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Laidey, 51

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About Me

I'm hoping this site will bring me to someone who compliments me. I am in this for a long-term relationship, so if you are just looking to date and nothing serious, please pass me by. I'm looking for someone hard-working, passionate, compassionate, dedicated and true. Someone who is willing to compromise and also agrees to disagree. You have to be easy on the eyes and easy going. I am not looking for someone to control me but someone to console me when the need arises. If you have younger children or children who still live with you, we are probably not a good match. I am looking for someone who is at the same place in their life as myself. Children are raised and out of the house and now you are looking forward to being sponteneous. Taking day trips or week-long vacations.I am a giver and a pleaser but i truly believe that it must be reciprocated. A relationshipship can not thrive if it is not built on a strong foundation of trust, friendship, loyalty and love, so...let's chat for a bit and see if we have the chemistry to be as one! I want to find someone who makes me giggle until I have tears in my eyes, melts my heart with a smile, works to make me happy and tells me that his future is only with me! Life is for deep kisses, strange adventures, midnight swims and rambling conversations.REQUIREMENTS: You must have a picture. You must be within the ages of 40 and 55. You must have your own place and your own vehicle. I would prefer not to date a smoker but it is not a deal breaker. I do not date obesely overweight men. Please be honest about your height as well. I do like taller men.One last thing:I am single because I refuse to change my relationship status for someone who falls short of what I deserve. Knowing my self values, I've chosen to reserve a spot in my heart for a real man, someone mature enough to understand that loyalty, commitment and honesty is a priority and NOT an option. I am looking for someone who is ready for:-Uncontrollable laughter-My family-Musical outbursts-Random dancing-My friends-Sad/Happy tears-Deep conversations-My imagination-My dreams-Walks in the rain-Random texts-Lots of affection and the acceptance of the real me. I think that first "meetings" should be very casual and unassuming with no expectations. Maybe coffee or a drink and then see if there is a spark. If not, no harm done and we both move on. At the least, maybe we have made a new friend. If it goes well and we mutually agree...make plans for date #1 or extend the current meeting.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Saniyah

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I'm fun loving. Brown hair, blue eyes, attractive, healthy, and in good shape. Look many years younger than my age. I enjoy being around people, but prefer small crowds, or just one-to-one as opposed to large parties. Enjoy cooking. I'm not much of an alcohol consumer, but enjoy an occasional glass of wine or frozen margarietta/daquiri. I like the beach, when there is an opportunity and would love to travel (even if it's small spontaneous last minute weekend road trips). Recently had the opportunity to go sailing a few times, which was a new adventure (so new experiences are always fun). I had a hard time choosing the "personality that describes me", as I don't think you can describe someone in just one word. I'm a romantic, but I'm also a very down to earth, caring, and passionate woman. I'm looking for a man who is emotionally ready for a relationship. Integrity and honesty is important to me. Must be a non-smoker. I love music, mostly Country . . . . I like to sing and have been told I have a good set of pipes. Play the piano, but I'm not Liberace by any stretch of the imagination. I have a good sense of humor; a good laugh is great for you. I enjoy watching movies. Although it will sound cliche . . . . I do enjoy long walks. I'm not looking for the perfect man as non-of us are perfect, but I'm looking for the man for me . . . maybe that is you. First dates can be a little awkward. I prefer to meet over coffee/tea, or possibly for a drink. I'd like to be able to get to know you, the voice, the personality.

  • Tria

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Looking to DATE ~ which by definition means I would like to repeatedly see someone to determine if there is enough chemistry between us to grow into a relationship...it's just not that complicated!!!!! Oh....and if you're into being chased or stalked then keep fishin' as I'm a tiny bit old fashioned.....if you don't show interest too then I'll let it drop.I'm looking for the one smart enough to not let me get away! I need someone with enough energy to keep up with me....I'm young for my age & most think I look younger by at least 10 years....just sayin! I've decided this is my year to get myself together, I'm currently a work in progress in health/fitness/weight loss but seeing good results if you're interested....and you need to be able to keep up or challenge me! Thanks for your time.....good luck if you pass me by....please respond if I write you as it's only polite, I can take rejection as well as attention.I Believe: That honesty is always the best policy, however, it can be softened to avoid cruelty....with that said; if you don't want to know, then don't ask! That you should always be very careful about what you ask for, be specific...you just might get it! That being alone may be lonely, but being lonely with someone is worse! That everything in life happens for a reason...time & patience may reveal that reason! That having material wealth does not define who you are but it does indicate how you enjoy your life.Interests: I like to do just about anything...except jump out of a perfectly good airplane, Mountain Climbing (I'm not talking about a climb up a big hill) or to play with snakes! I'm a fan of most sports but not a fanatic...I don't follow any particular team...prefer college over pro games, but never turn down an offer to see either live! Spending time with my girlfriends! I like most types of music, as long as I can understand the lyrics...not so much rap! I love to travel...;...and any warm beaches that have sun & sand. The sun on my face, wind in my hair, an icey drink in my hand...ahhh...on a beach, at a pool or in the back yard all work for me! I like to read, watch or go to the movies...no slashers, gardening & landscaping, remodelling & redecorating, riding horses or motorcycles, boating, having friends in for dinner, dinning out, museums, concerts, plays, zoos......the list goes on!Turn Offs: Hunting...would rather see a beautiful animal in the wild or zoo than on your wall! Liars...I'm a big girl...I can handle the truth! Silence...if there's a problem, then talk to me!Who am I?: I am a survivor, strong willed, soft hearted, more spiritual than religious with a strong faith in God, intelligent, honest, independent, strong minded, curious, well mannered, sassy, a bit of a tease, hot & sexy (or so I've been told) & sure to give you a hard time. I have a pretty good sense of humor...it's the only way to survive in life. I like lazy days as well as the crazy ones...the trick is balance. I am not a barbie doll (duh take a look at the pics) or a trophy wife...and I don't want to be one (a little motivation would be good for working out more). I'm comfortable in jeans, as well as a formal gown...I prefer barefeet or flip flops over 3" heels...although the heels are great for the butt! LOL! I like my house presentable 95% of the time...I have to be organized...I might be slightly OCD...lol! I miss being the person someone wants to get home to see at the end of the day! My career was not my priority during my marriage...I am not defined by where I spend 40 hours a week although I admit there is nothing like divorce for an economic change of values! I have held many titles in my life...mom, wife & lover were what fed my soul...the others just fed the body! I am not into drama or stress...I've survived the effects & just don't do it any more...if at all avoidable!Who I want: I want the "WOW" factor...if you understan that let me know. Someone who can make me laugh, can laugh at himself! Someone who smiles a lot & easily! Understands the difference between making love & having sex...yet understands you can have both within a relationship. Likes or loves to cook...with me or for me! You must "LOVE" dogs (there's a package deal)! You must be able to communicate...verbally, emotionally, physically...don't tune me out or ***! Can you dance in the rain? Do you see the beauty in a sunset or a drop of rain on a flower? Does a childs laughter make you smile & start laughing with them? Can you place your large, strong hand in the small of my back to lead me into a room of strangers so everyone knows I'm with you? Can you catch my gaze from across a room & tell what I'm thinking... Can you hold me if I cry & wipe away my tears....and not be the one to put them there! Can you be my best friend? Can you share your heart & soul?Yes! I am looking for a long term relationship...but it takes baby steps to get things started & get to know each other...so relax & chat with me! If you're looking to chat or IM for months before meeting...then keep on looking! I expect to meet you in a pretty short amount of time to see if there is a real chemistry! None of us are getting any younger...lol! I still want ***years with someone! Not all things in life are fair...however, if you want a response to an e-mail then attach a picture...regardless of your reasons for not having one posted...only fair !Some of you are dancing on my last nerve! When I give you my phone number it's because I would like to get to know you a lot better...it is NOT so I can be a free 900# to assist you with your hands on exercise! Sorry to be crude but seriously! I'm not a prude but I do have rules prior to dating!Thanks for reading...there is still more to learn about me, regardless of how long this profile has become, so drop me a message if you are interested in learning more! Good luck to all! Ahhhh...a first date??? hmmmm...someplace where you can sit & talk, or walk & talk. I'd love to say something awesome, and original, and inspiring...but to be honest, I would like to get to know you and that means you have to talk to me!

  • Marlys

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    A little about me, I have been divorced for 7 year. Life is definitely different. Specially the peace that comes with being alone. Miss having adult companionship and someone to do things with. Dont care for the bar life, which is why I'm on here. My hope is to meet a nice guy along the way.I am a hard working, non materialistic woman. I spend my free time, working on a house project, gardening, walking the beach. Attending local events, travelling, preparing a nice meal, hanging out with friends and family. I am blessed to have three great sons, that are now off and living there thing. Which has left me with lots of free time to live and enjoy life, "My Way".. Something that we could both agree on and enjoy to do. Let's see if there is a spark!!!!

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