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Zella, 53

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About Me

I like to think I'm a good listener or at least I try very hard to be. I like to read body language. I also try very hard not to judge because it will only come back to me in form of bad karma or close me off to the possibility of knowing someone deeply. I like to sew and design things (wall hangings, quilts, tools, clothes) and build or repair things. I don't like hanging out in the sun. I love the ocean and camping. I don't cook but am a fan of those who do. I like working out at the gym. I used to be a Civil War reenactor, thinking about maybe getting involved with it again. I like wearing frilly clothes. I've been told by others that I'm weird (don't know what that means) but it's always (I mean always) said with a smile and great fondness. I like watching baseball/football but only with others. I'm pretty comfortable in my own skin. I can stay calm under pressure (at least look like it on the outside).I would like to hear about you.Update: The nose comment on my photo was meant to show off my nose in a very proud way.......I'm so surprised at how many of you guys think I don't like my nose (eye-ka-rumba). But just the same, thank you all for feeling the need to reassure me that my nose is ok......very thoughtful. I like men who are assertive and comfortable in their own skin. It's hard to write what I think is an ideal first date because I like things to be spontaneous....what can be written about that.....takes the surprise out don't you think? I would rather go for something simple to decide if we click....then let loose whatever makes life flow.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Isabelle

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Oh, lordy! Where do I begin? This is my first time doing something like this, so bear with me. I am looking for somebody to settle down with because I'm getting too damn old! I am an independant woman who is a homebody on the weekdays, but enjoys a good time on the weekends whether it be going out or hanging out in the backyard with my family and friends. I like to go fishing and camping whenever I can and even bait my own hook! I love the water, but I can't swim. I love to drink, but I hate the hangovers and that's why I love my Sundays with my favorite movies, a V8 and a pickle (best hangover cure, I swear!) I have a large, very close family and have one daughter who is 30 years old and typing this for her right now. (hahaha). I do not like people who do drugs or drink too much. I am seeking somebody who feels the same about family as I do, who I can trust and feel comfortable being myself with. During the week, I love to cook and it would be nice to have someone to share that with! Nothing too elaborate. Something simple with maybe a couple of beers and getting getting to know each other.

  • Catherina

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am a woman who loves variety, adventure and being somewhat of an "; type personality possessing a big heart and very compassionate personality. I am one who is an "age is just a number" thinker. Sometimes people put ages in catagories and I have found that embracing all ages, races and cultures is the most exciting gift one can give yourself. I believe in working hard and yet I so enjoy playing too. I enjoy music venues, horseracing, Not a gambler) boating, bike riding, community art fairs, current fun events and being involved with good friends is very important to me and even though my family isn't here I love them dearly. I thrive on music except no heavy metal, house music and hip hop. I think music is an international language and it can influence our mood, thoughts and bring you up or press you down, depending on the type of lyrics listened to. I have lived in MA, HI and love the beaches in both states. I have no children at home with me and work a full time job in the health insurance industry. I rent my own place and live alone currently. I am a lady in public with southern femmie traits, however know how to enjoy letting down my hair and embrace the awesomeness of Gods creation, the beautiful outdoors! Sitting by a bon fire in the cool of a clear evening is very relaxing to me. Don't get me wrong, dressing up is an enjoyable thing to do when the occasion calls for it. I believe we are all equal in the eyes of God, non of us soaring above the other when it comes to value! However we all have our morals, values and qualities which set us so apart from others. I am a firm believer in treating others kindly, do unto others as you would have them do to you and staying true to yourself. I love romance, humor, venturing outside the human demands of comformity and enjoying life one day at a time.My goals are to continue to learn and improve who I am as a woman, travel more if the opportunity presents itself and maybe fall in love one more time while living here on earth. I am rewriting my first date experience as my initial one was a bit too advanced for a first date. Just meeting in a public place, chatting, hopefully some laughter will occur. If attraction and chemistry remain, how awesome would that be.

  • Doriane

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hello, I'm a woman that totally believes in honesty, looking for that special someone that can add to my life (fun, laughter, romance, being silly etc) There needs to be chemistry 4 sure. I don't necessarily believe in the luck thing, but I believe that these statements are very true, what do you think?*No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry**Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste there time on you***Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful****To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world*****Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smileOh ya, one more, Love & Love always read from the same book BUT not always from the same page I'm open for ideas. The coffee thing works for me.

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