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Contessa, 54
United States, Maine, Oakland

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I want to thank anyone interested in my profile but I would please like to let you all know that if you do not have a profile picture, please do not contact. I am being honest, and an *** attraction is a must for me just as I would expect it needs to be for you as well.....and no, you cannot send by ***, but thanks anyway. Gents, I am real and say it like it is so please if I can just add on here (speaking for alot of women) first of all, have a pic, even if it is only 1, smile in your pics....a lady can tell alot about a man by his smile and make sure we can see your face clearly....not from 20 feet away, also when creating a profile, use you noggins....we all have them, be a bit creative...there is nothing worse than someone who cannot think about anything to say about themselves and what they are looking for in a person.......gee wouldn't that be a great date for us ladies.....lol.....not.If you don't like someone saying it as it is in her profile, then you certainly would not like meeting her in person.- Walmartians are a fav.....Love the outdoors in warmer temps, but no camping...give me sun, sand and surf for the best reactions, but sun and warmth will do.Love thunder storms and hearing the rain on the roofLove taking pics of old architectureLove puttering in my home and gardensNew adventures, new people, new explorationsHave to be able to laugh easily, dance with passion, and be spontaneousI am moving, somewhere warm for my work and future retirement.....hate snow, hate cold weather, so dating has to be casualLove most music except opera, can't dance to that, but my fav is anything latinComfortable at home watching tv, on the computer or out on a night on the town having fun.Just as comfortable putting on jewelery and a dress as I am with tools in my hands***PRIVACY NOTICE:Warning! Any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law.-IT IS RECOMMENDED THAT OTHER MEMBERS POST A SIMILAR NOTICE TO THIS. YOU MAY COPY AND PASTE THIS PRIVACY NOTICE I believe the first date should be in a highly public area, and not a date that is hard to get out of if you know it just isn't there...you know, that spark, it has to be immediate, there has to be some sort of connection, whether it be the light in your eyes, the great smile, or that sexy voice....Meeting for coffee or tea is the best first date, let's not make it a stupid date.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Techno Play Musical Instrument Indian Turkish Poker
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  • Fred from Oakland | Woman | 55 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Relocating for the right man is definitely an option!If you're truly serious about finding someone post a recent pic!!!!!!Just an FYI, if you post pics of yourself holding a beer bottle/can I'm pretty sure we're not going to be a match. If you have "undecided" on your profile to the question "Do you want children" we're not going to be a match as I have "decided" at this point in life that I do not want to have any more children. I really don't understand men in their 50's being undecided on this topic unless they are willing to do absolutely anything to get a woman, including have more children. It would be great to meet someone that I mesh with, but then isn't that what we all want. I'm looking for someone that's willing to start as friends and should a relationship develop that's great. I do have a playful nature as well as saying whats on my mind so if that's an issue for you then I'm not the one for you.If your idea of camping includes anything other than a hotel, I will not be joining you. I am just as at ease in a dress and heels as a pair of jeans and t-shirt. I love to cuddle in front of the fireplace or TV with that special someone. I love little surprises both giving and receiving in addition to being very romantic, sensual, passionate and a wonderful listener and companion. I am an independent person, so I understand my partner needing their own space and time just as I do.I like comedy clubs and going bowling or hiking thru the woods. I like walking the beach in the early morning and in the evening when the sun is going down, splashing a bit in the ocean and collecting odd shells. Deep sea fishing is something I truly enjoy as well, though haven't had the opportunity for awhile. I love going out for an evening to see a play, my first was Phantom of the Opera and that's when I fell in love with the theatre. I also enjoy going to the local movie theater to see the latest film. Dinner out is great, but dinner in with a bottle of wine and candles is a great evening as well. With regard to music I think it really depends on the mood at that particular time and tend to like most genres.I have no interest in an *** prefer to just meet if we both have an interest in each other rather than wasting time with a bunch of *** low key to determine chemistry.

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  • Lela from Oakland | Woman | 53 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I consider myself to be honest, and open minded, not afraid to speak my mind.I am a very caring person who likes people. I love the outdoors, sunrises, sunsets,beaches, fishing, thats a new one for me, I really enjoyed it. I love animals,gardening,arts and craft projects, reading and so much more. I pretty much enjoy most music,but some of my favorites are Skynard,Young and the Beatles. Right now I am looking to date for fun and companionship, and if someone comes along I guess we'll see where it goes. I am a down to earth woman and easily to get along with who likes to laugh and just wants to enjoy the rest of my life. For u guys out there, that keep up with a "Friends with benefit offer, u can keep that shit, I can have that, but I don't roll like, and never will.Good luck to all ! First dates can be a little nerve racking,so whatever would make us both comfortable. I think something simple, going for a bite to eat someplace relaxing, like a hole in the wall with good food. Or a walk on the beach with coffee or whatever, like I said 1st dates can be awkward and I think it's easier to go simple to see if we click and then expand on possible future dates.

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  • Doriane from Oakland | Woman | 52 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hello, I'm a woman that totally believes in honesty, looking for that special someone that can add to my life (fun, laughter, romance, being silly etc) There needs to be chemistry 4 sure. I don't necessarily believe in the luck thing, but I believe that these statements are very true, what do you think?*No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry**Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste there time on you***Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful****To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world*****Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smileOh ya, one more, Love & Love always read from the same book BUT not always from the same page I'm open for ideas. The coffee thing works for me.

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