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Yaeko, 51

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About Me

I am blessed with a wonderful life including many loving family & friends; little else matters. I'm self sufficient + looking for same. I have a home & car & hope you do too. I seek a man to become intimate with-over time, but not in a hurry. I'm neither desperate nor co-dependent. I know how to be alone & quiet & enjoy my own company. However, though capable of fun on my own, I want HIM, a fun man to ENJOY & Share life with. I am not a drama queen, and NO, I don't like drama kings (yes, there are many) I'm very outgoing, yet private. I don't like gossip at all. I very much enjoy getting out in the world. I also enjoy a back yard cook-out. I'm not a tv junkie, prefer to pre-record "fave" shows (of which there are few) to view when not busy, like when it's raining & choices are limited. I love new & old music, live or radio or iPod or CD. I would enjoy an active man, yet, what I really want+need is a fellow with some smarts, a good conversationalist to hold my interest.The past is in the past. Married once, now divorced, I do not think it healthy we talk much about X's. A brief conversation is often needed to understand a persons perspective, but moving on is what life's about, after a loss from death, divorce or what have you... the FUTURE is my focus... and it MUST include JOY. I am looking for what I AM: honest & genuine, serious at times, silly others... hard working (smarter not harder is good too) I have a best friend with advanced cancer now (as I type this) and I KNOW life is Short & Precious. I want to live it. I DO LIVE IT. Want to join me? I don't & won't spend much time typing back-n-forth, as I prefer to meet in person because it is most revealing. Our 1st "date" (if we get that far) will be after our 1st "meeting-introduction" and that can be "Dutch Treat"... worry not, as I'm not looking for a free drink or meal... I'm looking for a "real" man, a gentleman. I'll know pretty quickly & I suspect you will too. IF you (we) Enjoy ourselves, This old fashioned Lady wants a Man who Knows how to Ask a Lady out for a "Real" Date. When it's "right" the butterflies will tell my gut. If not, I'll be honest & sweet & you will have lost nothing, right? A showman can act his act only so long, so Please, just let your "true" colors shine through from the start. I know Pobody's Nerfect, and we all have faults (and "baggage"...;REAL", please... and it will all be good :o)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lili

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am an independent mature woman that still likes having doors opened for her. I am caring and compassionate and have often been told I am a great listener. I have a great sense of humor and an adventurous spirit. I love spontaneity and surprises (but only the good kind!). I am equally as comfortable with dressing up for a candle lit dinner (with slow dancing preferably) as I am shooting a game of pool in jeans and splitting a pitcher. I love picnics on the beach and all kinds of music. Enjoy theater. I have solid core values and appreciate the same in others. Honesty, respect and compromise are the key to any good relationship. At this point in my life I would love to meet someone with similar feelings to share some fun and see where it goes from there. I am open to suggestions, I think after 10 mins. we would know if there is a common interest.

  • Jacinda

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    50ish FUN- I love to travel as I have a list of places on my "bucket list", I am financially secure, own my home. No smokers Looking for someone who loves to laugh as I feel laughter is the best medicine.; humor but I do have a serious side. Early retirement affords me the time for the few select causes that are DEAR to my heart. I enjoy listening to Buffett, Motown, classical rock & music from the ***'s. As an RN I am health conscious &; do yoga). Since I have to look at myself in the mirror, honestly, locality & integrity help to keep that mirror CLEAN. No one's perfect but I found I'm better off having left my baggage at the station & I don't plan to go back there to pick it up.I am seeking an intelligent man on the playful side, one who knows there is a time for play & a time to be serious. Although mature & responsible, I embrase my inner child & will go into "old age" kicking & screaming all the way. I refuse to ACT old. You only go thru life once so why not have a good time? Thank you for taking the time to read my profile......Teresa I've been told I could talk to a rock so hopefully it will not be too awkward. Meeting for coffee may be a good place to start. (That can lead into interesting conversations). Let's decide together..

  • Saturnina

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Here's a new bit of info....I'm probably gonna offend some but I'm only being honest...here goes...I don't like facial hair, I'm not attracted to bald, I don't do mixed races, non smokers really don't work with smokers....I've had it with men only interested in a sexual romp...I'm no prude but sex doesn't make me who I am...if that's you're only interest, then move on. I'm a romantic, I want old fashion true love....I want someone who thinks I'm beautiful dressed up, in jeans or my fuzzy pj's...I want to fall in love slowly but steadily...I don't want just a few weeks or months but very long term. Im looking for the guy who wants a real date...ask me out, pick me up at my house, take me out, bring me home, have a wonderful good night kiss & call me to do it again!!I enjoy life,I want to live without regret. I work full time, I have 1 grown son and a 4 year old granddaughter. I try to always be there for family and friends if they need me, but try not to be overwhelming with my opinions. I really like country music and dancing. DJ's are okay but live music rocks. I love to cook. I enjoy a nice meal at home with a good bottle of wine (red zin is my favorite) a nice guy to snuggle with on the couch but I like going out being social just as much. I'm hoping to meet someone with an open mind to doing different things. Couch potatoes need not apply. First date has to be a public place. Music, dancing, drinks, a bite to eat. The chance to talk and get to know each other.

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