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Zella, 53

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About Me

I like to think I'm a good listener or at least I try very hard to be. I like to read body language. I also try very hard not to judge because it will only come back to me in form of bad karma or close me off to the possibility of knowing someone deeply. I like to sew and design things (wall hangings, quilts, tools, clothes) and build or repair things. I don't like hanging out in the sun. I love the ocean and camping. I don't cook but am a fan of those who do. I like working out at the gym. I used to be a Civil War reenactor, thinking about maybe getting involved with it again. I like wearing frilly clothes. I've been told by others that I'm weird (don't know what that means) but it's always (I mean always) said with a smile and great fondness. I like watching baseball/football but only with others. I'm pretty comfortable in my own skin. I can stay calm under pressure (at least look like it on the outside).I would like to hear about you.Update: The nose comment on my photo was meant to show off my nose in a very proud way.......I'm so surprised at how many of you guys think I don't like my nose (eye-ka-rumba). But just the same, thank you all for feeling the need to reassure me that my nose is ok......very thoughtful. I like men who are assertive and comfortable in their own skin. It's hard to write what I think is an ideal first date because I like things to be spontaneous....what can be written about that.....takes the surprise out don't you think? I would rather go for something simple to decide if we click....then let loose whatever makes life flow.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Altair

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    If you are not brave enough to post or send a picture then do not waste either of our time. I am , so I would like you to be: - confident; - independent and financially secure; - generous in life and love; and, - has work ethic I am looking for a man who wants to look after me, because I have a care giving personality and will certainly look after my man!! I want a man who holds a healthy outlook on life that can see past obstacles or challenges and is willing to help out when needed. I am interested in a man who is between the ages of ***, 5". I am hoping to find someone with a terrific sense of humor, who is adventurous, playful, intelligent, honest, reliable, willing to make an effort to make things work no matter what it may be, and a person of genuine character. And let's face it, I am a true woman, so I like surprises and romance! A spontaneous bouquet of flowers that are not a part of an apology can go a long way. We all have "baggage", but if you've learned how to carry it and are willing to open your life up to a real woman, then look no further. I am a hard working professional, who is honest, caring, reliable, and fun. I am also a mother of two wonderful young adults (okay they are typical young adults, as a mother I have to think they are wonderful ;) I do not want to rush into a relationship but down the road, I am looking for a long-term commitment. If you are looking for something on the more casual side of dating, please look for someone else. I love keeping busy and active. I prefer a phone call or a coffee over an e-mail. Life is too short to be messaging back and forth!!!!! P.S. Must attach a photo that is less than one year old. No photo, no reply. Just meet for a coffee or drink. No pressure!!

  • Doriane

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hello, I'm a woman that totally believes in honesty, looking for that special someone that can add to my life (fun, laughter, romance, being silly etc) There needs to be chemistry 4 sure. I don't necessarily believe in the luck thing, but I believe that these statements are very true, what do you think?*No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry**Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste there time on you***Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful****To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world*****Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smileOh ya, one more, Love & Love always read from the same book BUT not always from the same page I'm open for ideas. The coffee thing works for me.

  • Hiedi

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    IF YOU DON'T LIKE TALKING ON THE PHONE AND THINK TEXT AND *** CONVERSATION...I DON'T!!! Text is to just say hi or to see if we can talk on the phone. I will NOT hold a conversation by texting. Dang, I hate to keep adding things here. It's been pointed out to me that I cuss, sometimes too much...I'm 55 and don't think this will change much...if cussing upsets you, guess you should pass me byI DON'T TAKE RIDERS...PLEASE DO ME A FAVOR AND DON'T ASK!PLEASE!!! IF YOU ARE MARRIED OR LIVING WITH SOMEONE IN A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP, PLEASE DON'T CONTACT ME! I'm NOT interested in being ON THE SIDE or a F-BUDDY. Please read my profile and make sure we have some things in common before contacting me...I won't hesitate to tell you if I think we don't.THE MENTALITY OF THE MOTORCYCLEBE WHAT YOU ARE SAY WHAT YOU THINK DO WHAT YOU WANT GO WHERE YOU WILL STAND BY YOUR WORDIf you scare easy, you might as well quit reading now. Or maybe looks are the most important thing to you. Keep going. When a hand is extended upon meeting someone new and the handshake is not accepted, that's an insult. If someone writes to me, even though I'm not interested, I do send a response. What's wrong with the rest of you? Do you have so many friends that you don't need another? I'm just saying, it's rude not to respond when someone makes a friendly gesture. I don't feel you can get to know someone well through texting and IM. I like to go to the phone pretty quickly, hear a person's voice, laugh with them and see if we have anything to say to each other.While I am looking for a long term relationship, I'm also interested in making new friends. As for the relationship thing, I am looking for that man who can look me in the eye, always tell me the truth and make me laugh. You might think that telling the truth is easy but I've come to find people avoid it when they think someone will get mad at them for saying it. I prefer to tell the truth and hear the truth, even if it hurts someone's feelings or mine. Those that prefer to deal with things by using the silent treatment need not apply. ALSO, SINCE I RIDE MY OWN MOTORCYCLE, I'D PREFER SOMEONE WHO RIDES FOR A RELATIONSHIP. Nothing better than being on the road with your someone special. If you don't ride, I know we could be friends but if you didn't like motorcycles and many people don't, well, that wouldn't work out.I believe myself to be intelligent, hilarious and sexy. I am passionate about many things, in a relationship and in the world. I believe that I can do anything (my mom agrees)and I usually succeed, sometimes due to blind luck. I am a smart ass and politically, libertarian is about the only thing I can find some agreement on. One of my friends says I'm a redneck-liberal. About church and God. I don't go but I believe...something I read in an *** "I'd rather be on my bike thinking about God then be in church thinking about my bike." I say "Thank God" everytime I ride for giving me a good day to ride and the ability to ride my own.I'm hoping to find the person who is already the way I imagine my man to be. Hopefully, I might be close to your ideal. Let's face it. We're grown and pretty much set in our ways. I've also found something out about kissing. If you don't like the way someone kisses, where can you go from there? Friends for sure. I like my kisses slow, soft and sensual. Hard and quick is only good for a couple of things...kissing is not one of them.I am a free spirited, slightly opinionated woman and hoping to find the same in a man. I love the wind in my face, whether on a horse, a motorcycle, the beach or the top of a mountain. If you have little interest in music or listen to things like smooth jazz or easy listening, we ain't gonna get along. Don't know much about classical music but wouldn't mind learning more.One more caveat. I treat others the way I would like them to treat me. This means I try to always do what I say I'm going to do. Call when I say I'll call. Be there when I say I'll be there. Many people seem to have a problem with this but I believe it's the way grown up human beings should act.One more thing...I understand if you don't want to write a lot about yourself or post a picture on this site but if you contact me, be ready to have a conversation, send more info and a picture to the ***'ll provide Let's ride!

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