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Xara, 55

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About Me

just a very special lady (talking about what is on the INSIDE..:))..,still waiting for that right one for me...certain things i look for and need,want and deserve,and none of these things are anything unreasonable or unrealistic..you kidding??...hard enough just finding "half normal" these days..:)..i AM real tired of and frustrated with always having to ,unfortunately,run into only the nuts and the wrong ones..and at times it seems finding my dream mate is only a hopeful wish..lol..BUT!!!!!....I do not give up..i keep the faith and the hope that SOMEWHERE he must be out there...:)..anyway....even though i have hope that that right special one for me IS out there..i am not expecting or holding my breath (would have run out of breath LONG ago if i did THAT..:))..so.,would be REAL nice to ,AT LEAST,run into some decent,polite,"mostly normal" at least,lol.interesting,REAL(as opposed to phony)people to hang out with,do thing with,have some fun,...a good companion...i do respond to messages that give me SOMETHING to respond to..most do not..communication style is way too important to me and one of the keys..and let me say this..i ONLY respond to messages,,,nothing else...well...that is it for now...all you need to know for now you can see and read here..need any more info...ask...now..here goes..and hope it starts getting better here for me now...so far have not been impressed by anything...lol...ciao when i meet someone for the very first time i do NOT consider that a real date...that is just getting together for the first time to see if there is any connection and any potential for a date... there are PLENTY of things i like to do for fun on a real date..,and almostanything can be fun with with the right company..i listed only SOME of my interests and things to do in the "interests' section...there are much more.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Brittney

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I'd love to find the right guy to spend time with. I work (mostly) regular hours. I like working out, watching football, live music, festivals. I have a couple of dogs, so my house is kind of a circus sometimes. Most people say I'm a nice person - I think I'm pretty much okay ; - )I have a strong work ethic, and appreciate that in a person. Meet for coffee or a drink, and go from there.

  • Selene

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    This really is all about me, isn't it? ok...here's my take on my personality for what it's worth. I'm an easy-going woman who enjoys hanging out with family and friends. I enjoy a good sense of humor. I'm usually light-hearted and upbeat, I try to be open-minded and generally prefer kindness over having everything my way. That doesn't mean I am a push-over or meek...I just think rudeness is a huge character flaw. I have a fun job, however it consumes most of my time. I'm reasonably intelligent (this is my take on this remember)..and I love good conversation. If you'd like to get to know me better, drop me a line. If nothing else, we'll have a laugh or two. No harm, no foul. I'm not sure about this whole online dating thing yet. If I decide I like it, groovy. If not, I'm outta here! :- She and I are both ok with that. Take care, good luck and keep at it till you find it! First date? First meeting...coffee, sit by the lake, something casual. I truly enjoy talking to people to find out about them. And No...I am not wanting to 'twist up the linen' as soon as we meet, so don't ask.

  • Presley

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Since I'm not much for the "bar scene", I thought I'd give this a try. I really don't like to toot my own horn so I guess I'll just relay what my friends say about me. I'm very outgoing and a great listener. I'm kind, caring and generous to a fault it seems. I'm very honest and don't play games. Who am I looking for? Someone who can make me laugh, is sincere and honest. I love the outdoors. Camping, fishing, canoeing, taking walks on the boardwalk. I love the beach as long as I'm not all slathered up and baking in the heat. I love any kind of music except rap.....I can go on but you get the idea. I am a HUGE Giant's fan! Well that's about it for now...if you'd like to know anything else, don't hesitate to ask :) First dates are tough. I'm thinking that coffee at a Starbucks or coffee house would be nice. I don't drink coffee but iced tea will do me just fine :)

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