some very interesting people, but bed-hopping is not at all what I'm looking for. I'd like to make some sort of connection with someone, and I only date one man at a time. The only person I'm looking to judge or change is me, and I don't play well with those who try to judge or change me. I am not looking for a man to complete me - I'm looking for a man to complement me. That's complement as in "go together well with", not compliment as in "tell me again how good I look" - what a difference one letter can make ;)I am looking for a friend, a lover, a buddy, a playmate, a confidante, a partner. I'm low maintenance and not interested in anyone who isn't - drama belongs at the theater. Ego has no place in my world. I don't care how big your bankroll is, but I care very much how big your heart is.;Size Matters" and you'll know what I'm talking about ;)I love hanging out with friends, cuddling up with a big strong man, road trips, dive bars, karaoke, laughing, music, walks around lakes, being in the country, going up north, traveling (so many places on my bucket list!), slow dancing in the living room, walking in the rain, and just enjoying life. You'll hardly ever find me in a bad mood, and I can usually find humor in any situation. I can be outgoing and the life of the party, or quiet and contemplative.I can't possibly tell you everything about me here, so If you want to know more, drop me a line and let's get to know each other better! I don't really have any certain scenario in mind for a first date. I'm sure we will figure it out when the time comes and do what sounds like the most fun!

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