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Xara, 55

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About Me

just a very special lady (talking about what is on the INSIDE..:))..,still waiting for that right one for me...certain things i look for and need,want and deserve,and none of these things are anything unreasonable or unrealistic..you kidding??...hard enough just finding "half normal" these days..:)..i AM real tired of and frustrated with always having to ,unfortunately,run into only the nuts and the wrong ones..and at times it seems finding my dream mate is only a hopeful wish..lol..BUT!!!!!....I do not give up..i keep the faith and the hope that SOMEWHERE he must be out there...:)..anyway....even though i have hope that that right special one for me IS out there..i am not expecting or holding my breath (would have run out of breath LONG ago if i did THAT..:))..so.,would be REAL nice to ,AT LEAST,run into some decent,polite,"mostly normal" at least,lol.interesting,REAL(as opposed to phony)people to hang out with,do thing with,have some fun,...a good companion...i do respond to messages that give me SOMETHING to respond to..most do not..communication style is way too important to me and one of the keys..and let me say this..i ONLY respond to messages,,,nothing else...well...that is it for now...all you need to know for now you can see and read here..need any more info...ask...now..here goes..and hope it starts getting better here for me now...so far have not been impressed by anything...lol...ciao when i meet someone for the very first time i do NOT consider that a real date...that is just getting together for the first time to see if there is any connection and any potential for a date... there are PLENTY of things i like to do for fun on a real date..,and almostanything can be fun with with the right company..i listed only SOME of my interests and things to do in the "interests' section...there are much more.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Carolyne

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Just looking for conversation, more than one line in an e-mail. Tired of the games...hey you never know maybe having conversations would lead to something more. It would be nice to meet someone who is real. I am looking for a real relationship, to spend time and share special moments with for the rest of my life. My children are grown and I have two grandchildren 9 and 2. I like the beach, flea markets, arts and craft festivals, working in the yard, sewing, swimming in my swimming pool, traveling, dancing, and I love to fish.I am a secure and independent classy women. It is just more fun to have someone to share lives moments it with.Live life, love and laugh often!Smiles, Christina:) Just a casual meeting first and just getting to know one another.

  • Steffanie

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I have been accused of finding the silver lining in just about every situation! I don't like getting angry. I believe it is a waste of time and energy. I like to go to the gym and work out. I am not a fanatic but it does feel good and I like to be healthy. I usually work out ***to 4 days a week. I enjoy working out but it would be more fun with a partner! I read a lot!! I love to travel to warm places! I like sports but not fanatical about them! I love to tailgate!! There is so much that I would like to see and do. From simple things as just sitting around a campfire and gazing at the stars to traveling to places I have never seen. I am at home on the couch watching a movie, waiting for the crock pot to finish something awesome I have conjured up to dressing up and going out on the town in heels and dressed to the 9s. I would like to find my special someone. I don't expect him to be Mr. Perfect, simply because I am not Ms. Perfect. But I would like him to be my best friend. Someone easy to talk with, where we can have conversations late into the night and if we disagree that is ok too. We just agree to disagree. Holding hands, cuddling, kissing is all great when you are with the right person. Anything else please feel free to ask me...I want to be able to retire and enjoy life, travel, spend time with grandchildren - if I have any. Absolutely love music - I listen to such a variety. But not so much rap or hip hop. I also love to dance! Total surprise!! That would be cool. But I love to play pool and darts, not good at either!!! Take a walk in a park by the water. Somewhere we can talk and just be ourselves!! Then if we want to continue have dinner, go dancing.

  • Kirstin

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am a happy, active and optimistic woman looking for a best friend to enjoy life's adventures with. I have a sparkle, my eyes and smile are filled with the appreciation of life. I love horses and ride several times a week. I love my work in health care and am caring and genuine by nature. I like adventure, the beach, travel, all kinds of music, nature,dancing,movies,reading,dining,cooking,biking,kayaking,walking. I am looking for a man that has learned from his past, and has moved beyond; someone that wants to be close, share life and have fun; We must respect each other, truly enjoy each other's company, have similarities and unique differences that we value and encourage in each other. Someone that has common values of honesty and trust, monogamy and commitment. I love my friends and family. My ideal first date is one we decide on together.It would be somewhere we could talk.We would learn about each other, laugh,and be comfortable with excitement in the air. There would be attraction and flirting and fun. We would discover that we like a lot of the same things but have differences too. We would not want the evening to end and the time would fly. We would set the next date before we left each other and plan to talk on the phone because we both want to.

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