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Laidey, 51
United States, Maine, Rumford

Offline, last seen Tue, 21 Oct 2025 21:47:36

About Me

I'm hoping this site will bring me to someone who compliments me. I am in this for a long-term relationship, so if you are just looking to date and nothing serious, please pass me by. I'm looking for someone hard-working, passionate, compassionate, dedicated and true. Someone who is willing to compromise and also agrees to disagree. You have to be easy on the eyes and easy going. I am not looking for someone to control me but someone to console me when the need arises. If you have younger children or children who still live with you, we are probably not a good match. I am looking for someone who is at the same place in their life as myself. Children are raised and out of the house and now you are looking forward to being sponteneous. Taking day trips or week-long vacations.I am a giver and a pleaser but i truly believe that it must be reciprocated. A relationshipship can not thrive if it is not built on a strong foundation of trust, friendship, loyalty and love, so...let's chat for a bit and see if we have the chemistry to be as one! I want to find someone who makes me giggle until I have tears in my eyes, melts my heart with a smile, works to make me happy and tells me that his future is only with me! Life is for deep kisses, strange adventures, midnight swims and rambling conversations.REQUIREMENTS: You must have a picture. You must be within the ages of 40 and 55. You must have your own place and your own vehicle. I would prefer not to date a smoker but it is not a deal breaker. I do not date obesely overweight men. Please be honest about your height as well. I do like taller men.One last thing:I am single because I refuse to change my relationship status for someone who falls short of what I deserve. Knowing my self values, I've chosen to reserve a spot in my heart for a real man, someone mature enough to understand that loyalty, commitment and honesty is a priority and NOT an option. I am looking for someone who is ready for:-Uncontrollable laughter-My family-Musical outbursts-Random dancing-My friends-Sad/Happy tears-Deep conversations-My imagination-My dreams-Walks in the rain-Random texts-Lots of affection and the acceptance of the real me. I think that first "meetings" should be very casual and unassuming with no expectations. Maybe coffee or a drink and then see if there is a spark. If not, no harm done and we both move on. At the least, maybe we have made a new friend. If it goes well and we mutually agree...make plans for date #1 or extend the current meeting.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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