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Gilda, 52

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About Me

MMMM... this is the hard part. can honestly say, for probably the first time in my life, i dont know what to say. Describing oneself is hard to do. Guess i will state what others have said about me, witty, always a quick come back. sometimes sick since of humor.people pleaser, dependable. can be stubborn often but bend if coaxed. my biggest goal in life so far was to raise my girls with love and hope they can function in this world as caring human beings. they are my life. my backbone. would love to meet someone who can be my king and i his queen. love all kinds of music. love to spend quiet evenings together but like to be social now and again. sometimes like to shut out the world and just be with that special someone. lookingfor a loving and rewarding life.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ila

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    “What should I do about the wild and the tame? The wild heart that wants to be free, and the tame heart that wants to come home. I want to be held. I don't want you to come too close. I want you to scoop me up and bring me home at nights. I don't want to tell you where I am. I want to keep a place among the rocks where no one can find me. I want to be with you.” Jeanette Winterson Handful...searching for someone with big hands....Someone willing to take their hands off the handlebars of life.... and whose world does not drop off at the edge of town...A few important details to consider before contacting me...Some things I have learned are... not to concern myself with most of the worlds problems...It is my opinion that If each of us would take a GENUINE interest in our PERSONAL worlds we would eventually individually and THEN collectively impact the world entirely.....Is that enough ly's?Do Not Misunderstand....My patriotism is unrivaled....LOVE our Country & RESPECT our flag...Believe we owe a LIFEtime debt to every Soldier & Sailor...I have a wall in my home with the word "Remember"...Below it hangs a Picture of "The Wall".... many images of our flag... and the POW bracelet I wore for almost 40 years now framed respectfully in a shadowbox...All Gave Some...Some Gave All....Salute!That the hotter things are...the faster they cool off...Education & Job Titles do not improve your chances for Love...It is your character that defines you...not your career......put zero importance on material things...so, If you Search for someone with a bunch of "stuff" to represent their "worth" or level of success....wrong girl...Beauty can sometimes be a curse....someday...we will all grow old & ugly...in comparison to our younger years...do not let your mirror deceive you...No One "Knows Exactly how you feel" EVER...That a good dog can cure almost any hurt....and singing out loud makes everything better....That If you "fib" about little things...You will Lie about what is important ...If you are not a man of your word....you are not a man....in my opinion...I will willingly return the consideration....Because...I have been careless with a heart....and in turn my heart was broken....now I am Prudent....I still make pictures out of clouds...and wonder what I'll be when I grow up...I would rather know the feeling of the run to 1st base***times than the slide into Home Once.Sometimes you have to swear like a Pirate...Without Fear there would be no Courage....I prefer Campfires over Candlelight...Consideration over Flowers...Actions over Apology'sAnd Affection over Everything!Can't Golf...but willing to drive the Golf cart....Love to fish....I hold the secret citation for "The Large Mouth Limb Fish"....Most comfortable in Jeans & a PonyTail....but willing to be persuaded.... Would Love to learn Guitar & the Timbales...Willing to RE Learn Love....I have been unmarried for almost 32 years....I don't need anyone to take care of me....I am at peace with who I have become...I am comfortable alone....I wish that could change.... I wait for someone who reaches for my hand *** who devours me with his stare....tames me with his touch....and entices me with his Integrity...And likes to kiss...A LOT!Some favorite quotes...."Let me tell you somethin' You already know...; Rainbows...It's a very mean & nasty place & I don't care how tough you are...it will beat you to your knees & keep you there permanently If you let it...You...me...nobody...is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard you hit....It's about how hard you can GET hit... & keep movin' forward...how much you can take....& keep movin' forward...That's how winnin' is done".... ~~Who I'm searching for.....~~"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly; who errs and comes short again and again; because there is not effort without error and shortcomings; but who does actually strive to do the deed; who knows the great enthusiasm, the great devotion, who spends himself in a worthy cause, who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement and who at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly. So that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat". ~~, "Man in the Arena" Speech given April 23, ***Who I'm searching for....~The man in the Arena~ Define Date....There seems to be some confusion...

  • Tova

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hi! I like discovering new places and going places that I have never been. Getting lost is the best part of discovering something new. I like meeting new people because you never know where they will take you. I love to laugh so making me laugh is a good start. Life is too short not to enjoy it. I love surprising someone just because. I will share my food though how much you get depends on how much I like what I am eating lol. I can play dress up but I prefer to being comfortable. Life is too short not to enjoy it. I sponsor a child in Mauritania in East Africa. He is 8 years old. I am very excited about this, and happy that I care share a little of what I have to make someones life better. I go to church every other week. I would love to go every week, but I have to work every other weekend. If you have children or animals that is great. Family is important to me as I am sure it is to all. I love to cook and I always say the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, and no I haven't killed anyone yet lol. I do a lot of walking. I like sports but I am better at watching then playing and I can't hit a ball to save my life. You would spend more time laughing and shaking your head than playing and you would probably try to hide the fact that I came with you :) I like romance and being romantic, cuddling and watching a movie with a bowl of ice cream. I like muscle cars, antiquing, drives in the country. My music is varied with country being my least favorite. My favorite group right now is "Five Finger Death Punch." Not into games or head games. Be yourself and be honest, why would you not? I am not into the bar scene. I just received my associates degree in business, but decided to continue for my bachelors. I changed schools and degrees. When I graduate I will be a sociologist and hopefully will be working with seniors. This is were my heart is. I love my job and I have learned a lot about life and love from the residents. They can always make me smile. I do not mean to sound negative or mean.Two things that seem to be issues lately. It seems for some to be a problem that I am going to school. Just because I am going to school does not make me smarter or better than someone else. I am doing this to better myself. Blue collar, white collar it should not matter to anyone. The person you are on the inside and how you treat others is what is important. The second this is I do not drive right now. It is a long story, but no I did not do something bad or lose my license or anything like that. I can understand how this may be somewhat of a problem. Thank you for understanding. Oh and do not write me just to find out why I do not drive right now out of curiosity, because I will not answer you. First date should be a meet for a drink or coffee. If you really aren't hitting it off who wants to force themselves to sit through a long evening when you would rather be any place else lol.

  • Veola

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I love to talk, read, write and try new things. I love spending time with family and friends. I\'m looking for someone new. I love to have fun and laugh, so someone with a great sense of humor is a plus.

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